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2007-09-28 11:44:12 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

I am living far away from her guys. With my husband. I was in Australia before. But just moved to the UK last month. That butch is in France. I am stressed to the sky when I think abt her. I was depressed for the whole half of this year, just recovering from it.. And now that butch is trying to get in my way again..

2007-09-28 11:49:14 · update #1

All, she just cannot accept that I come from an Asian background and that I am different! I have lived in so many countries, met so many people, but I have never met someone like her. And why did it have to be my mother in law?????!
She wants me to be like .. what? typical french girl???!
FYI: She's had pretty harsh childhood. But I thought that's supposed to teach you to grow wiser! Am I wrong?

2007-09-28 11:52:58 · update #2

36 answers

I am sorry you feel that way.

2007-09-28 11:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Darby L 3 · 3 0

I know you are going to hate to hear this but you should never wish death on anyone. How would you TRULY feel if you woke up in the morning and found out she died the night before?
Mother in Laws are known to be instigators and some love their grown sons too much. Some are only trying to help.
Maybe if you talked to her and explained to her how you feel she would be willing to ease up and be friendlier. I can almost guarantee that if you were nicer to her she would do the same in return.
In worst case scenarios it is best just to stay away from In Laws.

2007-09-28 11:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

That's an awful thing to say. She can hardly do you any harm when she's in France and you are in another country. Stay away from her if she upsets you and grow up.

2007-10-02 11:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Be Very care full what you wish for. My mother in law wished my father to rot with cancer. 3 months later she got lung cancer. Keep your distance from this woman and do not let her words or comments effect you. Why do you care what she thinks.

2007-10-02 07:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0 0

That's to bad! You do know that you are responsible for your own feelings and the way you feel about her.
So whatever hate you may have for her is just your thoughts, and your own fault for letting someone get to you.
I cant believe you are old enough to be married, you should grow up.

I wish you the best!

2007-09-28 11:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by DJ_<3_JI 2 · 1 1

That sounds absolutely evil. The only exception might be if she were teminally ill and suffering terribly and then you might wish for her to find peace and pass on. How terrible to wish for someone to die. I am sorry that anyone has to feel this way and express it to others.

2007-09-28 11:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by turkeybrooknj 7 · 1 1

i understand you are upset.
but do you realize what you are saying?
i wish my mother in law dies tonight!?!
i think its terrible that she did not acet you, but its probally becuase of where she was raised. you cannot help what you are born into. but you are being no better of a person then her if you are wishing death upon a mamber of your family. blood relative or not...there is no excuse for being crule. and that goes for the both of you.

2007-09-28 12:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by nicole 4 · 1 1

I don't know if you're saying this out of anger or not, but if you are, then you should be ashamed of yourself for thinking like that. I know you don't give a care what we think on YA, but what kind of person would want someone dead?

2007-09-28 11:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by 2Beagles 6 · 1 1

Whats the question?

2007-09-28 11:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by Ultimate Guitar Hero! 5 · 1 0

Rina it sounds you like are need of a lot of prayer. Are you and your mother-in-law not responsible adults? There is plenty of distance between you so what is the problem? Get a grip and stop acting like a spoiled brat. Peace and God bless.

2007-09-28 11:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by cave man 6 · 0 3

Well if she is suffering in agony she might wish to go soonest.

If she is perfectly healthy suggest you leave your husband.

2007-09-28 11:47:54 · answer #11 · answered by Jewel 6 · 0 0

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