Now this is the soap opera twist. You find out that he is cheating on you with a married woman. And you find out he is cheating because the married woman he cheated with tells you. Then she proceeds to tell you that he is now cheating on you with her good friend and since it's a small town you know the married woman's good friend. So since this is a true story...all advice welcome :D
2007-09-25 03:50:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
whoa...you weren't kidding about the soap part!
i would leave. i would start over completely where everybody doesn't know my name and vice versa.
and i don't mean to "run-away" from problems. just do what ever thing you need to for closure or bringing things to an end and i would go somewhere completely new, so i could heal and move on.
blessings
2007-09-25 03:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So he has two mistresses and you have no lovers. I'd say things are a bit lopsided. First things first, verify the fact that he is cheating. An investigator should be able to get proof quickly considering he has two women on the side. Video tape yourself giving another man head. Then spit him into dinner. Have your husband watch the video after he's eaten. Oh and have your bags already packed and in the car before you hit play. Only wait at the door long enough for him to start spazzing. Then leave and file for a divorce.
2007-09-25 04:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im spreading the misery...(sorry).
First thing I'mma do is go home and pack all his sh!t. He got to get the hell outta my house. Then Imma call an attorney and tell them everything. Then everyone involved in the love triangle and there spouse will know what I know. I'd spread their business alll over town. Then I may do some petty **** like ****!n up his car &/or a few of his prized posessions. And hey, might even **** up the woman!....depends on how drunk I get when I'm out celebrating that I'm gonna drain him for every penny he has, and will ever have. Now's the time to be a ***** honey. DO YOU!
2007-09-25 04:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by twinspulstwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't seem to be just one woman but many, since u can't undo it, and u will never feel the same about him as u did, my only advice would be divorce. how disrespectful and low of him. it won't be long until the whole town knows. u have to stand up for what is right here, and no one deserves to be cheated on, plus u will never be able to trust him ever again.
2007-09-25 04:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have a pow wow & bust his hinny wide open in front of the whole town... put a huge sign or a bill board proclaiming that he is a liar, cheater, & a whore... Playing with fire, you are bound to get burned! As the wife... I'd take pride in doing this to him. No longer would I be talked about behind peoples backs as the "poor girl" doesn't even know he's been screwing the whole town...
2007-09-25 03:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....why don't you call up your local television provider and have them do a show on you? lol No all joking aside I think that you should talk to your husband about that. I would most likely flip out on my husband if that ever happend and just leave.
2007-09-25 03:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by Wendie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave my husband...It is a small town and, everyone is now talking behind her back which is wrong I know but, small towns everyone knows everyone....etc
But, I would kick his butt out just for the cheating alone.....sorry
2007-09-25 03:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First I would be surprised I had a husband...after that initial shock, I would divorce him and put him through the ringer with a GOOD lawyer...
2007-09-25 03:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would pack his clothes and a few belongings and put them outside...then change the locks...all the while I'd have divorce papers to serve him when he got home. I wouldn't give him joint custody or anything.
2007-09-25 04:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that you are going through this. What would I do? I'd pack his stuff, put it on the lawn and get the locks changed before he got home from work. I'd take half of anything in the checking and savings account, cancel the credit cards, go to the DMV and get his name off of any joint vehicles and file for divorce.
Honestly, that's what I'd do.
2007-09-25 03:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋