ied.. I went see that damn site and it was about fetish and swingers.. He said it kept popping up so he signed up.. Well I signed in on his name and he just registered.. He never put his info.. So should I be concerned.
2007-09-25 16:11:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am totally committed to him. We are not swingers. And if he wants something new he can tell me I'm willing to do alot for him. So that's not an issue.
Should I mess around?
2007-09-25 17:16:10 · update #1
It sounds to me like he was interested in seeing some real people's naked pictures. He signed-up to just see what others are doing, not necessarily that he was trying to cheat on you. It was more horny curiosity than anything else.
Another thing though. Does he know that it's okay to discuss his fantasies and kinks with you and that you are willing to at least listen if not fulfill some, most or all of them?
It always amazes me that people will be more open and honest with strangers about their sexual fantasies than they will with their own spouse because of the fear of rejection by their spouse. The fear that their spouse will get jealous and defensive because they may feel like they are 'not enough' for them if they are thinking about other things they want to do. So they never communicate their fantasies and desires to their spouse, the one that should hear them, because they don't want to hurt them or create problems in their relationship.
So make sure he knows you are okay with hearing his fantasies. It doesn't you have to do them, just that you have to hear them out and accept them without feeling hurt and rejecting him.
2007-09-26 07:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not so concern. What you must tell him when coming informations for either of you, invitations or anything you received from the email. Talk and discuss it with him so nothing is hiding between your relationship. Wish you two to experiment and try sooner into the world of swingers. Appreciated you the way you the maximum respect to your husband. I know you are one of millions couples who have full trust and understanding ot their spouses. That factor to keep more longer the marriage relationship so long as your respect to each other are there.
Good luck!............
2007-09-26 04:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be firm with him 1 st ask why then tell him to stop or could hurt your relationship tell him you don't approve. Or you could do this route sit down and go to the same site so he cans see you doing it tell your not upset just looking for some answers. Ask him him join ya for sec you never know he might just be looking for some moves for bedroom be cool and calm about it. Ask him whats so great about the site and take it from there. good luck
2007-09-25 23:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by cal6600 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he open and honest about it with you and let you open up the account he registered? IF he is, why not ask him to just delete his account, most of them have the ability to do so. If he says he doesn't want too, then I would think there is something to be concerned over.
2007-09-25 23:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be. Mostly cuz he signed up and I'd be curious as to know what made him sign up for something like that. But before you freak out, take a deep breath. Then tell him calmly how you are concerned for him. Have him tell you what's up and be completely honest with you. If he can't then he is definetly up to no good.
I hope all works out!
2007-09-25 23:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, because WHY would he sign up because it kept popping up? Just because it kept popping up doesn't mean he had to register. That was HIS choice. Better yet, if it's just an honest thing then why didn't he tell you about it? I would like to think that you'd tell him, right? Why wouldn't you? Unless you have something to hide.
2007-09-25 23:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm.. yes!!! Trust me... and I mean trust me it was just by happen stance. He may have just registered but eventually his curiosity will grow and grow and little more will happen each time. Get into some marriage counseling immediately or demand that he gets some. Put your foot down about what you will accept right away because if not he will continue and you will end up hurt in the end.
2007-09-25 23:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He must be browsing porn in order for a popup like that to come on the screen anyway. It's a thin line.
2007-09-25 23:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds pretty suspicious to this old guy. I know if my lady was on there I'd be very concerned.
2007-09-25 23:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sounds really fishy, I would be worried too. how is oyu're sex life. are you guys swingers? I just wonder if that is a fantasy for him?
2007-09-25 23:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋