what about a so call friend calling your spouce all the time? and spouce says no big deal?

Answer 1

if she was YOUR friend to begin with then that is definately strange and annoying. What the hell is she doing or trying to prove. maybe she is jealous of you. tell her to beat it and get her own man if she needs someone to talk to. I would wonder what they are talking about. tell your so called friend "if you want someone to talk to, then call me." Flat out tell her that your uncomfortable and you dont want her calling your man on a regular basis, i mean its different if she had to ask him a question about a certain topic he would have knowledge in, like my husband is a contractor and if a friend of mine wants to ask him a question about what he thinks of something regarding there house or something that is fine but just to chat is not cool, very inapropriate. take care of this now. Good luck.

Answer 2

I would say there is something more deeper seriously wrong within the marriage, the friend calling is only bringing this out in the open. The problem is that your spouse appears to place his loyalties and priorities elsewhere and this never works in any marriage. This must be making you feel betrayed and very hurt. You need to reflect why loyalty and friendship seem to be missing in your marriage. For him to not even validate your care about your feelings indicates his devotion is misplaced. First work on this issue for if it will not be this friend it will be something or someone else. Wish you all the best.

Answer 3

BIG PROBLEM.

Huge problem.

Me personally? I would tell my husband to lose the friend, or lose me.

Don't bother talking to the friend. She'll get offended and try even more to split you up.

Keep an eye on his cell-phone calls. He might start talking to her when he isn't at home, so you can't tell she is still calling.

What is your gut feeling? Is she a threat?

With a little more investigating, you'll find out the truth.

Answer 4

It may not be a big deal to him, but have you told him it is for you.

If he doesn't seem to have a problem with it, get him to put this friend on speaker phone next time she calls..... but make sure you tell him this when he is actually on the phone to her, that way he has had no time to warn her.

If he hesitates then you will know that you may have something to be worried about.................

Answer 5

It's a big deal if the other person has an issue with it. I'm assuming the "friend" is the opposite sex...if so, express how you feel about it.

Answer 6

may be it is not a big deal, other they would have tried to hide it.
u are the best who can judge this, can u trust yr wife? can u trust yr freind? do they share something in common that give them a good reason to talk that often? yr wife behaviour when she receives these calls

Answer 7

Is the friend male or female? Either way, it doesn't matter. People are allowed to have friends, right? Wait until your spouse gives you a resaon to be suspicious before you go confronting them about it.

Answer 8

that depends. my hubby had a "friend" that he was talking to all the time. he also never told me about her. trust me, it is a big deal. my hubby and his "friend" ended up talking 5 times a day every day for 4 months. on holidays and everything. there should be no need to talk to a friend all the time when he has you. that is time that he needs to be talking to you.

Answer 9

Then it's no big deal. Without trust in a relationship you don't have anything. If you don't trust what your spouse is telling you then it's time to leave my friend.

Answer 10

ok well same thing!!!!!my husbands 17 year old employee called and what did he say(oh no big thing only friends)they were sleeping together!!!!!wake up babe and find out what is going on before things get way out of hand!!!!