Marriage & Divorce - 11 September 2007

And what do you think your s.o. would change about you? If you want to list a lot of things, what the hel%!

2007-09-11 16:11:40 · 18 answers · asked by GabbyGal 4

Isn't marraige something from the 20th century.
what about trial marraiges for 5 years. the marriage license expires and can be renewed upon new vows. no more divorces.

2007-09-11 16:04:12 · 37 answers · asked by Stingray 7

2007-09-11 16:03:13 · 18 answers · asked by cowboy_fan 5

I have been going out with this girl for about 10 months now, and last night i find out that she has been lying to me about who she is and what she does for a job entirely. she is very pretty and young.compared to me that i am older and divorced. she told me she is french-japanese, and working in finance. but last night i accidently bump into her email find out that she is chinese and university student. i really loved this girl and she really loved me. even my parents really liked her. she explain the reason she lying to me is worry that her nationality and being a student wont make us a chance to be together. the love we had for each other was reality. my parents ask me to kick her out, but i dont know if i should forgive her this time?

2007-09-11 15:59:57 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 6 years. During a recent disagreement, my husband said he doesn't know for sure that he should have married me. But he says he doesn't believe in divorce. It's been a couple of weeks now, but I still can't get it off my mind that if he had it to do over again, he may not have married me. Is he just "stuck" with me then? I don't feel as attracted to him anymore as I used to be if you know what I mean. I thought about getting some counseling, but I can't afford it as I have no money. What, if anything, should I do?

2007-09-11 15:57:57 · 13 answers · asked by conni 6

this guy was good, but he is black colour, im 27 years i know the life after marriage so what i will do ,

2007-09-11 15:50:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

a problem with my boyfriend always downloading and watching porn? He says it's better than cheating, that most guys do it, blah , blah, but I just don't get it.. What do you think?

2007-09-11 15:49:30 · 19 answers · asked by *Dre@* 1

she tells everyone, that she hates me because I made her dad leave. she also tells me that I am mean, and she loves her daddy more, and will I be nice to her dad so she can live with him???

2007-09-11 15:40:52 · 23 answers · asked by scared mom 1

I dont know wat to do..Im involved with 3 married men all under 30 years of age...they also have children..Im in love with all 3 of them and somehow I cant make a decision..I know they are married but marriage these days in 2007 is just a piece of paper...What do I need to do..do I stay with all of them or ditch all 3...please help im in a situation that cannot be erased...Im 22 years old I have my whole life ahead of me...I love all 3 of them...I want positive answers not jealousy answers...

2007-09-11 15:40:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-09-11 15:34:45 · 42 answers · asked by sony anne o 1

Ok my son is moving from his moms to live with me. Im his father. She has agreed to not take it to court. Is there any papers that she can sign saying I no longer have to pay child support and also giving me custody. If there are papers is there any sites I can print them off on? I want to get it done soon. Thanks!

2007-09-11 15:13:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm over one year out of a abusive relationship. It sucked the life out of me. I loved my husband more that anything in this world. He was convicted of a felony for that abuse. I used to be the type of person that could turn heads when I walked in a room but now I don't seem to be the same person. I'm not sure how to get that back. I don't want all of the person I used to be back. I am much more timid and not so tough as I used to be. I would like to find someone to atleast be friends with. Does anyone have any advise for me?

2007-09-11 15:06:54 · 37 answers · asked by Carrie 1

My Ex is asking me to sign papers to forgive him to pay his back child support that he ows to get his drivers licence back that the state of louisiana took away. He said this is the only way to get his drivers licence back. I dont want to sign the papers cause he rarely pays now and ows my child around 14 Thousand in back support. I was wondering if there was another way he can get his licence back without me siging the papers releasing him of ever having to pay all that back support, Or is this only way he is able to get his licence back ?

2007-09-11 15:04:55 · 20 answers · asked by michaelson0416 1

okay so heres the deal...
ive been married to a wonderful man for 4 years and love him with all my heart. we have a baby on the way in october and ive been really trying to not stress or blow up about things. so today while scrolling down on my caller id i noticed that his ex wife had his last name on the caller id and she has obvisly been using the last name to get things or just to be the b*tch she is. im mad because she still has his last name like she is still married to him even though they have been divorced for 7 years and she also is remarried and i guess i feel like she is still his wife because of seeing her with his last name. am i wrong for being so upset about this? and i so badly would like to report her to whatever i need to report her to but i dont know. can she get introble for using my husbands and i last name and if so what can be done and how would i go by taking care of this matter.if i wasnt pregnant i would beat the b*itch a*ss for acting like my husband is hers

2007-09-11 15:00:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Polygamist sects, as far as I know, only allow for men to have many wives but not for women to have many husbands.

Seeing as how the birth rate is something like 49% male and 51% female (+ or - 2 points) then it is statistically impossible for polygamy to work since eventually there won't be enough women to be paired off with men. How do polygamists solve for this problem?

2007-09-11 14:42:29 · 3 answers · asked by newtobigd78 4

My bf (of 2 years) and I broke up in July. He told me when I was 6 1/2 mos preggo that he wasn't ready and stormed out when I wouldn't "take care" of the situation. He is a selfish, immature, abusive, lying sob and yes, I should have dumped him a long time ago, but stupid me let my feelings get in the way. He has not tried to contact me for well over a month. I absolutely hate him for abandoning me, when he wanted this baby for a long time. I have no family here, but great friend support, great job, I'm 34 healthy and independent. I'm also going to a therapist b/c he messed me up bad. I've thought about telling him when our son is born and then I'm like "no way". I don't even know if I want to waste my time w/child support as he never paid for anything when we were together. It's hard for me to do everything on my own, but I'm getting thru this. As much as I loved him, I will never forget or forgive him. I thought about calling his family after the birth b/c they don't know either.

2007-09-11 14:34:13 · 59 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4

if you're 26.

2007-09-11 14:30:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

She left me for some other guy after four years! What can I do to get over it, or at least stop the pain?

2007-09-11 14:15:08 · 15 answers · asked by Brian V 5

The wife and I have fallen into a rut. We come home from work, lay on the couch and watch tv and then go to bed.
Causing friction.
Any ideas to liven things up?
Things to do?

2007-09-11 13:39:05 · 7 answers · asked by smars442002 5

I see how men are either married or in a relationship & advertise themselves as single & looking in the Classifieds section. How I know? I compare the ad with the profile & it says 2 different things. Do they use MySpace to cheat on their spouses?

2007-09-11 13:09:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I try to talk to him as openly and honestly as ever but its just not working...what can I do???

2007-09-11 13:05:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

To all those people who gave me answers without READING first! My Partner has been TRYING to get divorced for over 4 years. SHE WILL NOT SIGN THE DIVORCE. He pays her every cent he OWES her in Child support and more. She still wants MORE than her share because she has been in school for over 4 years and needs the money he gives her for HIS CHILDERN to cover her school costs becasue she doesn't WORK. WE had children because we are in LOVE and have been together for 4 years and I wanted kids too (my first kids). The whole time we've been together he's been TRYING to get a divorce! She is a greedy woman who isn't LOOKING after her children financially at all! It is the responsibility of BOTH parents, that is why I am getting a job. Why doesn't SHe get a job too instead of spending all the money she gets for her kids on herself! Why should we go bankrupt supporting her to go to school?! Sheesh

2007-09-11 12:55:25 · 8 answers · asked by getlostex 1

I have never loved anyone in my life, even my parents, but I respect my parents. I don't love, but I respect. I think love is for weaklings and is not manly. Since I am a man, I trained myself from an early age to not feel any emotion besides anger. I never smile and I laugh only with my best friends. Most girls I know are a bunch of cry babies or cheerleaders who are already taken. I could never give a girl a gift or flowers without being embarassed. So right there, that would ruin it. The only thing I have ever been afraid in my life of is love. I will never show it and I don't want anyone to show it to me or I would probably have a stroke. I hate sex because it is a weak, disgusting, and submissive act, and I might end up with kids. I am the controller and dictator, not an inferior woman. Women should play lesser roles. I could never be a father and I have no patience for little kids. So I can't see why people think I am missing out on life when I avoid women and kids altogether

2007-09-11 12:52:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Without a lot of details (married him, found this info out after, he is jealous, possesive, controlling, flirtatious , cheated, has lots of female friends, but wants therapy to save marriage), Now the ? If you found out your husband visited prostitutes on average twice a month for 4 years during his previous marriage; he says because X sex starved him, and he thought it better than an affair that would destroy their family - what would you do/think? Are you counting how many women this must be? Really though - what are your thoughts???

2007-09-11 12:44:27 · 21 answers · asked by Springtime of my Loving 2

Why would a married man admit to his wife that he is cheating and thinks its funny? This recently happened to my sister. She is seeing a divorce lawyer next week. This is after 33 years of marriage.

2007-09-11 12:40:02 · 16 answers · asked by Annabelle 4

my mom took her credit card put it under my dads name without him even knowing name and used it till there was a big bill .and now he has to pay.. it off,and then my mom doesnt pay most of the bills so she makes my dad pAY THEM AND SHE a acount where most of his money goes with her and she has a high paying job +the money he makes and so my moms telling him to pay the bills.and my dad is seriously dead mad at her whos right in this situation ps. their gettin a divorce

2007-09-11 12:34:36 · 29 answers · asked by *KEVIN* 2

i went to meet him at a public place a bar and we were talking he told me that he missed me and loved me then he kissed me a passonate kiss and then something happened well i feel ashamed because i love my husband kory very much but i have feelings for daniel too Help

2007-09-11 12:24:14 · 45 answers · asked by A 1

My ex-g/f of 10 years cheated on me. She got pregnant. Came back to me for forgiveness. I forgave her. She wanted an abortion. I forgave her again. I made her feel comfortable and I was a genuine friend/lover (yep, stupid me) and I was there for her in every way. She promised a life with me again, FOR THE FOURTH TIME. Yep she cheated on me 4 times. You can call me an idiot and tell me to grow a backbone or selfesteem. I loved her. I loved her forever. Not anymore. Luckily I saw right through her this time. Take a wild guess where she is at now? She owed me $1500 and it should be in my hand by friday. Do you all think she will give it to me? I am THE only one who knows about the abortion, so, I better be getting the money. Also, answer me this please. Her "b/f", an abusive person, convicted drunk driver, possible drug user, compulsive gambler, 110% loser will ever make a relationship work? Thats who she was with, again and again, and as of today (her dad 2007). I did love her.

2007-09-11 12:21:16 · 12 answers · asked by cappatown23 3

Would u do this to your kid and laugh?
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=-fVDGu82FeQ
For those who dont trust links, just do a search on youtube and search: kid blood
it should be the first video

2007-09-11 12:07:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's mainly videos of women showing their butts and stuff on YouTube, it's nothing hard-core. I am 5 mos preg and I tell him that with my changing body I think he has to look at other images b/c I'm not satisfying him. He says that one has nothing do to with the other. He said it's a man thing and that it's just things that men sometimes look at. He says it has nothing to do with me. He says these things but I still feel so insecure. Why do men watch this stuff.. is it b/c they're not satisfied at home?

2007-09-11 11:35:04 · 12 answers · asked by Karla Marx 3