Could you stand it if your spouse told you that you were weak in the bed?

Question

How would you react if you were told that you could not satidfy them sexually? What would you do?

Answer 1

Communication is the key to a good relationship - in bed and out. To just tell you you're not so good isn't helpful. Have your spouse speak up and tell you what they want - at least it'll be a start.

Answer 2

First things first, why didn't you know the sex wasn't good before marriage? Listen up virgins; this is what happens when you wait.

Find out what it is that isn't working out. Read more about how to pleauser a woman/man. Put thing into practice. Spice up the bedroom with toys, props, role playing, and fantasy. Make sure you spend enough time working on arousal, women aren't ready as soon as the cloths hit the floor like men are.

Answer 3

Like one of our greatest President's said" week in bed makes one weak". Just smile and continue with your life, every now and then take a good look at the kids to see if they are starting to look like the mailman or your best friend.

Answer 4

Sex is a two way street. People react upon how someone makes them feel.

People are reactionary animals, as well as competitive by nature. Sexually, if what they are receiving is good then they will try to give back better. That works both ways for men and women. If the initiator treats their partner the best way they can in bed, Then the partner will reciprocate back and his/her best to make the other feel even better than they do.

Its in our nature. The problem is when one gets selfish, then the feelings are one sided and not mutual.

You only get as good as you give!!!

Answer 5

If my spouse told me I was weak in bed I would put my foot up his *** to show him how strong my leg is then make sure he wakes up on the curb. Now, if he would have sat down and told you (like an adult) that he needed this or that in the bedroom that is a different story. You could both work on it without one person feeling inadequate. What a jerk.

Answer 6

I would argue the premise first. I would tell my wife that it would be more constructive to say that I "don't" satisfy her, not that I "can't". If I can't, then there's no way humanly possible for her to be satisfied. However, if I don't, then it means I'm doing something wrong, or not doing something that would bring her satisfaction. I would ask her what those things are and then change my behavior in bed to accommodate her. Sure, it would hurt my feelings, but we would be better of in the long run if she told me she wasn't satisfied rather than keeping that information to herself and suffering in silence. With communication, you at least have a chance to improve a relationship.

Answer 7

I would ask them what I could do to satisfy them.
To me that is on both of you. Your spouse should have been honest from the get go and you should be more aware and read some of the body signals you got during sex.
This is what happens when there is lack of communication.

Answer 8

thats a tough one, u need to go buy urself a new car and u'll look good in it, u might not be a stud but a lot of people that see u driving the new car will think that u are a stud. then u can show ur partner how the people look at u like ur a stud.

Answer 9

I would be hurt (of course) and then I would be open minded and try different things to make it fun. You may even want to rent some videos to get some ideas.

Bless your heart - this is something I would never tell my spouse. I would just make some suggestions on different things to try.

Answer 10

I would tell him that's his problem because his best friends says I'm the best he's ever had, you see it's a two edged sword when you say something like that to your spouse it can cut both ways.