We know these people and do to curtian circumstances, this womens husband is not around. While he has been gone, she has been getting fatter and fatter. How can my wife let her know that its getting out of control?
2007-09-28 00:05:22 · 16 answers · asked by Adam P 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the husband complains to me, about his wifes weight and how he doesnt not like it and it is leading to a divorce, he says. We know she is aware of her weight, we are not suprising her with this information. I hate hearing him *****.
We just want to make her aware of the fact it may be leading to her divorce. Its non of our buisness, but they are friends.
oh, and I am the fat police!
2007-09-28 01:13:32 · update #1
two words, "jenny craig".
2007-09-28 00:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is probably over eating due to being depressed about her husband being away. If her health is a concern, your wife should bring this to her attention. Some time it takes a shock to bring some people out of this. Your wife can sit down and have a long girl talk with her and may suggest that she may need medical help to get through this. It's her health that should be the concern not her looks!
2007-09-28 07:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, why should it mater to you? It isn't up to you or your wife to tell her. Maybe due to circumstances you have no idea about, including the fact that her husband is away, she is having problems coping and she is dealing whith those problems by eating, this in turn can be making her depressed, whereby she may feed her depression by eating or "Stuffing". Further she may also have a medical condition such as a Thyroid problem or may be on medication that is making her gain weight! You don't know the whole story obviously. Let the woman be, it isn't any of your business.
2007-09-28 07:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by chefddr 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
This woman is going through a deep depression probably caused by her husband. Instead of her husband complaining about her weight he should be giving her the support that she needs to get her out of her depression. If he is looking to get a divorce for something that he probably caused himself then she is better off without the bum. Weight is a very sensitive issue. Just be there for her and try to get her out of her depression.
2007-09-28 08:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by mikemja316 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Believe it or not your wife's friend knows she is gaining weight. If your wife really want to help this friend, she should see if she feels depressed and how she can help with that. She can invite her out to activities that takes her from food and into more active things. Sounds like the friend already has stress in her life, why add more by calling her fat.
2007-09-28 07:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by ONLY 1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is likely that she already knows that it is getting out of control. She is likely turning to food to help fill the void of her husband. If your wife can do things with her when she starts to turn to food or exercise with her a few times a week, it would help.
2007-09-28 07:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by Angelic Valentine 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She probably doesn't need to be told. Women know when they're getting fat and you all telling her about it won't help. Maybe just offer to be walking partner, or join gym together.
2007-09-28 07:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by NinjenWV 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If shes obese and you like and love her it shouldn't bother your real friendship. I'm pretty sure she knows it herself! Either accept her and not be ashamed to be around her or not. I only weight 120 lbs myself and Some people dint accept me because "they have said" I look like I'm a sick pile of bones and their embarrassed to be around me. I have a heart of gold. So too bad for them.
2007-09-28 07:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by Suspicious/wonder 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand this question? Are you guys the fat police?Don't tell that woman something like that. You know that's not right.
2007-09-28 07:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by peggy 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i hope her husband does leave her so she can find a man that isnt so shallow. when he starts going bald his new wife can leave him.
2007-10-05 11:17:28 · answer #10 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does it matter to you ? are you attracted to her ?and who are you to say someone is out of control?what if she posted a question to how to tell friend to tell his wife to shut her big mouth???not a nice question is it...
2007-09-28 08:02:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋