Marriage & Divorce - 14 September 2007

If a woman said to you she was going to leave her husband for you, what would you think? If you liked her, and if you didn't like her?
Not Love.

2007-09-14 14:14:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thanks to every body who has been answering. Some more info. NO, I NEVER FAILED FOR GREEN CARD. DIDN'T EVEN HAD TIME IN 2 MONTHS. YES. AFTER DRUGS, ALL KIND OF ABUSE, BET ME, STOLE FROM ME, MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSE. I WILL TRY SOME OF THE OPTIONS YOU MENTIONED. TO CHAPUCINO.WHO GIVED ME SO MUCH INFO. THANKS.

2007-09-14 14:10:32 · 1 answers · asked by elizaabigail 1

After my ex and I had our son a year ago, then we split. It was a nasty breakup for us both. my question is understanding were my ex is coming from. we both happily and willingly agreed to have our son (in fact he insisted that we go thru with it) and now that we slipt my ex doesn' t want to have much to do with our baby. He says it he loves us both and claims he cares for our kid but I don't see it much. could he really be that bitter? we were together for 6 yrs before the baby, I just can't see my self that angry about the situation. I've had a lot of emotions but is that normal please give advice on how to deal with him and his anger.

2007-09-14 14:08:12 · 8 answers · asked by ginarose 4

we dont talk to much no sex life and he is very smart talking to me and he is so much older we have been married for 10 yrs. and we have businesses together and I want out with out loseing nothing . we dont do any thing together I mean nothing you name it Imean nothing no touch no talk nothing what do i do.

2007-09-14 14:07:55 · 10 answers · asked by sexxy 1

He is on Social Security and doesn't get much each month and the house he wanted was only $40,000 so I gave him the money for the down payment and he said he can handle the rest. Now I am being dogged out for doing it. My question is this...if you had the money would've you done it.?

He has three kids and his wife works for a dry cleaner. Sometimes we have to do what is right in life to help so why am I being persecuted for giving money away?

2007-09-14 14:01:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ladies, if you had to choose between your husband going to a strip club, where he would be around strippers, and giving them money, or you doing a strip tease for him, pretending to be a stripper, and him giving you the money, what would you choose?

2007-09-14 14:00:33 · 12 answers · asked by Bryan M 6

So a married guy friend "dumped" me because I told him, "No, you can not call me from creepy ever changing untracable pre paid cell phone numbers".
He said, essentially, "Well, then no more friendship." (and no, nothing had ever happened between us).
So now I feel insulted, his intentions were foul, who does he think I am, who does he think he is? Have you ever heard anything like this before? Feel creeped out, confused and angry.

2007-09-14 13:58:25 · 12 answers · asked by emilsignia 5

My boyfriend of a year is controlling. We live together and have a two month old son. Of course he is nice most times and I love him to death, but I think he might be controlling and verbally abusive. When he gets mad at something I said wrong on the phone, he hangs up. If he doesnt like something he leaves the house and turns off his phone and doesn't come back till hours later. when he does come back he yells at me. He pushes me against a wall if I try to walk away from him he gets in my face and yells at me calling me stupid and I'm a ****** idiot. He says shut the **** up to me, he grabs me by the arms, he says that I'm nothing and that I disgust him. He tells me I'm crazy and I need mental health. My family isn't allowed to visit me and neither are any of my friends, if I want to visit them I have to let him know where I'm going and when I'll be back. He doesn't want my family to see my baby and if I take the baby to see them, he gives me a hard time. this is a few things. help

2007-09-14 13:54:41 · 17 answers · asked by itfeelsgood2gocrazy 2

He's been caught on surveillance tape this time! Trying to steal his stuff back that was slated to be legally auctioned. And do you see how it fits a well-publicised cowardly pattern from his dark past, where he gathers his henchmen around to assist in doing the dirty deed?

2007-09-14 13:51:00 · 12 answers · asked by Kentucky Dave 6

My fiance and I have been together for almost four years now and have two small children together. We have a good relationship, most of the time, guess it could be labeled that. Lately, I'm kind of insecure and very creative as to why he acts the way he does when we fight. Most of the time I think, great,.. he's going to replace me and so I start planning how I'm going to survive without him. Weird because I really love him, guess I'm just hurt from the past, typical downward spiral, now I think abuse and cheating will one day destroy this relationship like all the rest. I have to get over myself and find peace before I drive it to really happen. Please help!~

2007-09-14 13:50:02 · 7 answers · asked by reincarnated/beauty 2

my best friend is talking to a man we work with and they text all day and night but only see each other a couple times he claims he is seperated but stays with her for the children what are signs of a married man besides the above

2007-09-14 13:49:39 · 27 answers · asked by momo 2

She asks where I've been like it's some sort of her business.

I'm just having a good time, why does she have to ruin my buzz?

2007-09-14 13:47:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have suspected a long term affair and we are all really afraid spouses will go postal on us all. Out boss will do nothing saying we have to have physical evidence of the affiair to fire them. This is creating terrible morale problems not to mention no one likes to be in the building with them it is so nervewracking. How do we get "physical evidence".?

2007-09-14 13:23:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

He own a house before we got married then we sold it after one year. We moved to Sioux Lookout Ontario because he opened a small charter airlines and bought a new house. We had a problem and it didn't work out so we got divorced. I left and went back to Toronto and didn't ask anything from him. We didn't have any kid.

2007-09-14 13:17:11 · 8 answers · asked by llana s 1

We live on a farm and my husband had our neighbors escaped livestock in our barn, I called our neighbor to tell him he could come and get them. About 3 minutes after this his wife called back and grilled me on who I was. I was pissed! We were nice enough to care for their escaped animals and she calls me like I am screwing her husband. I told my hubby "that ***** needs to stay on her farm and out of my face, and that he needs to deal with the neighbor from now on."
Was I right to be mad and should I tell the neighbor to keep his wife on her side of the fence?

2007-09-14 13:13:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I filed for divorce, but we are still living together. We have talked reconsiliation and he told me that he loves and was "in love" with me... obviously to get me in the sack. It worked. I have decided to go through with the divorce because of his abusive (emotionally) and deceptive behavior (heavy drinker!)... and his carrying on "flirtations" (he said) with other women. I know that he spent the night with another woman this past weekend. He suspects I know and now says that we are "legally separated" as of the day I filed my paperwork. He was not served until a month later and was not aware that I had filed paperwork at the time he kissed and tried to hook up with a different girl. What is the definition of estranged and how does his cheating apply now?! We were in the same bedroom until I found out about the second to last girl. Drama.

2007-09-14 13:12:05 · 17 answers · asked by bamagirl 1

that he might have been seeing someone while
they were engaged, because he sent a text message the night before the wedding and I found
it last week (3 weeks after wedding). I told her and
he made up a stupid excuse, and told me to butt
out and let them be married. They just moved
13 hours from us, and I have no control what he does in this new city. I am so scared for her. She
loves him, and won't ask him any questions. I called the girl, and she admitted to seeing him, but
nothing happened because she has a boyfriend so
she told me. What can I do. At times, throughout
there 6 year relationship, I felt it's another Scott
Peterson case. I am a christian person, and want
to think the best of him, but I'm so scared he won't change. We are the only family he has, because
he doesn't not talk to mother, etc. I think he loves
our daughter the only way he knows how, but can't
be faithful. Is there any counseling in the Southern
part of N. Carolina that we could find?

2007-09-14 13:02:19 · 20 answers · asked by Very worried about d & new husb 1

Normally he's "outgoing" or can talk to people...not too "out there" but is cool and gets along with everyone...but when it comes to a certain girl...special girl..

-he gets MORE quiet and awkward than usual...
- we haven't seen each other in months and he just seems more shy
- when i first met him he was so quiet but through the years he opened up eventually...he also started with the text and then moved up to calling me
- now since it's been a while since we seen or talk, he won't call...but if I call and make a first move, he'll "respond" somehow and text back...

what do you think?

2007-09-14 13:01:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex who i havent seen in 4 yrs has literally asked me to have sex with him. He's married and ive been with someone for more than 7 yrs. Need less to say my man hates him. My ex is married and i feel bad for his wife, who just had his first baby by the way. I dont know if i should tell his wife somehow but i dont want to lose his friendship. what should i do.

2007-09-14 13:01:12 · 20 answers · asked by mariah 1

We have been together for three years, living on our own for two. We have a 9 month old daughter together, And a really in love, but all we keep hearing is ohh when are you guys going to make it official. At this point in our lives we dont find it necessary to get married. We are both going to school (it would affect our financial aid if we maried). We both have debt. We want to save for a house and other things. It makes sense to me but how do i explain it to other people. Thanks in advance for your help :)

2007-09-14 12:49:30 · 9 answers · asked by heather b 1

We are married 2 years; second marriage for us both, both previous marriages were over 20 years long. We are struggling financially, both have health problems, I am on anti-depressants, he is depressed, not on meds. 99% of the time we are very close, inseperable, with each other 24/7 and like it that way.

Now ... I woke up sick and irritatible, he got more irritable, two minor tiffs escalated, I went quiet to keep from saying things I would regret later, after a half hour, he says, well, I guess you want me to leave, so I will pack up and do so as soon as I figure out where to go. I said, if that is what you want, but I dont want you to. He then blew up and accused me of things I havent done or said, took a nap, got up and left to do laundry, saying not to worry he'd be gone soon.

I don't get it. This is out of the blue. Any advice would be appreciated ... I cant stop crying and anytime I say anything, he twists it then tells me I am "doing this to him". Help!

2007-09-14 12:42:08 · 12 answers · asked by bobo 2

when u started wanting some sex i mean really i dont care what you say even if its 6th grade rEAlly or even yonger dont matter

2007-09-14 12:21:04 · 25 answers · asked by $$$ 2

My husband and I separated back in January of this year. I met someone and we had the best relationship. He treated me extremely well, something that my husband never did. We laughed a lot, we had a lot in common, and I couldn't wait to see him. My b-friend never lied to me. It was great. Well, my husband moved back to my area and my mom started giving me all kinds of hell because she was adamant that I had to get back with my husband for the twins we have together. After a couple months, I finally did it. My twins and I live with my mother and she was going to kick us out with nothing. I ended up ditching the boyfriend and I was dealing with the break up and trying to work on my marriage. Well last night, my husband and I were at the store and guess who I ran into....my ex boyfriend. I thought I was over him, but immediately I lost my breath, my face turned white, and I started having butterflies in my stomach that are just now going away almost 24 hours later.

2007-09-14 12:13:05 · 7 answers · asked by Mestiza 1

Isnt it important to have a positive mental, physical and spiritual side like in the beginning of the relationship?
My wife has turned into a hog and a moron within 3 years of our marriage! Whats up with that? WORD UP

2007-09-14 12:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

After 24 years of marriage my wife left. Said that she didn't love me anymore and wanted her freedom. I was devastated. To keep busy, I dating casually, telling all who I dated that I just wanted a casual relationship and that I still loved my wife. I dated "Mary" for 6 month but our feelings started to get stronger and since I still wanted my wife, we ended our relationship on great terms. A year later my wife filed for divorce & my feelings for her dwindled and Mary came back in to my life. I was thrilled. I fell in love with Mary and treated her like a queen. 11 months later she left me for someone else. Now after 3 1/2 years my wife wants me back saying she made a big mistake leaving me. I don't love her and I very much love Mary. My wife neglected me most of our marriage and I found out how nice other women are. I want Mary back Although I know she is just a player, I love her. Don't know what I've done to deserve all the hurt I've they have both given me. Thanks.

2007-09-14 11:52:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife eats bad chinese, pizza, sweets etc... 24/7
She also now belches and farts, not girly farts with a cute giggle, but the sound of a fog horn. She has put on 40lbs and is acting like skank! What should I do!
About ready to send her packing back to the old trailer park!

2007-09-14 11:50:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

have no family here and no friends just aquances. family lives 650 miles away. have 2 kids.

2007-09-14 11:34:35 · 10 answers · asked by babyherc1r 1

Is Love Evil? Or a drug?
Question Details: If Love makes a 50 year old virgin feel down cause he has no one and commits suicide..is that not evil?
If a girl falls in love with a killer is that not evil?
If a player uses words of love to get laid is that not evil?
If a girl commits suicide cause she feels the absence of love..is that evil?

2007-09-14 11:30:12 · 3 answers · asked by Lone Knight 2

This will be our first baby. But she has been more aggressive and a little more passionate.

Is it hormones or is she just turned on that she is pregnant (We been waiting since we where 7LOL).

2007-09-14 11:19:20 · 12 answers · asked by Blackman married to Redhead 1

Since i've had my two daughters im not so sexually active...is there something wrong with me? Do having kids do this to you. I could seriously go with out it......whats wrong with me

2007-09-14 11:15:44 · 5 answers · asked by *~* Amber *~* 1