I'm pretty sure my husband is having an affair so will it be okay if I did the same thing? My neighbor's grandson, whose 21, looks pretty sexy and he thinks I'm hot because he flirts with me all the time. Would it be okay if I went after him?
2007-08-20 12:51:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, sounds like you haven't caught him in the act of cheating, right? Sounds like you're just looking for some revenge, and acting on your impulses. Well my advice is don't do it!! It will only create more hate and drama in your relationship, possibly leading to a divorce. And when that happens, which I hope won't, his lawyer will have something to hang over your head.
Really, don't do it. Nothing will change anyway and it will just cause more problems.
Good Luck :]
2007-08-20 13:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Margaryta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right, and you will only cause problems with your neighbor. Just talk to your husband and/or get solid proof he is cheating. For all you know he is not, and if you go through with this then you are the one who was wrong, doesn't matter that you "thought" he was cheating.
2007-08-20 19:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by msims52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a promise to your husband. You shouldn't even be considering another man. As for your husband, I hope he isn't cheating... if he is, he is in the wrong. If you cheat as well, you did something wrong too. The whole thing is pretty messed up. Do what IS right, not what FEELS right.
2007-08-20 20:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are shot in the arm by your neighbor can you shoot them back without getting in trouble? If someone steals your car can you justifiably steal another one to replace it??? Sounds really silly doesn't it? Cheating for the sake of revenge or for any other reason can not be justified. Besides what about the others involved? Would the person you are wanting to cheat with have their feelings hurt? In the long run how will you feel about yourself?
2007-08-20 19:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by "Ask Dr. Stupid" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts? Do two wrongs make a right? You have a twisted relationship.
What do you think of your husband having an affair? How do you think all those names you've called him, wouldn't now apply to you?
Don't stoop to his level (if he is cheating) be the strong one.
2007-08-20 19:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by jt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. I did that before and it didn't have the effect that I thought it would. The best thing to do is to divorce him, and find someone else. Cheating back on him is kind of childish, and will only make things worse. If he is cheating, he will get his just desserts soon enough. You don't really need to help it.
2007-08-20 20:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by lwomar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol sounds to me that ur looking for a reason to cheat, "ur pretty sure" that he's cheating isnt the same as being "SURE" , with out any proof, .. u could be the soul person committing adultery.. i think its pretty pathetic that ur going to use your husbands .. "pretty sure" excuse, what about being able to hold ur head up high and be proud of the fact that even if he cheated, that u didnt have to sink to that level..
2007-08-20 19:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not find out first if your husband is actually cheating on you before you even think of this scenario. Two wrongs don't make a right.
2007-08-20 19:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a 21 year old kid flrits with you doesn't mean he thinks you're hot. As for cheating because you're "pretty sure" your spouse is cheating on you is a piss poor excuse for being stupid.
2007-08-20 22:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds Like You are Headed For a Divorce !!!
Good Luck !
2007-08-20 20:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋