how many years have you been married?
is it really true that over the years the love fades?
do you still remember the special moments of your relationship? The little things like sweet words...loving smiles...?
2007-09-25 13:03:26 · 26 answers · asked by ¸.•*´`*•.¸ ℓανєη∂єr ¸.•*´`*•.¸ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
10 years and our love hasn't faded. As a matter of fact it has evolved to the point where we are each of the other's priority. But that isn't to say what has happened to us will be for others. I wish it was though for if it could be true for all then the world would be a better place for it would secure family ties and family I believe is next to faith in God and faith in God relates to family ties.
2007-09-25 13:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Ahmad H 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
The longer you're married the more love built in the married life. I'ved been married for more than 20 years. As I told you before, married is "one piece". Half of the body to the wife and the other half to the husband. That's why, when a wife is walking alone, friend will be asking "Where's your other half". That's means where is your husband. Loves fades over the years is "NOT TRUE AT ALL".
The special moment when my wife delivered the first baby and each time giving birth. That's the time the one piece is really a piece. The baby belong to both. Each 10 years anniversary, the sweet words of loving each others and the true loving smile purely from the heart through the mouth creating the true smile of loving each other as husband and wife.
2007-09-26 15:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by AHMAD FUAD Harun 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Looking at all these answers, I am a newlywed! I have only been married for 10 months! But I hope that I will remember the special moments, and that with alot of care and attention that my marriage can grow and I will be able to come back and say I have been married for 10 years or 15 years or 20 years, etc...
2007-09-25 22:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It will be 3 years in a little over a week...
For some people it does. I think love tends to grow but it is not the same feeling as when you first get together (that doesn't mean it is bad) but that feeling when you first fall in love is love and lust and infatuation all rolled up together...it's different with time but like I said it's not really a bad thing.
I remember those and still have them sometimes, I guess I am no longer that "romantic" though and I don't spend much time thinking about those times much.......life caught up to me -- I remember what it felt like to be in your situation (from what I know of it by having read your questions before). *sigh* :) I just had a conversation with my best friend about this the other day too...she got married about 6 months after I did and feels the same way as me.
EDIT: Seeing all these thumbsdown makes me think that somebody feels like these women are not being that honest...and I can kind of understand that feeling. Marriage is a lot more work than most people realize and some people never talk about the problems or the work their marriage takes -- they will only talk about the good without being realistic in their advice...I noticed that a lot more after I got married myself. -- Once I got married I started to find out about all the problems in the marriages of my friends and acquaintances, problems they never talked about before - ever! It was weird. LOL
The best marriage advice I ever got: You can choose to be right or you can choose to be happy. Think about it and don't forget this advice when you get married--it really helps!!
2007-09-25 22:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sassafrass 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
6 years of marriage.
In marriage, as any relationship, there are ups and downs. These are the "spices" life adds to marriage.
If your love was true, it will never fade.
My love to him grew deeper and stronger. After marriage, there are no more masks, the true you and the true him are revealed, there's no more pretend, so, now love is tested, is it true love, unconditional, no matter what, or is it fake? after all the faults you find in your partner, do you still love him or her?? if you do, then nothing can stop your love. if you can still love the worst part of his personality, how could that ever fade.
also, near the end of a relationship, people tend to look at the beginning, and it all starts again.
I don't think my love to my husband will ever fade, although we've had many MANY problems.
2007-09-26 12:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by wala 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When we married, I was 22 & he was 25. We're now married 15 years! The love has not faded AT ALL!! It has become more deep & meaningful!! I do not simply love him, I adore him!! True, no one can make me angrier, at times, but those times are short-lived! We still have great intimacy(cuddling, always hold hands outside, sweet-talk on the phone, private little jokes between us, etc.). We also have a great sex life. Quickies if the kids are home & hot ones when they're at school, usually 3-4x/week. We love to look back over our life together, to appreciate where we've been & where we are now (our wedding album, the kids baby pictures, talk to our boys how we first met,etc.). I would marry this man again. Marriage is a lot of work but I'm looking foward to the next 40 years!!!
2007-09-25 20:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by M. Rod 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
We've been married for 26 days lol....we've been together for 3 years though so no, I can say love does not fade if you both make the effort to keep it alive. We remember our special moments but still have plenty more to come.
2007-09-26 10:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I met my husband in July 2003. Married March 7, 2005 and we still joke around and have sweet moments and words. I know we still have a long ways to go but our love and trust for each other gets stronger as time goes by. Alhamdulillah
Love can fade when someone does not know how to deal with a long term stressfull situation or a couple just does not match at all. I was with my ex-husband for 10 years, we had more bad times than good times. We did not match. (lets just keep a long long story very short).
I thank GOD every day for matching me with Sameh.
EDIT: .... Titus12.... its Pepe Le Pew. I love Warner Bros. cartoons.
http://looneytunes.warnerbros.com/stars_of_the_show/pepe_le_pew/pepe_story.html
2007-09-25 20:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by Onomatopoeia 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I was happy to read these answers and to know that many couples are still happy after all these years.
I agree with Racer 51.
In Islam there are things more than love that gather between a wife and a husband. We call it Mawadda and Sakina( I don't know the exact meaning in English).
Besides it is something that might take you to heavens...the prophet PBUH said that the best of you (men) is the best to his wife and family. And the man will be much rewarded for a small thing that he makes to his wife like feeding her with his own hand. And the woman if she is good to her husband and she performs her praying and fasting then inshaallah she'll be rewarded by paradise. And if one of them was not good and the other have patience with him then he'll be rewarded by paradise.
2007-09-27 03:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by There is no God but Allah 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
been married almost 24 yrs. love doesn't fade really, it just becomes deeper, more comfortable. many times people mistake that comfort zone for lost love. we all go through that too comfortable stage at one time or another. the trick is to realize it and make the commitment to rectify it.
i remember all of the sweet things my husband has done over the years
2007-09-25 20:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋