We are very much in love and enjoy our time together, enjoy time with our family. I find him very attractive and he reciprocates that towards me. I love to hold him, kiss him, etc., however, I lack interest in lovemaking (even tho I see fireworks during!!). Any ideas/help/advice?
2007-09-25 03:05:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
See your doctor to make sure there's no hormone imbalance or that your lack of sex drive isn't due to any meds or birth control you are on...if that doesn't help, perhaps counseling so you can talk about your feelings and perhaps discover why sex holds no interest for you.
Good luck!
2007-09-25 03:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband of your problem and both of you need to work out the reason why you lack interest in lovemaking. Tell him where is your sensitive areas and watch some pron.
2007-09-25 03:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by galaxies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something new or in a new location or place..my husband and I also have the same thing..but we meet during the week end only since we work in a different far place..just enjoy your time with him and try not to talk about work or family problems, it will screw your feeling up..Cheers...
2007-09-25 03:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by C-Dew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely see your doctor to rule out hormones. Then invest in some good sexy movies - aka porn. Porn isn't all hard and slutty, you know. There are some good erotic DVDs out there that aren't over the top. Experiment with different ones and see what floats your boat. Also invest in some good erotic novels to wet your appetite, so to speak. You will also do well to spend some time alone exploring your own body in private to get yourself revved up for him. Good luck.
2007-09-25 03:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by meagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, do I ever know what your talking about.I need an answer to that to.I have a few reasons of my own. I think we spend way to much time together.Also other issues that may be my problem.Atleast you have fireworks, good luck girl!!!
2007-09-25 03:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by nanna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find what use to trigger the desire before and what triggers a desire know. Not always comes from your husband actions. The desire is something personal, check if your personal life are affecting the desire.
Try new things, experiment.
2007-09-25 03:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by jmclaudio76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do relaxing things together, take a bath, massage each other, just roll around on the bed and play together etc etc.
Anything to relax and feel good or even get a vibrator they are fantastic, you can have him use it on you or use it yourself before he comes in.
Experiment.
2007-09-25 03:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by PokerPlayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that certain types of medication can affect a person in that way. If you are on some kind of medication you might want to consult your doctor to see if some adjustment in your prescription will help.
2007-09-25 03:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is natural as you get older, even the best roller coaster gets old after repeated riding. As you get older, your interests will change, and you need to evolve with them, learn to find enjoyment in different things.
2007-09-25 03:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to play and experiment! Get some toys, try some new things. Put on something sexy and watch his reaction...that just might get you going. There is still hope since you do love him.
2007-09-25 03:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋