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Marriage & Divorce - 25 September 2007

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We ended on a bad note, I found out he was getting married and I had no idea. I knew him and I knew he was not ready for that type of commitment. It wasnt two weeks later and he was calling me again. I knew I could not see him anymore. It has been almost 3 years since hes been married and I still love this man even though I dont even talk to him. I can still feel him in my bones and I have really tried going forward but I am still stuck at square one with no progress. Now I just found out that he is in jail and I want to contact him. It has been so hard to be patient and think it out. I just want him to know that I really did love him and I still do and Im here for him. I know that this sounds open and shut but my my feelings wont go away. I need someone to give me some guidance. I cant talk to my best friend about him b/c she thinks he is such a loser for what he did to me. But my heart is real and I dont know what to do I want contact him what should I do?

2007-09-25 05:25:29 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs. 530 1

hello..this guy i like stay in different city..i plan to pay him a visit and this will be our second time seeing each other..i was introduced to him last 2 week when i went to his city. Is it ok if a give him a present when i meet him..am i too fast??

2007-09-25 05:17:42 · 17 answers · asked by kushimys 1

2007-09-25 05:14:14 · 23 answers · asked by carry 1

2007-09-25 05:07:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my cellphone was cut off yesterday for the first time in four years. i decided not to pay my cellphone bill for this month because i have other bills that i would like to catch up on and my cellphone is not important right now for the time being. my mother calls me early yesterday morning t 7am like she always dose to tell me what to do. my mother naggs the hell out of me everytime i go out or be with my husband on weekends because we were recently seperated and we are working on our marraige. we are getting our new place in novermber so iam moving in in two months. whenever i spend time with my husand my mothers calls my cellphone 24/7 with petty mess and it is always about her and her problems. iam trying to have a good time with my husband and all she dose is call my cellphone and keep up mess. when found out that my cellphone was off she got hot mad because i did not want the phone back on for this month.

2007-09-25 05:03:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-25 04:47:59 · 15 answers · asked by Laska 2

How would you react if you were told that you could not satidfy them sexually? What would you do?

2007-09-25 04:45:39 · 21 answers · asked by eplayerj 3

continuing the last question.. Just 2 day before the marriage she told me that she has a boyfriend and she doesnt want to marry..Than i refused for the marriage but all the preparation was done for marriage .so from her side every body started crying even she also started crying to marry(may be family pressure ). I did afterwards warning her forget his boyfriend after marriage..she agreed..after 1 month I took her to meet her boyfriend last time..but there she refused to come along with me..

2007-09-25 04:42:31 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now and we love each other and he bought a ring for me and i just happend to see it and i think he could be perposing... the only problem is that im still a senior in high school and he just graduated last year do you think it is to young to get married when you are 18???

2007-09-25 04:17:24 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

two of them! I will not get my party because they are using the money for fishing! Is this fair or am I wrong? I never had a birthday party in the 12 year's we have been together! I am upset! Do I have a right to be? He will be reading this! So please specify who is wrong and who is right? And why?

2007-09-25 04:11:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband went through a mental breakdown. He has since been diagnosed as Psychosis. I have been trying to be there for him. He is a very nice person and willing to do anything for me. He just admitted to me that he cheated with 3 different women. He also admitted to smoking marijuanna. He also admitted to lying to me about drug possession arrest that I had to bail him out with our 4 year old daughter's college savings. He never told me about his mental illness. I heard from a aunt of his that he took medications years ago. I confronted him about it and he denied it. I married him and trusted him and now I am being hit left and right with all these things he feels he should let me know now. I don't guilty because I don't want to be with him because of all the lies and betrayal. I feel guilty because I don't want to be with him and he is mentally ill. I am so unhappy. Do you think I am wrong for making him go back to his mother's house?

2007-09-25 04:07:47 · 27 answers · asked by Tiffanysogood 1

I hear nothing from him for 2 days straight. I try calling him on Friday because we were supposed to go home Saturday and I wasnt even sure that I had a way home. I get a text message late friday night saying I will call you soon and then I wait and get nothing until after i went to sleep (I missed the call). I had my parents drive down to get me and the boys. I text him that I was riding back home with my parents. He text me "thanks for not letting me see my boys before you took them out of the state- very classy move." To which I replied "I am going to our home with our boys, come home to them." I have called, left messages, e-mailed, and text trying to see if he is ok and I finally received a text message 6 days later saying that he was ok and nothing else. He didnt come to his sons 6th birthday party or even call for that matter. He hasnt tried to contact the boys at all. He left me with no money (we dont have a checking acct. right now) and no vehicle.

2007-09-25 04:07:31 · 9 answers · asked by JkG 1

Would you think it strange if your husband or partner sat at a computer every day asking questions to total strangers?
Ive noticed some people must spend literally hours asking questions,have they no work to go to? They cant all be house husbands surely.

2007-09-25 04:05:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am kind to them, buy them things, cook for them and am there for them if they need me. They tell me to shut up, that I am an idiot, stupid and roll their eyes at me when I talk. I think that my disciplining them for the way they treat me will only make things worse, my husband suffers from the guilt of divorce, even though the divorce wasn't his fault, and does nothing to correct them. I thought and hoped that their relationship with me would get better over time, it only seems to get worse and I don't know what to do. My daughter sees their behavior and I have to remind her that she shouldn't act this way also....she thankfully seems to get it. I have been thinking of taking hotel trips with my daughter on the weekends when my step children are here to avoid the stuff that they put me through when they are in our home. What is the answer to the resentment these children feel....?

2007-09-25 04:03:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now this is the soap opera twist. You find out that he is cheating on you with a married woman. And you find out he is cheating because the married woman he cheated with tells you. Then she proceeds to tell you that he is now cheating on you with her good friend and since it's a small town you know the married woman's good friend. So since this is a true story...all advice welcome :D

2007-09-25 03:50:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, I have been married for a year now and things have changed. My husband has been drinking every night for the past few months. He also is a gambler as well, mostly sports. Lately, between the drinking and the gambling, I feel very distant from him. He has definitely changed, even though he refuses that he has. But, he was always so sweet and so nice to me and would never say anything mean to me. Now, whenever i mention that I am tired of the drinking and the gambling, he gets real defensive and acts like nothing is wrong. We fight everyday and i am so tired of it, but i love him so much. He is not the same person when he drinks, he is kind of an a$$hole and is definitely not as nice as he was before. He ignores me most of the evening while he is gambling or on the phone. His gambling and drinking is really causing major problems in our marriage. What can i do?I have tried over and over again to talk about it to him, but the next day it is always the same thing. Any suggestions?

2007-09-25 03:47:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been married for about 6 years, have 2 girls together and one girl form her previous marriage (husband cheated). i am not perfect but do a lot around the house, never been unemployed, never cheated, no drugs, never go out with the guys, pay all the bills--including her failing business expenses. well 3 years ago after her best freind's bachelorette party, i am looking for my pocket knife and find a bag of cocaine. thought i was going to pass out... i confronted her and her friend and both said it was the friends and then she turned it around on me saying I was snooping. I have nothing to hide so she can look through all my stuff. well over the years i have found some text msgs about friends who need pills and price quotes and then today i am cleaning out the new SUV i bought and found a straw about 2 or 3 inches long with some residue in it. WTF do i do. she is good with the kids and we get along except for this i don't want a divorce but feel betrayed.

2007-09-25 03:41:25 · 9 answers · asked by joel95ex 5

My hobbies are cooking, cleaning and sex

2007-09-25 03:12:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now that the honeymoon stage is dying, (no, we're not married), and the real, daily pace of work, to-do's, etc. are becoming the norm, how do two people prevent being bored. It even seems like a phone call is a struggle for words now, and there's just no smiling on the other end of the line like there used to be. Any advice?

2007-09-25 03:11:08 · 15 answers · asked by rlfesty 3

im going to be 19 in november and by then we'll have had a whole year married and hes a dominican citizen,meaning hes not in the u.s how do i get him here and how long will it take and my parents dont know yet plz someone give me some info do i have to hava a job in order for him to come here im a college student

2007-09-25 03:07:58 · 17 answers · asked by love 3

We are very much into each other and have very long-term plans, but a big, reactionary blowout where we both got uncharacteristically mean and pointed in our remarks toward each other got us to that point where it seems we were both arguing against a different person from who we fell in love with. To the point where, involved in the discussion after we cooled off, the "I don't know if I can be with someone who talks to me like that/feels like that" came into play. We both want to work it out and we are focusing on us long-term (realizing that,if we get married, there will be a LOT bigger episodes we have to get thru) so we've decided to learn from it and let it go, but inside, it seems like something died right there, at least in these first 2-3 days after the fight. To you folks who are in long-term relationships/married...does this pass? Any advice? Right now, everything that was so natural before, like a regular conversation, just seems weird and I'm very self-conscious. HELP!

2007-09-25 03:06:43 · 5 answers · asked by rlfesty 3

i'm 36 weeks pregnant, so a posh restaurants outta the question as dont have anything to wear, do you have any ideas what we could do for an evening instead? thanks in advance

2007-09-25 03:06:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are very much in love and enjoy our time together, enjoy time with our family. I find him very attractive and he reciprocates that towards me. I love to hold him, kiss him, etc., however, I lack interest in lovemaking (even tho I see fireworks during!!). Any ideas/help/advice?

2007-09-25 03:05:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

It isn't fair! Waaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!

I'd rather take the spankin.
Well, not always.

2007-09-25 03:03:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been together 6 years and we have two kids together. I have been unhappy for a long time and have told him many of times, He is a truck driver and is never here i am always here alone with the kids, we have lived with his mom for the whole six years on and off.I have no friends or family here and i am a stay at home mom.i dont go out or anything except to take the kids out..I have been cheating on him for the past 6 months and this other person makes me happy, He also has kids and seperated from his wife a year ago. he has asked me to be with him. He even changed jobs to make more money for me and stopped going out like he used to. So do you think that is is right for me to leave my boyfriend for someone else?? I dont want anybody to be mad but i dont want to spend the rest of my life unhappy either And i want to do what is best for me and my kids, but people tell me that i should not be with him just because of our kids so what do you think

2007-09-25 02:54:16 · 11 answers · asked by me5 2

My stepson married his girlfriend of 6 years & most of the family does not really care for her. She got mad at me because he was 19 and she was 15 and I refused to let her spend the night with him. When I remodeled the kitchen she had the nerve to tell me "I don't like it but when I own this home I'll change it to how I like it". She had at one point said that if they ever had kids that she didn't want her child to ever come to our farm because farms are "so dirty". Yesterday during a converstion with a friend from out of state I found out she was pregnant. She nor my husband's son had bothered to let us know - my husband was hurt to find out this way but we can't do anything about it. But since we know now, I received an e-mail from my husband's ex that "it would be appreciated if you would contribute to the nursery". Since they have nothing to do with us except when they are getting a gift (Christmas) I say just buy a gift for the baby but not help with the nursery. Opinions?

2007-09-25 02:46:12 · 12 answers · asked by Love being a Mom 2

I have been married for six years. About three month ago i had a row with my husband . We were in different countries during the time we had a row(I was on holiday for two months).We didnt speak to each other for about month, then i decided to call him from the country where i was and suddenly probably problems with telephone lines I could hear on the telephone line that he was talking to another women and understood from the conversation that he just met her but there is nothing between them.Now I am back and I am 90% sure that he doesnt speak to her anymore but Now I cant trust him and i am very jealous, wherever he goes I I mean after work with freinds or collegues I cant stop being jealous and i dont know what to do. I am really fed up with it.What can you advise to me?

2007-09-25 02:39:16 · 16 answers · asked by Sindy 1

i am the oldest of my fathers children. he never married my mom. when i was 8 he married someone else & had three more daughters. my half sisters know nothing about me. he did pay child support for 18 years. my step mother knows about me. he never had contact with me over the years, mainly because of my mother & his wife. its a very long story. anyway he did come & visit me as an adult but then stopped coming because of his wife. i was wondering if i am not in his will, could i fight it to get some of his estate? any help will be greatly appreciated. also, should i ever tell my sisters who i am if i should meet them? the decission not to tell them was their mothers.

2007-09-25 02:38:18 · 11 answers · asked by peaches 1

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