Marriage & Divorce - 14 September 2007

My husband's brother and his horrible wife don't like us. She is a ***** who tries to be highschool to me and spread rumors and blackmail. And he is pussy whooped by her! My nephew and his wife don't like us and are freinds with the other two. The couple that are family freinds don't like us and they hang out with the other four. It's like they never invite us anywhere, talk about us behind our back, and lie to us. My husband's own brother and nephew and obviously ex best friend all decide to hang out with each other and leave us out. We are tired of it and it makes us mad and hurts our feelings. ONly thing we can think of is that we dont do drugs or party all the time like they do. We are just parents of two kids. We work, dont talk about people and our great parents. So what are we doing wrong?

2007-09-14 02:13:18 · 7 answers · asked by Cutie 3

Background - Brother is in USCG. Found out the other day, wife has been cheating in his home when he goes on the boat. He came home a day early and found her in bed with another man...

He took wife to see psychiatrist who diagnosed her with depression with suicidal ideation and alcoholism.

They have a two month old child.

She is 19. My brother is 23. The wife has been hanging with a girl who's boyfriend is involved in gang activity.

She is down to 90lbs and we have reason to believe she is using drugs, other than marijuana.

She has already threatened my brother with knives and is extremely violent and erratic. She still has a key to their apartment. He fears for his safety and the safety of their child.

Can he put her away? How would he go about doing this.

He is filing for divorce today.

Thanks.

2007-09-14 02:11:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-14 02:11:34 · 2 answers · asked by kerryann 1

top of my husband while having sex??? doing it in the dark doesn´t make me feel less embarrassed...I am afraid of the tecnical part...how can I overcome this?

2007-09-14 02:01:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently 21 weeks pregnant with our first child. My husband and I will be married for 2 years soon.
Since I have been pregnant, my husband doesn't seem interested in having sex with me. I weighed 98 lbs before I got pregnant and am only up to 108. I keep in shape and so far, all I am is belly. No other kind of "fat". The only reason I'm mentioning this is because, I don't know if it's because my body looks different. Is why he doesn't want to have sex with me?
This has happened twice now. The first itme, I initiated it and we ended up doing it, but I swear I felt like I was "making him".
Yesterday, I tried to initiate it and I could tell he didn't want any part of it.
It makes me cry and makes me feel like I look gross to him or something.
We haven't been "intimate" very much lately at all, and yesterday when I asked him what the problem was- he said "it's hard to go from not messing around for a while to messing around again". He's my husband. Why would that be so hard?

2007-09-14 01:59:00 · 11 answers · asked by Julie 2

What do you think about a person that suddenly went out where she s living?
with a man; and then no more contact : she erased/ msn;orkut, her photo stock site, anda more...what could happen?

2007-09-14 01:57:29 · 2 answers · asked by alex a 6

2007-09-14 01:42:05 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lived with someone for 6 years and loved him deeply. He wanted us to 'experiment' sexually, in particular with another man (for me,not him, but while he was in the room). I eventually caved in and allowed it, but broke up with him soon afterwards because I couldn't cope with the self-disgust. It's been nearly a year and I am in another relationship, but I cannot forget this man and all the good things we had apart from his bizarre sexuality.
I am 46 and have had several relationships in my life, but had never experienced one where I felt my partner knew me as well as he did. I still ring him now and then, cry when sad songs come on the radio - all that crazy stuff.
I think I just need some other people to reinforce to me that I did the right thing so I can move on. None of my family or friends know why we split: they think I was cruel to have broken his heart just because they think I was bored. I can't tell them I broke my heart too, they will want to know why.

2007-09-14 01:33:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-14 01:31:06 · 15 answers · asked by Davey J 1

My husband told me i need therapy and that he does not want to listen to my feelings anymore that he thinks they are stupid because he does not understand them. I just had a baby three weeks ago by the way and I feel really fat and ugly right now and he told me to go for a walk then. Am i crazy or is this the most unsupportive thing ever

2007-09-14 01:30:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous 3

He wanted her to tell him in person that she was leaving him, he wasn't satisfied that she told him on the phone and he also wanted her to bring some shirts that she had of his and he would give her her stuff back. She was to go to his house for a short time. He ended up drugging her, making her sign notes that she owes him lot's of money that she will pay back, when he is the one who owes her money. Then he raped her. My question what's the best thing for her to do? Who should she tell about this?

2007-09-14 01:12:14 · 11 answers · asked by shirlandjerry@yahoo.com 2

My husband has got to lose some weight, and get into shape! It is getting so bad that I am just not that physically attracted to him anymore. I tried setting a good example by going to the gym, and I started cooking healthier meals. I've asked him to join me at the gym, go for walks, play tennis, organize volleyball games, etc. He is just not interested. I don't expect him to look like Brad PItt, but I'd really like to see him take more interest in how he looks, and take better care of himself. This is a problem for me and I don't know how I can tell him so without hurting his feelings. Any advice?

2007-09-14 01:04:34 · 17 answers · asked by Princess 2

i am doughtful i don't know if i still love my boyfreind or what. i have even stayed with this married guy since he's wife doesnot come home offen but i am worried that my boyfreind will find out what can i do

2007-09-14 00:59:52 · 24 answers · asked by lovenote 1