Marriage & Divorce - 25 September 2007

Me and my Husband got married Sept. 5 of this year. I am only 20 years old and I think I married too soon....Is that normal or should I end it?

2007-09-25 02:30:15 · 25 answers · asked by sara_elizabeth17_2004 1

my wifes ex BF asks her about her sexlife, and offers to give her 'girl toys'.. i think she should tell him its completely inappropriate. but she must think its ok, because she never mentioned it to me? I found out by accident. What would you do?

2007-09-25 02:26:57 · 19 answers · asked by michael o 5

A German lawmaker is proposing marriages that would expire, then come up for renewal, after 7 years. Is this a good idea? It seems practical to me, but not very romantic. Do you think this would have an effect on the divorce rate? If so, do you think it would make it better or worse?

http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/world/2007/09/21/martel.germany.7.year.marriage.itn?iref=videosearch

2007-09-25 02:26:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i split with my ex 12 months ago, she stopped me from seeing our daughter for 3 months i took her to court and she gave me everything i asked for even said in open court i was a good dad and our daughter loved me our daughter is 3 years old ,after about 3 months she broke court order and again stopped me from contact with our daughter over some arrgument we had where i couldnt pick her up when court order said i would be 2 hours later so again didnt see our daughter for two months. i instructed my soliciter to go back to court i paid up front £500 soon as she new it was back to court access was given back to me i still wont to go back to court becose i dont have perents responsibiltys my name is not on birth certiffecate and my ex wont sign anything to give me them iv always paid my maintenance and i have over night care but my ex says she carnt trust me . can she stop me from having parents responsibilitys? also i wont to put my name on birt certiffecate can she stop that

2007-09-25 02:22:23 · 13 answers · asked by mark h 1

I mean they are just lumpy body parts. Ive been married for 14 years and my husband still looks at mine all the time. You think he would be bored of it by now.

2007-09-25 02:17:06 · 26 answers · asked by mixie 2

We married very quickly after we met and have been married 2 years, it has been extremely rocky and now I am also taking care of my 74yo father who has lung cancer (in the hospital with pneumonia since Friday night but will be home today as he is better). We moved to Oregon to take care of him and then he moved in with us to make it easier. I helped my mom through liver cancer 8 years ago as she died.

Anyhow, back to us, it has to do with respect. He has at times chosen his friends before me, he cheated, (once that I know of, more times in my head, where is the trust),he threatens to leave when we argue,etc, intimidates.
Sounds crazy to me, why would I want to be together, I know I cause as many arguments as he does (although he says if I would just be happy everything would be great). I feel utterly betrayed and I was wondering how I could get him to see these feelings of mine and how hurt I am and how can I feel that he places my person on an equal level with his, respect

2007-09-25 02:16:30 · 6 answers · asked by scsspace 3

I have been married for 1 1/2yrs. My husband is very controlling and mental abusive. He is always telling me I am hateful and b***h all the time. When I tell him I am going to leave he just says get the f**k out. The only problem is we have a 11 month old baby. It isnt fair to her but I know things with us is never going to get better. I have been with this man for 4 yrs now.

I am 21 and he is 34. I have no life now. He never wants to go out. He never spends time with our baby. He has never helped in feeding her or giving her a bath. He said she has girl parts she he cant give her a bath. He has two other children as well that I spend more time with than he does.

My question is should I get out or not? He want sit down to talk things out because he said I have a problem not him. PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-09-25 02:11:53 · 9 answers · asked by Mommy of 2 sweet babies 3

But I just want to run back to our world before I left and leave all this sick/nausea feeling behind. I know leaving was the best for all concerned but it doesnt feel like it at the moment, Is this feeling normal???

2007-09-25 01:59:20 · 22 answers · asked by Me xx 2

2007-09-25 01:55:01 · 12 answers · asked by Blessings 2

My girlfriend is going through a divorce and a custody battle. The Ex Husband is a complete tool and will say stupid things and then go back on it. Every time we have to pick up the kids from his house after work he just starts rambiling about pointless stuff and trying to get at my girlfriend. Last week we caught her four year old son in a lie. He was claiming that his father didn't feed him dinner before we picked them up. I called him up and had her son talk to him. He proceeded to get angry at that fact that we "put him on the spot".(He feed the kid so why is he getting angry?) He then insulted her on the phone and was making it like she was the bad guy. I want to confront this lowlife but I fear I will only make it worse. No matter what I say. Is there anything I can do to help her and tell him off?

2007-09-25 01:48:05 · 15 answers · asked by Ryan 2

He cheated for about a year. He said that she means nothing to him, otherwise he would be with her if he cared about her. He says he is very sorry and that I'm the only one he would ever love. He says that he made a promise to himself not to ever do something that would hurt and end our marrige. I dont know what to do? I do love him and we have a beautiful daughter....

2007-09-25 01:42:10 · 32 answers · asked by MM 2

If so or if not, what things would she have to do to prove she isn't married so she can be single and happy again?

Or, does she have to file for divorce?

They have not seen each other for 5 years. He abandoned her and her child she had with him. The child was conceived at approximately the same time as the marriage occured, so it's hard to say whether it was before or after they were married.

2007-09-25 01:26:44 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6

I did.

2007-09-25 01:22:10 · 15 answers · asked by sexy grandmother 4

My brother currently has custody of his daughter. The mother is trying very hard to get custody back. I believe the mother should have it. I believe I have information that would help the mother to get it. Should I tell her what I know? My brother is currently living w/ a woman who is still married! My brother is into porn and even watches it when the daughter is in the same room! My brother has even watched porn on my computer, leaving all the traces of it behind for my children to see...!!! clearly, he has some serious issues that the court should know about! Should I go to his ex-wife and tell her all of this? I don't care if he's my brother, it's what's best for the child...

2007-09-25 01:19:44 · 26 answers · asked by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6

my freind got on Viagra and what a surprise his wife is very overweight and has hair shorter than he does!! straight men are programed to be attracted to feminine women who actually look like women and not the guy from that show the king of queens. i don't need any of you telling me ED is a real problem. i know it is. i'm just saying help your man out! get in shape (this goes for guys too!) and maybe put on a dress once in a while eh? and guys put away the costco jeans and put on something nice for your lady too eh? don't the people we love deserve the best we can give them? instead we just expect them to love us no matter how disgusting we let ourselves get. sad.

2007-09-25 00:25:23 · 22 answers · asked by mrhairajar 1

after sixteen years of marriage i have done the most stupid think possible i have had an affair for the last few months i know this is unforgivable and if my husband found out it would be the end of my marriage the problem is how can i cut all ties from my lover without seeming cruel as he was after me for years before we got involved,he is also married do you think he will be allright about this and no one will ever know, as i am sure he doesn't want his wife to find out and we live in a small town.There are five children involved in this even if its for there sake please give me some advice.

2007-09-25 00:09:02 · 33 answers · asked by Jenny 1