Marriage & Divorce - 15 August 2007

want to be single?and not interested in sexual things?do they have reasons for that?but what if they just cant meet the right person that is all?are they just plain dumb?

2007-08-15 03:17:53 · 14 answers · asked by truth set free 1

In addition to the alimony, half the assest, I want to ask for a life insurance policy payable to me.

Any ideas on anything else?

2007-08-15 03:15:50 · 13 answers · asked by charlie girl 1

I checked the history on my computer and found out my husband got up early this morning to watch a porn star on the computer. How many women think this is wrong? I am very upset about it how can I confront him? We have a beautiful 10 month old daughter. Why does he do this to me? It isn't the first time and he's previously promised to never do it again. I caught him before when I was pregnant and when my daughter was only a few days old. I even caught him at work one time watching this stuff. What can I do?

2007-08-15 03:14:54 · 20 answers · asked by Mom to 1 and 1 on the way 2

2007-08-15 03:04:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

..they became paraplegic. Would you go through with the marriage or back out of it?

2007-08-15 03:04:07 · 17 answers · asked by AJPierzynskis' 4

Do you think if less people "believed" in divorce as even being an option, more marriages would last??

Why do people just "run for the hills" after a couple little stupid fights???

2007-08-15 02:59:45 · 36 answers · asked by who cares! 3

Do you think someone should seek "counseling" before marrying again, if it's been more then 2 times???

2007-08-15 02:57:17 · 12 answers · asked by who cares! 3

I have posted many times on here about my break up. Me and my ex partener broke up over 2 months ago, and it is getting worse for me. I keep getting upset over it and really struggling to get over it. I thought I had hit rock bottom but it is getting worse. I feel so depressed and last night I even had thoughts of killing myself. I wouldn't do it, but it scared me to death. I was under the impression that time would make it better not worse. God i am a complete mess...

2007-08-15 02:52:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been in a relationship with my girlfriend going on 3 years. She has a son from a previous marriage, at age 16, divorced when she was 18 met me sometime after. We got together 6 months after. During the time we have been together, a lot of worries have come up. Such as the ex calling at odd hours of the night. About a year ago, I found out that she was talking about getting back together with him - for the sake of their son and that he can support them better than I can. I was told she considered it but would never really happen. I felt deceived as she did all this behind my back. I found out through his mother, calling my father and he told me what was happening. Another thing is when we have a fight - she calls him. For what? I think my question is, should I forget what has happened since she is still with me, or are feelings still lingering? Do you think she just likes the attention or maybe knows she has something to fall back on - how does that affect me?

2007-08-15 02:49:59 · 8 answers · asked by Me 3

medical reports are adverse against wife.

2007-08-15 02:45:25 · 14 answers · asked by ramesh_dewani 1

my sister in law and brother are talking about a divorce ,my brother has a girlfriend and my sis is trying to work the marriage out and the kids are only 13 and 8 and if anyone nos of some book s that may help them , I wish to get that 4 them .thank you all 4 the help.

2007-08-15 02:41:37 · 8 answers · asked by MeccafromNJ 1

my ex and i were divorced and reconciled for 3 years. last jan. she left for another man got engaged and is now married. The problem is she won't let me be. i have worked very hard to get over the heartbreak, but she keeps in contact. The last four days she has been calling and asking for advice etc. We do have kids but her conversations always drift away from them.Yesterday she called and left a voicemail, then a few hours later called four times within eight minutes. When i asked her why she said her cell wasnt working and heard music on the line. Just being married for two weeks you would think i would be the furthest thing from her mind. She wanted me to promise to call her today about somthing,which i shall not do. i really do not want to be friends as i am still healing,but she seems to not let go. She made the comment last week that myself and her new hubby are very similar,very similar..except..and she did not elaborate and i didnt ask what the "except" was. What is going on?

2007-08-15 02:39:07 · 14 answers · asked by pheggie101 1

After a very very trying weekend of my husband and I verbally attacking eachother, I snapped and told him it was over and gave him my rings back. Now, I did NOT mean this at all, and the sane part of me knew it was terrible, but I still did it.

My husband put my rings back on my hand and we have been very intimate and passionate since then. I am very sorry for the cruel thing I did to him, and want him to know he can trust me again.

Suggestions and advice are very welcome, but please do not chastise me.
Thank you.

2007-08-15 02:38:52 · 12 answers · asked by C K 1

I love my husband, endlessly, but for the past few months he has been a different person. I am trying to be as understanding as possible because he taking a medication that has adverse side effects, but it is really hard to not take his distance personally.
When I am around him I feel like I am a bother, that I annoy him or that he just tolerates me...not really loves me. We will go places and the entire time he acts like he is absolutely miserable. He disagrees when I try to tell him that they way he has been acting toward me has left me feeling unloved and unwanted. I am just not sure how to get him to understand how deeply this is hurting me. Of course it doesn't help the situation when he blows me off when I approach him about the way I have been feeling. Talk about adding insult to injury.

2007-08-15 02:36:47 · 25 answers · asked by Orchid0307 1

my husband and i been married since 2003 and we have a child together (background)...

whenever we get into a fight he'll say he hates me and hell call me other horrible names then he'll leave (or go to another part of the house) come back in a bit and beg for forgiveness (on his knees if he has too doing everything but crying and saying he loves me and hes sorry and so on) ill be the one crying usually because of the names he calls me.

i talk to him about it and he says hes sorry and that stuff just comes out, everything else in our marriage is good except that he hurts me with words and mind games.. any ideas? he wont go to marriage counseling or anything but he just says he doesnt have control over that when he gets angry.

2007-08-15 02:24:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

he said he is poly, and he has been in poly relationships, he said he is OCD(obsessive compulsive disorder) which means he has a thing with beautiful young women. He stayed friends with all his ex-gfs(talk to them and meet regularly).
he is quite good looking, and Im very interested in him, we have been dating for 2months, and he seems always seeks for other opportunities(although he always denies when I ask him), last time we went to a party, he flirted with other girls and asked for their emails. but he also said he wants the relationship with me and he likes me.
what is he thinking? what kind of person he is? Im asian and Im confused

2007-08-15 02:10:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-15 02:02:48 · 24 answers · asked by grasshopper9 2

if your wife wants to go to her parents house but her parents don't like you and you know they will make the time you spend there hell and it will only end up in arguing and people crying because that is the way it always does then what will you do.

I don't want to stop my wife seeing her parents or having her parents in her life, but I don't think that an atmosphere like that is any good for either of us and certainly no good for my little boy. But every time I mention that to my wife she takes it as a personal afront, which it is not and I know she will end up crying by the end of the day.

I have tried every way I know short of been an *** hole of explaining it to her. But she still wants to go again this Sunday "as a family" how can I explain to her that these visits are causing problems between us that she wont admit

2007-08-15 01:42:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Things haven't been working for a long time, and until this happened I guess I wanted out too. But now shes gone, I realise what I had. She rings me at least twice a day and I get numerous texts. She keeps saying things like 'I might come back in a couple of weeks with my tail between my legs'..
Do you think there's a chance of rescuing this - its been 13yrs, I feel it deserves another go.. what do you think?

2007-08-15 01:36:56 · 56 answers · asked by pagan_bouy 1

We both work full time. I pay all the bills and I clean the house... although I've already gotten to the point where i stopped picking up after him, but he can't even pick up after himself. And plus he ruins everything I put together presuming i touched one random thing of his and put it in my things. He'll tear the house apart when he's lost something and not put anything back. Plus if he loses it for good he shrugs it off and buys a new one, still continuing with his ways. It's embarrassing and I can never have friends over after work anymore because I don't know what type of mess he's left that day. I've honestly stopped trying with him and he just lets everything go... pass the mold stage and everything. I've sat down and tried to explain how one thing leads to another when its a mess, and he didn't want to listen... so any ideas?

2007-08-15 00:57:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were me, as a good looking, sexy, attractive 28 year old woman , would you stay in a no-sex marriage withouth an affair or the thought of divorce?
My husband refuses to have councling, denies there is a problem, no need for medication and closed door to the subject of sex.
For me sex is very very important, it gives me life, energy, and power to go on dealing with the challenges. I just love it full stop, it's the greatest fun and pleasure. But at the same time, I have always had that belief that when you marry, you shall never cheat or divorce no matter what. But after 2 years of no-sex marriage, I have just lost my confidence, ambitions, always down and think about sex and remembering how great I was feeling when I had it before meeting THIS guy. Basically I can't cope any more.
Would you leave to satisfy your needs, or would you stay unhappy for some religious faith?
Why I married this guy? Because we had a long-distance love relationship for 10 years before marriage!!!!

2007-08-15 00:54:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think spain or greece is nice but now his started talking about engagement so i wont to go somewhere special does anyone have any ideas where theres a nice place? Thanks guys

2007-08-15 00:50:10 · 9 answers · asked by Candy 4

Because my husband made a statement last night, saying "She is the perfect wife for his friend (Sunny) to bring out". What does he mean by that?

2007-08-15 00:49:58 · 8 answers · asked by candie 4

I haven't even been married a year yet and the world is falling at my feet. My husband and I had a row yesterday which ended up in violence. He choked me until I blacked out. I know I need to leave for the sake of our children so that they don't grow up witnessing this kind of behaviour which I am more than sure could happen again even if this is only the first time but the man I married has been the one true love of my life. We have been together for 5 years and I have changed from someone who hated themselves so much to a smart and confident woman. My husband has been diagnosed with depression and has been using recreational drugs over the last six months which really hasn't helped anything. He came back yesterday to tell me he wants a divorce because he can't live with someone in the fear that one day I will push him to killing me. We have had our times in the past but he hasn't ever initiated violence. My children have to come first buy my heart is simply breaking.....

2007-08-15 00:47:15 · 19 answers · asked by Yoga Wifey 3

would you still get married?

Hypothetically, of course.

I'm happily married and to answer my own question, yes, I would have still married even if I KNEW it would end in a divorce.

2007-08-15 00:29:39 · 8 answers · asked by Sleek 7

The advantages and disadvantages of a relationship which is wife is earned more than her husband.

2007-08-15 00:19:07 · 18 answers · asked by blunt 1

ok i have a question i went out with some girl for 4 years we had our ups and downs in the end it didnt work out and we ended up as enemies.. we didnt talk for months but then everytime we talk we try to be friends but for some reason we always end up arguing..and i always notice that when we speak she always tells me how happy she is with her new man....what does this mean??

2007-08-15 00:09:16 · 6 answers · asked by kid233 1

my frind have a prb help her

2007-08-15 00:01:40 · 10 answers · asked by huma a 1