The wife and I have fallen into a rut. We come home from work, lay on the couch and watch tv and then go to bed.
Causing friction.
Any ideas to liven things up?
Things to do?
2007-09-11 13:39:05 · 7 answers · asked by smars442002 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Married 18yrs, 2 daughters, 1 at college,1 at home but never home(sr in hs) Live near Atlanta
2007-09-11 14:02:30 · update #1
Just do things. Go see a movie, out to dinner, play a game, theres a lot of things you can do, be creative.
2007-09-11 13:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Tristana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most couples won't do this but i highly wreck amend it because it works. If you can move back in with parents or if your fortunate enough where as you can afford to get your own apartment i would do just that. For 6 months or so you become a dating couple again where you spend a night with her and her with you,and the two of you go out on dates. Being apart will bring back the love and spark you once had. Me and my husband separated but in that time we started acting like we were back dating again and it was so much fun it brought our love back and our marriage is still going very strong. We been married for a little over 28 years now.I know it's a little drastic so try this take her out to dinner have her drink some wine (very important) and take her to a nice hotel for a night you will be very surprised what we will do when our husband does something as nice as that for us,she will reward you for it.
2007-09-11 13:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to go out together at least once a week, dinner, movie, or just a long walk and talk. Something you can share and talk about later. Also a little surprise now and then...a flower at work or at home, candy you both can nibble on and watch the sparks fly! I also understand that when men help do something around the house for wifey it's a real turn on. But do it on a regular basis so she doesn't think you just want sex. :)
2007-09-11 13:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by sorri 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out somewhere..tell her when she gets home from work to change cause your takin her out do not go 2 the movies.. & i dont no what you like to do but i dont no where u guys live drive through times square at night just drive get some coffee some ice cream listen to 2 nice music then have sex in the back seat ..... lol um i dont no what there is 2 do there just go out
2007-09-11 13:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by mtnhotte 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want something you have never had, you're going to have to do something you have never done before - get to it dude!!! Date night, Dance night (slow of course), Kiss night, that is where you kiss each other - no hands - for as long as you can, before you use hands. Touch football, strip naked and rub your partner head to toe, and whisper why it is you love each body part, That ought to be enough to get you started LOL! Try it you'll like it!!!
2007-09-11 14:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Pastey Pat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date night!!!!
my husband and i do that every week. We either pick a friday or saturday night, drop the kiddos off at my moms. It helps to get alone time, and do something fun. and gets us out of the everyday funk.
2007-09-11 13:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by love_fool_87111 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Smores this is the devil speaking...time to hit the porn store buy some toys spice it up.
Some sexy nighties will do.
2007-09-11 13:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋