2007-08-20 13:21:12 · 10 answers · asked by pharmslim7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would not bother. Thats like throwing gas on a fire. If she finds out, then so be it. Just let her find out for herself. That is, of course if the divorce is already in progress. If not, you have enough trouble.
2007-08-20 13:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by doctdon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you two are separated, and the divorce has been filed for, you have no reason to tell her. I would however wait until it is finalized to "flaunt" it, so that she does not try to turn it around and say you "cheated" on her. You agreed with each other the marriage was over, she is no longer your wife/you are no longer her husband despite whether or not some judge has signed the papers, I say don't worry about telling her anything, unless she is trying to "win" you back, in that case (if your not interested) then simply say you have moved on, and you no longer feel the same way for her as you once did.
2007-08-20 13:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by donnakygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you. She is still your wife, soon to be ex wife you didn't even wait until she was an ex. Why bother to tell her to hurt her more. She will find out soon enough, after she becomes an ex. Cheater.
2007-08-20 13:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by That one 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does she know that she is your "soon to be ex-wife" ? If you are in divorce already - or just braken up, it's easy, she knows you are not her's anymore. If she doesn't know yet, make sure to tell her all the reasons why you are doing it.
2007-08-20 13:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by larissa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth. You found someone else and that's why you are getting a divorce. She already suspects that.
2007-08-20 13:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your getting the divorce anyway why tell her and hurt her any more than u already have with your cheating. telling her is unnecessary at this point, keep it to yourself. only a man with a low self worth would want to rub it in someones face.
2007-08-20 13:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you, don't! You do not want to hurt her even more. Just do not say anything and eventually she will find out. Unless you have children. Tell her if she thinks ya'll will work it out. Be fair!
2007-08-20 13:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by mariaaa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her before it gets worse, i hope you didnt go low as to cheat on her.....well i guess you have cheated on her if you've found someone else, just tell her, she deserves to know
2007-08-20 13:38:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is better off without you, because she is!
2007-08-20 13:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by IMHis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just flat out say wut is going on, tell her how and why you feel what you feel
2007-08-20 13:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by peace41390 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋