Marriage & Divorce - 20 August 2007

my x got married a month before the court hearing for modifation of support. the child support went from 607 dollars a month to 371dollars just because he was able to claim her youngest child because she was not reseving support from that child's father.
And for those ones think that i need to get a job, I work two jobs and have five children. also i have not been with him for over ten years so it is not jealous.
My son snowboards and my daughter is part of a rockclimbing team. they are 13 and 12 thing are not cheap.
My x use to pay 345 a month for support when they were 3 and 2.
I dont think this is fare.

2007-08-20 17:35:24 · 6 answers · asked by Sherrie Ann 1

What kind of attention do they like? compliments, etc?

2007-08-20 17:32:52 · 22 answers · asked by Darp_L 1

My husband knows I frighten easily and he went on a business trip leaving a coat hanger behind my transparent shower curtain, with a black coat on it and boots at the bottom. Scared the you know what outta me when I walked into the bathroom and I want to get him back!
Any ideas?

2007-08-20 17:31:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brothers ex gf went on an adult dating site {sex site} and met this perverted guy online it appears.
Everything was fine up until he asked her to have 'cam sex' with him.
Told me she STOPPED communication with him at once.
Later found his profile on y/q-n-a and ALL his questions were regarding video's. LIke : how does he 'show a video he has to another computer screen'? [it looked like he wanted to know how to operate/show a video on his computer to another]
Could it be that this person is in the sex industry in efforts to get women to drop their pants, then SELLS his personal vids online?
sounds weird to me man
thot she should see some answers here that I could tell her about tomorrow

2007-08-20 17:24:24 · 7 answers · asked by Yvonne 4

2007-08-20 17:23:19 · 6 answers · asked by Tommy Joe 1

he has afairs at work

2007-08-20 17:22:22 · 13 answers · asked by KAY KAY 1

im going to purpose to my girl and i dont know her ring size. should i have her go with me to go get it>? ((that might ruin the ideal)) or if i just bought her one could i get it sized bigger..or smaller. whichever would fit her,`?
PLEASE help me out.
Thanks
God bless

2007-08-20 17:13:25 · 18 answers · asked by TW Styles 1

my boyfriend told me that when his mom and dad were married they both cheated on eachother and so they got divorced. he also told me that his aunt's husband cheated on her with her sister. the woman that his dad is married to now has cheated on her before too. my question is will my boyfriend cheat on me? is this something you can inherit from your parents? i hope not...

2007-08-20 17:12:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

yet, if he slaps her, just once, he's in jail?

Note: (to you morons) I am not trying to justify any kind of physical abuse. I just want to know why the selective shutting of eyes? All 3 are crimes.

2007-08-20 17:05:26 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

When hubby and I were on our first criuse, one of the engines broke, and there was a hurricane following us. It was a day and a half behind us. After we left Puerto Vallarta, that city was hit badly! And b/c of the storm and waves, are ship couldn't stop at Cabo San Lucas. That was the biggest bummer of our trip. We wanted to go there! But thank goodness we were ahead of the storm even on a broken engine. We did get to spend an extra day on the ship though!

2007-08-20 17:00:55 · 5 answers · asked by ellen 4

You have a long distance relationship with someone who does all it takes to be with you knowing that you thousands of miles away from them
everything is perfect

all of a sudden they break up (they disappear, stop taking you calls..)

you figure they wanna break up

then they come back to explain why they broke up ad make up a lie of how they got into a huge problem that made them lose their job etc.. and a car accident and that this is enough stress ..

a few month later you figure out they have someone else


do you think the break up was because of the long distance, or something in me, or the fact they met someone better ?

by the way.. after he " explained" why he broke up he stopped talking to me again... then, months later I called to see how he was doing he started yelling and said I WAS GOING TO cheat on him , what made say that ??

2007-08-20 16:37:24 · 18 answers · asked by leave me alone 1

She says she offering support but then ends her letters with "love and hugs".
I don't even get "love or hugs" Should I be pissed off?

2007-08-20 15:33:57 · 41 answers · asked by huxtable_grimm 1

her mother says she does not believe her daughter. although her mother has left her boyfriend in the past for abuse and even filed a restraining order against him. she dropped the restraining order the next day. she refuses to let his daughter come live with us. she knows her situation is bad neither her mother or boyfriend work and they have a convicted felon living with them on house arrest. also last year her mother made her miss 23 days of school. her mothers boyfriend is an alcoholic too. we called the police and they made us give her back to the mother because he only has joint custody. we filed emergency custody and seeked an attorney. does anyone know what happens in an emergency custody hearing and who all has to be present? based on the info i gave you do you think this is enough for her dad to get custody? any advice and help would greatly be appreciated. also, we called CPS and they did nothing.

2007-08-20 15:14:42 · 4 answers · asked by redenbargers 2

of absence I have not had the chance to get to know my little girl after a bitter divorce she is almost 8 years old and have just seen her for the first time in 5 years two days ago. Mother is wanting to work it out for the sake or her I'm caucious and of course I still Love her mother always have but am more concerned for my daughter and self at finaly becomeing a family, we live 4 hours apart and I will sacrafice what ever nessesary to see her any advice???

2007-08-20 14:55:37 · 9 answers · asked by Ed T 1

How can I give my partner what he wants?? He has asked me to give him time to get his head around our recent seperation. We are not living together at the moment. He says that he still loves me and that he IS comming home. But he just wants some space to sort his unresolved hurt out( I had told him I know longer loved him and wanted him to leave) He tried for months to get me to change my mind, he went out of his way to spoil me and loved me In everyway. But still I said no as I was just so confused. Well anyway, I realsied what he ment to me. I dont no where to start and feel so lost. I have that big lump in my throat and my minds all over the place. I feel so down, I Cry all the time and I text and ring him like a lunitic. I hate doing this but I cant seem to stop. I will get a strong moment where I think I can do it, but the most of gone without texting Is 5 hours. Its so horrible I feel like my mind Is going to explode. I trust him at his word, so how can I stop hounding him?

2007-08-20 14:54:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

for those of us blissfully unaware...

2007-08-20 14:49:51 · 57 answers · asked by sharifjunaid 3

my wife went out of town, and I asked my 2 step children to help put the food away that I went the store the day before. My step children called there mom in private to tell on me. My wife then called me to tell me that she was upset with me, and that I was a bad father and a worse step-father.

2007-08-20 14:24:22 · 17 answers · asked by jefferyjspencer 2

Im having this rocky relationship with a married guy. I did try to break it off with him but we keep on coming back to each other. Then last sunday i saw him in church with the wife and the three kids. We are both Catholics and man, I felt like God was indeed saying something to me. I am deeply hurt and ashamed of what I've done. I am trying to avoid him now. He told me not to think about it too much and just brush it off. I can't. I am so in-love with him but afte seeing his family and how he smiled when he looked at his wife, I felt so wrong for thinking that that smile belonged to me. I've been a fool. I am hurting and mad. Sometimes I almost dont believe it anymore when he tells me he loves me. He doesn't. I don't want to talk to him anymore to break it off. Im thinkin more of just disappearing. Stop talking to him, stop texting, stop emailing... you think this is better? Im afraid taht if I see him I might end up in his arms again. I feel so worthless.

2007-08-20 14:18:28 · 13 answers · asked by Stefani 2

We have been separated for quite a while but were still communicating daily. I begged her to make her mind up to either come back or end it. It was looking pretty good for a little while but the same old issues kept coming back into play and we started argueing again. End result, she packed up and moved away; I guess ending it. I still love her with all my heart and she definately has issues within herself. I just can't, or having a really hard time with it. I miss her and wish things could had got straightened out. My question is: How is the best way to handle this? I'm am so sad and can't keep my mind off her. Can anyone give me any advice to help through this? Thanks for taking the time to read this.

2007-08-20 14:15:57 · 10 answers · asked by Keeper 4

Been with hubby 13 yrs.Have 3 children by him, 8 yr old boy, 3 yr old boy and 20 month old girl.He doesn't work because he was injured in the Army on duty.He is 38 and so am I.He is home 24/7. He has no social life and spends no time with our children. I tell him life is short but when he is not sleeping, he is on the comp or sucked into the TV.He doesn't hear anything they ask. I feel like I am living alone.I think he has played like 3 games with them in 8 yrs and maybe threw a ball a couple times.He has never taken any of them fishing, camping or any kinds of activitiies other then as a family when I have pushed it.He yells everyday about something,mostly at our 8 yr old always doing something wrong but I don't agree.I don't feel like this is normal but I have been with him for 13 yrs I don't know what normal is anymore. He loves us and has promised when I get upset to change but only does till things settleThis is not normal, right?Feel bad to split up but I think this is unhealthy.

2007-08-20 14:05:19 · 47 answers · asked by tia 2

I work with an IT firm as a consultant. I joined in 4 months ago. Now this fellow employee Mr X in the same project is trying to create a lot of problems. He is a fulltime employee who has been in the company from last 5 years, so he tries to dominate over everybody. Our project lead is himself a consultant who is scared to take any action against Mr X. Recently he tried to shove some junk work to me, thinking i will just do all the work he assigns me (mind you he is not my boss). But i refused to do that work since i has lots of other work already lined up. He tries to be a bottleneck to the entire project asking me to take his permission before doing an task, even though he is not my boss. Sometimes when i dont take his permission he fires and shouts at me over this.
Now this guy knows am a consultant and can be fired anyday without any notice. So he tries to take advantage of the above fact and tries to snub me. Can I talk to my cleint company HR manager about this? What to do??

2007-08-20 13:51:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-20 13:46:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had some small amount of clothes in the washer,I planned to put more clothes in but got so dang stressed out when I recieved a call from my docters office.I decided to get on yahoo answers and destress, but my husband is out of bed from working all night and is make me so p*****!!So he brings out a basket of his work shirts for me to wash , acting like he was going to it.I quickly just turned on the wash to get the small load out of the way,at that time yes I did not care for the bill electric bill, and I washed his clothes .Well he went over and removed the small load from the wash and complained to me about a high bill.I am totally stressed and 6 months pregnant is not easy with him. My blood pressure is creeping up, and my sugar test came back today a bit high.I told my husband and he tells me to blame myself.I have been eating better than ever not unhealthy like, cant calm.No baby sitter and husband wont stay for a little bit at cousins.Ive nowere to go to detress,not even bath!!

2007-08-20 13:43:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

North Carolina. Seperated three years.

2007-08-20 13:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by coronet72318 1

ok so u meet someone that has been treated like crap just like you have and time flies cause the both of you are now together and married. but then not even a yr to the anniversary. it starts to fall apart because he kinda sorta cheated with a texting a gurl. why is it that they look for sumone when they have all they asked for right infront of them? why?

2007-08-20 13:33:55 · 23 answers · asked by Idalia G 1

I mean we have been married only a few years and then i started going thru his things and found little things that shouldnt be there or kept so i asked him about it and we started to fight now he doesnt know if he wants to be married or if he even wants to try that all of it is over welming.Its lasted a few days and i dont know what to do.I have always trusted him untill my mind wandered and hurt him. what should i do about our problems how should i try and fix things between us?? should i go to counceling should i give him time to think but still let him know that he is the only one for me and still tell him that i love him or what?? I need help to save my marriage. i need something to change the down fall of this great mans heart and my place in it. my world will end and i will die inside if i lose him. when i met him my heart knew he was the one and he still is the one for me. I hope i can find some help to make it stay that way.... please help me out! i really need it.

2007-08-20 13:28:20 · 29 answers · asked by Ashley 1

2007-08-20 13:21:12 · 10 answers · asked by pharmslim7 1

My husband and I got into a big fight about his sick sexual fantasies that is way against being married. I through him in jail for hitting me and dragging me on the floor. And he is acting like I made everything up even though the cops have evidence and pictures. He is staying somewhere else. He says he is so mad at me and he is talking to me like, i made it up, when I didn't and he keeps denying it. I told him I was moving and he pleaded not to because we have 2 girls. Thats what is hard. He saying we should get back together one day. I can't see out of the box. What would you do? Love makes you stupid. He called and threatened me to drop the charges. Should I get a restraining order. I do not want to because of the kids. He says he loves me.

2007-08-20 13:09:17 · 6 answers · asked by mariaaa 2

He loves his wife and children very much. He tells me his wife is more beautiful than me. i love him cuz hes kind and truthful. He wants to take me as his wife. i dont want his money. Just his love. Is it wrong to share his love with his wife? She is hurt and devastated. i cant help myself. we have met twice but never in physical contact. Should i leave him?i love him so much

2007-08-20 12:56:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm pretty sure my husband is having an affair so will it be okay if I did the same thing? My neighbor's grandson, whose 21, looks pretty sexy and he thinks I'm hot because he flirts with me all the time. Would it be okay if I went after him?

2007-08-20 12:51:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous