Marriage & Divorce - 11 September 2007

i am afraid to fall in love with someone?i m scare to hurt his feelings and also mine.don't mind to be hurt.i m afraid the expectation is too much from other side,i m talking like i m so great but the truth is i am not.what does this mean? i just need to be loved but why cant i get it?But God love is always there they said..but God love is different from human love....

2007-09-11 02:49:23 · 11 answers · asked by truth set free 1

What if the husband was dying?

2007-09-11 02:46:19 · 27 answers · asked by Svetlana 2

Married 28 yrs, last 2 or so have been difficult. Awhile back he started his own email acct (in the past we've always had the same password) and I just found out last week that he is talking to classmates from classmates.com. He went out w/ 3 females he went to school with last week and I never knew he was talking to them until he wanted to meet up with them (2 are married, 1 is not). I lgot suspicious and looked in his cell and found a couple of contacts that I don't know who they are...when I questioned him about it he just said he talks to alot of people (which he really does for business) and that I should not be going through his stuff. This is the 1st time this has happened, however the last couple of years we've had some problems w/ our marriage. What do you think?

2007-09-11 02:31:39 · 64 answers · asked by bambam4343 1

Okay, don't tell me to leave him, we have kdis and I want to try one last time. a year ago he moved in with a coworker, when he came back he did & said a lot of hurtful things, but i tried to get past it. we have been back together for 10 months. sometimes i still have a hard time with it, so a few days ago he is like you know i never really slept with her. so for a brief time i was very hapy because that is why i couldn't get over it, then he decided to stab me in the heart the next day by telling me that he did, twice. see when he first came back he told me only once because he felt guilty about it, now he says twice so that tells me he does not feel bad. but the last 10 months have been nothing but a lie. i know i don't deserve this, but aside from sleeping with her what hurts the most is knowing he doesn't seem to care, he doesn't realize how hurt i am, i cry every single day. he says he don't show emotions. well everytime i cry he gets angry and yells at me.

2007-09-11 02:30:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-11 02:19:59 · 16 answers · asked by opossum3 1

2007-09-11 02:17:10 · 19 answers · asked by smiles22 3

My wife has a tendancy to tell half truths and it pisses me off. She came home Friday and said she had some cosmetic injections done. This was a total surprise to me, I had spoken to her earlier in the day and nothing was said, not a word was mentioned the whole week before. Anyway, she comes in and with a smile said I had injections... I said OK, what did you have done? Her reply was, I had my laugh lines filled and thats it, and for around $330.00 bucks. I was ok with it and we had a great weekend, I asked how she was feeling and of course the weekend went fine. Last night I was picking up and found the receipt for her Dr.s Visit... $1100.00.. I was blown away. WTF, Why cant she ever tell me the WHOLE truth.... She has a pattern of doing this and It's beginning to build a untrusting feeling within me. I'm not pissed that she did this without talking to me about it, just pissed that she can't tell the truth. Am I wrong for feeling like this. BTW, 20 years married.

2007-09-11 01:44:05 · 37 answers · asked by Pilot 202 1

My husband bought me a Nintendo hand held console for my 30TH birthday. I had been hinting for months that i wanted a nice ring i had seen in a jewelers. I smiled and said thank you when he gave me the nintendo but I dont play computer games of any sort and it's not really my thing. So i sold it on ebay. My husband was a bit upset when i told him.
Do you think i was right?

2007-09-11 01:35:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

i gave my husband the ultimatum me or his online affair
i left he came after me and chose me but how do i get past that he has done this to us
my trust every time i hear him type on his computer i think hes talking to her
i new his password until all this has happened but now since last night he changed it all i want is for my trust to be true
and his for me should i tell him to get a new email address cos she sends him emails all the time i asked him how anxious he was to talk to her and he said a 6 out of ten
i am gonna change his pass word so that only i no it is that gonna help he has agreed to this because he wants to save our marriage to i told him its gonna take time for me to get my head around this but i dont think he aknowledges how much he has hurt me i dont have any one to talk to about this so plese help should i forget it has ever happened or try and deal with the fact he has feelings for another woman

2007-09-11 01:31:43 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband goes back and forth with me...tells me he loves me one day and the next-he says "I don't like you". I ask to go to counseling and it gets ignored. I get called names like stupid b**** and when I try and fight back, I am the bad guy. I have to scream to make myself heard because he is always talking over me.
I have a 1 1/2 year old son and I really am feeling like divorce may be the best way to go, and to do it now while my son is young.
I am so hurt and angry though-how do I know I am thinking clearly? Please help and please don't be rude, today is not the day for it.

2007-09-11 01:23:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I m Rekha my hubby's name is Varun and I love Amit who is married with Meena I have 2 kids i m 39 and Amit is 52 he also hv 2 kids my daughter in 10 & son in 7 Amit's son will marry in Dec 2007 and IInd son is doing engg. I am working salary only 8000 my husband do not do anything and not earning a single penny i do all househld exp. in my 8000 salary ( my marriage date is Jan 1988) In 1996 when i worked in amit's factory we both fall in love So, we decided that i will resign from amit's factory b'coz we want to be personal relation with each other then official work is going held on so we decided otherwise personal relation or official relation i have change my job since 96 to till we r frnds i m getting now 8000 & amit is giving me per mnth 2500 we usually on telphone daily 2-3 hrs & meet after 2-3 days normally he help me everytime when I will be in prblm. daily we talk on telephone 2-3 hrs from last 12 yrs we love each other so much Is our relation right or wrong ?

2007-09-11 00:25:02 · 24 answers · asked by indian 1