i am afraid to fall in love with someone?i m scare to hurt his feelings and also mine.don't mind to be hurt.i m afraid the expectation is too much from other side,i m talking like i m so great but the truth is i am not.what does this mean? i just need to be loved but why cant i get it?But God love is always there they said..but God love is different from human love....
2007-09-11 02:49:23 · 11 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
insecure then how do i come with it?
2007-09-11 02:54:09 · update #1
This is life you have got to go for it. Don't cry when it is over, smile that it happened.
2007-09-11 02:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by plyjanney 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi hon...
Just because we date someone doesn't mean they are "the one" we are going to fall in love with... Dating is a good way to socialize with people, and you can date more than one person. It's ok to do so.
If you aren't "ready" for a serious relationship right now, then you don't have to have one. If you date someone, you can let them know that you enjoy going out and doing things, not ready for a serious committment at this time.
Yes, sometimes people we date can have a lot of expectations of us... letting them know we aren't yet ready for a serious and committed relationship might help.
I'm sure that, given time and growth, you will eventually be prepared for something more serious.
I have put a link below for a teen website which gives alot of great advice on a variety of subjects which concerns kids.. You didn't say whether you are a teen or not, but i was assuming so (sorry if not).
take care of yourself, and i wish you all the best, that's for sure!
2007-09-11 10:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask your self, why your afraid of love? You know God loves you, so why wouldn't he want you to find happiness on earth.No ones perfect , we all make mistakes.Its what you do after you've made a mistake.LEARN FROM IT ! we all need happiness & most important you do too because God loves you! Take the time to find the right guy God wants for you!
2007-09-11 10:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God's love goes beyond all understanding and we can never come close to that. It's sounds like maybe you need to love yourself first? You said "I'm talking like I'm so great but the truth is I am not", to me that sounds like low self esteem. I am sure you are great and it's okay to expect the best in someone else. When you find that open your heart and take that leap of faith, trust in God and include him in all your relationships and you wont fail. But first of all I want you to start believing in yourself!
2007-09-11 09:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you may really be afraid of being responsible.
You may already feel there is a lot on your plate already, and adding a whole nother person's life and issues is just enough to scare you away from the good aspects of a relationship.
2007-09-11 09:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feeling of insecurity will be over once you get married. Pray to get a good husband. For time being you spend more time with your friends which will make you much happier.
But select those friends whose company you enjoy. Iam sure it will make you feel better.
ALL THE BEST
2007-09-11 10:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by abina s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are over analyzing this, go out and have fun and Love will sneek up on you before you can do anything about it....
2007-09-11 10:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fall in love and have fun instead until your ready plenty of people out there are up for it
2007-09-11 09:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are feeling insecure.
2007-09-11 09:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're full of insecurities and self doubt. until you get that settled, nothing will change.
2007-09-11 09:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋