Marriage & Divorce - 11 September 2007

2007-09-11 11:27:33 · 15 answers · asked by C Deezy McCain 3

My BF moved from atlanta to get away from an abusive relationship. Shes been my bf for 18yrs. My husband and I decided to let her stay with us until she got herself together. She has been living with us for close to 9 months now. 3 months ago, we were all having a little drink and strange things started to happen. We had a 3some. Since that time we had one at least 2x's a week. Things started to get strange and I became uncomfortable, so I called it off. No More 3somes. last week my bf confessed to me that she was in love with ME! I told her I am not a lesbian & I love my husband. I told my husband about it & he then confessed that he was in love with HER! After hitting the roof about this, my BF then tells me she is pregnant! By my Husband! :( She actually wanted me and her to raise the baby. I want her 2 get abortion but she wont. As it stands, shes in love with me, pregnant by my husband, hes in love with her and Im still in love with him. what am i going to do?

2007-09-11 11:10:06 · 51 answers · asked by Simply Beautiful 2

I also pay for 2 kids cell phone bills and clothes as well as whatever else I can afford. A perfect example was that my ex did not send my son with all of his Little League equipment so I went out and bought it the day before which is fine with me.We seem to get along better lately and I want to continue things that way for the kids sake. How can I tell her diplomatically that I do not have to give her money directly except what is required and that I will buy them the extras that they need when I can afford it.

2007-09-11 11:04:44 · 39 answers · asked by paco 1

Would you date someone who is poor? Would you be willing to support someone who has no job?
Do you put money away into savings and stay on top of your finances while he spends everything he has and doesnt have a thing to show for it?

2007-09-11 11:03:48 · 8 answers · asked by happydawg 6

I am a 48 year old male , been married for 21 years. The divorce is almost final how ever we can't seem to come to an agreement on our assets. I want to move out. What should I do? It scares me to think aboute the dating thing all over again.

2007-09-11 11:03:38 · 9 answers · asked by pd 1

My daughter lives with her father and she really wants to leave. He doesn't provide for her and doesn't take care of her. ie. taking her to the dr. or dentist...
She is now having extreem difficulties in school, mostly due to him not providing her with new clothing and supplies. I have contributed to her new schoool stuff but only half to see if he would provide the rest.
She wants to leave his home and live with me (2 hrs away). I want her to be with me, but have no extra money for a lawyer, but will get it if I have to. I just want to know what I can do immediately, given her age.
I have let things go for a while because I think her education would be better where she is, but it's not so important that I'm willing to let him continue to neglect her. I will do whatever I need to do at this point.

2007-09-11 10:54:10 · 5 answers · asked by witchhayzle 1

I really want to spend the rest of my life with him but he doesn't want to marry me. How do I turn his heart around?

2007-09-11 10:38:46 · 12 answers · asked by Autumns Mom 1

well i come from a family where none of them got a divorce in their life time and it kinda make me nervous because i have trust issues.now at present i live with a girl and she asked me to marry her and i also love her very much and we have been together for only six months.if we get married now incase if she cheats on me in future i will definitely get a divorce but my question is,is there any possibility that i will loose half of my assets eventhough she cheated on me after the divorce ,well i know how courts side with women if there is a child involved ,what will happen if we dont have a child at all.i really need an opinion on this issue .coz i earn 5 times more than her and i also have some assets from my family inheritence too whereas she dont have anything like that coz she is an orphan.

2007-09-11 10:37:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/UnfortunateCircumstance/

2007-09-11 10:27:13 · 10 answers · asked by wendy v 1

Someone told me you can have an "emotional affair"? Or calling someone on the phone and talking can be considered an "affair" too?

2007-09-11 10:21:20 · 39 answers · asked by Florida-Fan1 2

2007-09-11 10:05:33 · 44 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5

My wife and I were married under Christian marriage act before a marriage registrar in India. We would like to divorce under mutual consent. Both of us are now residing out side India. Is it possible for us to file a joint application for divorce while being out side India? I mean, should the application be done in person or can it be done by power of attorney? how and where do I obtain such an application? Should the filing of application be done at the same jurisdiction where the marriage was held or can it be done anywhere in India?

2007-09-11 10:03:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-11 09:57:30 · 15 answers · asked by komi h 2

okay here's the story shortened up,
this guy saw a picture of my sis and thought she was pretty and wanted to meet her.
and recently they ran into each other and talked.
they went to the club and had a great time.
but we found out that they have the same last name and are 5th cousins!!!!
he says theyre really not cousins anymore
but my sister in not to sure.
i am all for it, but she wants to know, is this wrong?

2007-09-11 09:56:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

husband wants to move to suburbs of new jersey. i want to stay in manhattan. i hate the 'burbs. we have no kids. only a golden retriever. i would rather live in a box in the city than live in the 'burbs with the soccer moms and bratty teenagers wearing juicy couture and driving beamers. i like not having to drive everywhere and having an easy commute and having diversity and everything the city has to offer. both of us won't budge, is this the end of our relationship? thanks.

2007-09-11 09:53:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

O.K. I"m 43..I recently moved back to my 'old' neighborhood..and one of my 'old' aquaintences (29) has contacted me...well, we have 'hooked-up' these last two days just like the 'old' days.
Anyway, this 'time around' I am begining to think she wants more than sex. Little hints like, 'no one has made her as happy as I did all these years' and calling me witin an hour of leaving my place, both days. She currently lives with another man and has mentioned how much she wants out of that situation.
She initiated our new relationship on monday. She called and we talked awhile. Then she said she wanted to come over and **** me. Sounded good to me at the time...I just didnt know she changed after all this time and wants more than I'm ready to give her.
Please dont judge either of us...I just need some advice on how to handle this carefully without hurting her feelings (we are still really good friends).
As shallow as I sound: 'I'm just in it for the sex'.

2007-09-11 09:52:45 · 11 answers · asked by ? 4

2007-09-11 09:48:13 · 13 answers · asked by candiedcoatedkisses 1

2007-09-11 09:46:06 · 19 answers · asked by Frankie 4

me and my ex are getting divorce we both agree and we have been married for about 1yr and 8 months,,we also stoped leaving together like in the 5th month of married ,so only together for 5 months ..i called some notary around to help me do the paperwork.. and one told me she can take care of the whole thing for 600.00 and i just had to buy the paper work...about 320.00.and it would take about 3 to 6 months,,and that we might meet with her atleat 4 times to sing papers... does this sound right... i need help getting divorce?

2007-09-11 09:28:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband believes that you don't need to spend time to gether to make a marriage work. He says he is to busy to care what I thinkl or what I feel. Because I believe that it will never work if you don't spend time together and that you are NEVER to busy to make a little time for your family IF YOU WANT TO AND IF YOU WANT IT TO WORK. He believes I am being to needy. What do you think. I believe he no longer loves me and that is why he no longer cares how I feel and stays as busy as he can.

2007-09-11 09:24:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

my man keeps blowing me off during footballl season.when can i talk to him?

2007-09-11 09:24:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married now after a break up with my ex. I talked to him only once and he was crying, sounding really measurable. He had cheated on me, I was hurt that time. I cried like helpless, drove here and there as if I am going to die. My ex bf left me for another b'ful girl. He always said I am not b'ful and he dumped me like a piece of paper. He didn't even look back that time to me. I have been with him for 2 years. I loved him with all my heart.I pray for him always. But lately he found that girl is having a very bad past and then he already slept with her. He asked me to save him, I was still waiting for him. I said to be strong and realise things. But instead he was saying he loves her so much, its true love(2months only it lasted). He never gave me a final answer. Now i am married, he called said, he is regretting of what he did. I told everything correct and why didn't i pull him. he said he will die. he is a bad person. I still love him,but cant trust or forgive him.What he wants?

2007-09-11 09:08:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I get married next year, if I have sex with a woman before I get married then is it still cheating? It's something that I really want to do but I'm not sure that my fiance would be impressed or supportive.

2007-09-11 09:04:20 · 42 answers · asked by Sarah 3

2007-09-11 09:00:28 · 26 answers · asked by Chris R 1

I am getting married next month, and i cant decide whether to keep my surname as it is now, and add on my partners, so it is double barrelled, or whether to ditch my surname and just use his. Does anyone know how easy it is to change your surname by deed poll at a later date, or if i kept it double barrelled, can i choose which surname i have on documentation?

2007-09-11 08:56:12 · 18 answers · asked by birchall_sarah 2

One thing after another with ex. It is hard to know that he will get someone else and treat them better.

2007-09-11 08:48:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ladies, do u look at porn pics on the internet? If so how does it make u feel? My sex life has gotten rave reviews after I take my fill of the pics and I also get ideas. The older you get the more adventourous you get!

2007-09-11 08:48:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there any men alive on the earth today that are trustworthy as far as to their spouse? I mean for those of you who do not actually cheat, do you do things online like chat with women or look at them online lustfully? You know, things that you know your spouse would not approve of? If so, WHY???

2007-09-11 08:42:58 · 11 answers · asked by Stacy C 1

2007-09-11 08:42:17 · 14 answers · asked by doODADOO 1

and when you got back to your place and started messing around more, you found out she had some extra euipment under her skirt and panties?

2007-09-11 08:39:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous