Marriage & Divorce - 25 September 2007

Well me and my husband got married had a baby fast.. Granted it was early but we are very much in love. Our baby is 3 months old and I feel as though we are living in the 60's. Im cooking, Cleaning, Doing laundry, and taking care of our son 24/7. But I thought it was reasonable to ask my husband to change our sons diaper and feed on intervals when he was home. I know he works hard but he still expects me to do everything and when I ask him to do something he gives me attitude. Hes made comments like " do you job" and " Be a wife". Now I know he may have not meant them but I will never forget that. It just seems to be going downhill after our baby was born. Dont get me wrong our baby is the best thing that has ever happened to me, but It feels like my husband just wants to play with him and when something is wrong I have to do it. I just thought a dad should be more involved. Should I be firm with him, tell him to do things. I have tried the nice way and it doesnt work. Advice please?

2007-09-25 16:22:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are in your 30's, have a teenage son, work full-time, would you do this to your significant other or want it done to you? Is this a way for a grown woman to mark her territory even though the husband is already wearing a wedding ring? Let me know your opinion. I personally think it's immature and not my idea of hot and wild sex.

2007-09-25 16:18:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. husband @ wife fight
2. now husband want to stay with him mom house for 1 week
3. but both of them the promlem settle ready
4. but how the wife wife get her husband to bring back to home?
5.the husband family brainwash him to get divorce from her wife.
6.so got any low or any ideas to for the wife make alife happy?
7. very pitty to the wife so pls help guys

2007-09-25 16:15:58 · 11 answers · asked by JAYAMEGA 1

Are there any ladies out there that have accepted a proposal even though you were not crazy in love with the guy proposing? Did you accept for security, companionship, financial hardship, etc.? Why did you accept it?

2007-09-25 16:15:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

he doesn't want to commit to me. He doesn't want to give up his home and come home to me and our son and "it might not work out" and he will not have a place to go. We get along for a couple of months and all of a sudden he breaks it off and says "I don't act right" I think this is just an excuse not to have to commit. He wants us to be together in every way, he just doesn't want the responsibility that comes with a commitment! Should I just dump him and get on with my life or keep waiting and hoping he will get over it? We were married for almost 23yrs.

2007-09-25 16:12:28 · 17 answers · asked by Red 1

Hello!

My wife told me that per Maryland law, I must attend five marriage counseling sessions with her in order to become legally separated in Maryland, with the intention of getting a divorce following a 1-year separation requirement. Is it true that Maryland requires marriage counseling for a separation and divorce? In case it is relevant, we have two young children.

Thanks for any help you can offer!

Seth

2007-09-25 16:12:25 · 3 answers · asked by SethT 1

ied.. I went see that damn site and it was about fetish and swingers.. He said it kept popping up so he signed up.. Well I signed in on his name and he just registered.. He never put his info.. So should I be concerned.

2007-09-25 16:11:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

not working thinks the world own him disrespect me in public,acknowledge

2007-09-25 16:10:09 · 11 answers · asked by panther33 1

besides love

2007-09-25 16:03:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently met someone in Vegas at the tables and coincidentally ran into the same woman later that evening. One thing led to another and we ended up getting a room and "had some fun." She was not wearing a wedding ring and was under 30, so I assumed she was probably single. I never bothered to ask if she had a boyfriend because frankly I didn't care. I found out tonight that she's married, which is worse. I am not someone who goes to church frequently, but do try to follow God's Commandment of "Thou Shall Not Covet Thy Neighbor's Wife."

I know how I feel about the situation and plan on going to Church to ask for forgiveness, but regardless did not know this woman was married before things went down.

What do you think?

2007-09-25 16:02:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My nana is teaching me how to cook, and she says that "If you don't cook a good meal, your future husband won't be satisfied, and he'll get it from someone else! You want to lose him because you can't cook?"

2007-09-25 16:00:32 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Red Phoenix♥ 3

Per week?

2007-09-25 16:00:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why are so many women so anti-porn? Since getting on YA I am amazed by the number of women who totally freak out whenever the topic of porn comes up and I just don't get it!

A little background- I am a happily married 35 year old woman who enjoys an occasional adult movie in the privacy of my own home. Sometimes my husband and I watch them together, sometimes we don't.

Before someone gets all religious on me I want to state that I am a Christian, and I consider sex to be a wonderful gift from God to be enjoyed and explored, not something to be ashamed of and demonized.

And no, I am not some sick guy with free time on his hands trying to get people all riled up. I am asking a serious quesion! Feel free to check out my past answers to questions involving sex and you will see this is is consistent with what I have said in the past.

2007-09-25 15:47:52 · 31 answers · asked by looneybin90 5

Would you forgive 1, 2, 3 more than 3. When do you think the forgiving person is only fooling themselves?

2007-09-25 15:28:43 · 29 answers · asked by Night Stalker 2

What I mean is, hypothetically, what if a married woman's best friend was a male and she went out with him for lunch, dinner, etc. without her husband, or vise versa. What do you think of this?

2007-09-25 14:28:57 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

coz most people say that its not tat noble n idea

2007-09-25 14:25:15 · 10 answers · asked by niss 3

and why??

2007-09-25 14:25:11 · 6 answers · asked by tripleateam 2

ready to have sex for the first time??

2007-09-25 14:24:08 · 16 answers · asked by tripleateam 2

My spouse filed divorce because I keep withdraw money without telling her or explaination. Because I thought I make money so I want to spent whatever I need why I have to tell her? And I don't want to be asked why why why. I like to do whatever I want to do to show her I'm a man.
Am I right? why she divorce me?

2007-09-25 14:24:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you could have any type of fantasy come true what would it be?

2007-09-25 13:40:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband told me i no longer turn him on,we're married for eight years.some people say i don't look my age and i can pass for a 20 something gal.(am 38 y/o)

2007-09-25 13:38:41 · 7 answers · asked by pia t 1

He becomes verbally abusive and talks down to me and when I ask him to seek counseling he refuses. He blames me for everything.
Can this marriage be saved?

2007-09-25 13:33:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's a tough question and i guess only people with good exprience can answer that

some non-teenage women have lots and lots of love to their men but when it comes to expressing it they might sound like teenage girls in love and others express their love like real mature women .. i'm not just talking about the way they talk but also how they act and deal with things

what makes a man call his gf/fiance/wife "my woman" not "my girl" ??

I hope that i get as many answers as possible

Thanks in advance ^__^

2007-09-25 13:29:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-25 13:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by featherwood1989 1

I need a NYC Pro-Bono lawyer who can help me with a child support case.

I am in arrears and want to settle things witih my ex-wife, but her and her lawyer are ignoring my calls and emails

The numbers being thrown by her are not accurate, and they go back 7 years, and now i am put in a position to look for checks going back to 2000

Does the law have statute of limitations for this???


Pls help me..........

2007-09-25 13:05:11 · 2 answers · asked by Ralph G 2

how many years have you been married?
is it really true that over the years the love fades?
do you still remember the special moments of your relationship? The little things like sweet words...loving smiles...?

2007-09-25 13:03:26 · 26 answers · asked by ¸.•*´`*•.¸ ℓανєη∂єr ¸.•*´`*•.¸ 6

My husband and I are in the beginning stages of a divorce. During our marriage we accrued about 15,000 in debt. The credit cards are ALL in his name. He makes 49,000 a year and I make less than 12K. We were going to try to keep it neat without lawyers... do I need one?

2007-09-25 12:44:41 · 9 answers · asked by Lady Bug 1

2007-09-25 12:42:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel my friends (40+, married) are using age as an excuse for the decline in sex. The problem is the my spouse is starting to feels that sex isn't needed after 45 too. While I don't think my body can be the same as a 20 year old, I would like to feel wanted and needed. Do other 40+er feel that sex isn't needed?

2007-09-25 12:40:53 · 12 answers · asked by byee77777 2

Or is this a touchy question.
I feel very blessed and lucky he decided to marry me instead of having to face heartbreak.

2007-09-25 12:34:09 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous