Ok my son is moving from his moms to live with me. Im his father. She has agreed to not take it to court. Is there any papers that she can sign saying I no longer have to pay child support and also giving me custody. If there are papers is there any sites I can print them off on? I want to get it done soon. Thanks!
2007-09-11 15:13:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only mother serious answers or if you think you can help me.
2007-09-12 00:45:58 · update #1
Anything that she signs that is notarized is acceptable. However, I would strongly recommend paying $50-$100 for an attorney to draft a copy of a letter stating what you need it to. You can ask him to reword it to sound more like your composition so that it doesn't scare her off.
But a change in child support has to go through a court system, at least in Ohio. Uncontested, it's only a 15 minute process, and she won't have to sign your document. Her testimony in court, along with signing the court's paperwork is sufficient.
2007-09-11 15:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by diesel_pusher2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She agrees not to take it to court? There is only one reason I can think of- she is afraid that she will be told to pay child support as non custodial parent. Do both of you realize that in 2007 child support isn't an "option" but law?!
If he is going to live with you, yes it can be modified or eliminated. Do not trust a verbal or non-court decision- it will backfire.
If you are switching custody, schools will want court papers anyway . If it is a mutual decision, then it ought to be pretty easy- contact superior court, go down there and ask the clerck what papers to file.
2007-09-11 16:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by atheleticman_fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa hoss! This is SO not a good idea! Whether she has agreed for you to take the child or not is of little consequence. You had BETTER let the court know!!! And because she still has legal custody, you still owe child support. DON'T GO OUTSIDE THE COURT AND DO THIS! You may wind up with your butt in jail for custodial interference! Maybe even kidnapping! This is no joke. How do I know this? I work for an Indiana Sheriff's Office and I see it all the time. If you have a lawyer, TALK WITH YOUR LAWYER. If you don't...better find one.
2007-09-11 15:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by Gary E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, only way any of that can be done is through the court. You can't change ANY court orders on your own any amendments HAVE to go through the court. So your son will be living with you and you will be paying his mother child support until you go to court. DAMN wish I could have gotten that deal! LOL
2007-09-11 18:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Been there my friend. Only a judge can order support so only a judge can abolish it. As far as the custody deal, I would suggest having a lawyer type up something and get your ex to sign it in tje lawyers presence.
2007-09-12 19:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be able to pull something online but you really need to get your current child support enforcement amended. You should do this for your own good. You and your ex can also have an agreement drawn up together and have it notarized and it will become a legal binding agreement.
2007-09-11 15:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get it in writing. You have to go to court. Have her sign a paper with the date you are getting him so you'll have proof of the date. Protect yourself. Even if you are getting along now, things might change.
2007-09-11 15:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋