Marriage & Divorce - 15 August 2007

after repeating the same mistakes again n again.she resoloute not to do,bt then again she does n hurts her loving husabnd.How to stop this?Is she addicted?

2007-08-15 05:27:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-15 05:26:57 · 15 answers · asked by Handsome Stranger 2

I know lots of things do...but what is your favorite, and what makes it so good?

2007-08-15 05:26:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

if your husband pays atention to the games like the play satation more than hisown wife

2007-08-15 05:19:42 · 16 answers · asked by maria7959@sbcglobal.net 2

I've been married for two years and things aren't going very well in my marriage. To make matters worse I have a crush on someone else and the guy is nice but totally wrong for me. Why am I attracted to people who are not right for me?

2007-08-15 05:17:13 · 9 answers · asked by ernie 1

I am past the stage of being patient! I know it sounds harsh, but I have needs! My husband and I are 32 and we've been married for almost 7 yrs. He won't have sex with me. I have started to threaten divorce if he doesn't act like my husband and not a roommate. I have started to nag again. I am just very frustrated. It's been like 4 months!!! I have not changed since we got married. What would you do in this situation?

2007-08-15 05:10:52 · 28 answers · asked by Marygoroun(d) 6

Please help me to make my husband happy again as i dont know what to do anymore. He has recently started going on about how crap everything is (his words).
General gripes are overworked and underpaid, constantly tired, lack of fun time, the pressure of a mortgage and responsibilities (2 kids). He plays in a band, and to be honest i think he would like to just up sticks and go on tour. He says he feels his creative nature is being squashed by the rat race and he cant deal with it. He has just gone and got another tattoo and has thrown himself into getting fit. He tends to be obsessive when he starts anything.
He is only 36 so mid life crisis early?
I dont understand his half empty attitude. We both have jobs, a house, two cars and have just come back from a really good holiday. (Have also booked another for next year). Our kids are good, not perfect but no problems and he has his health. What is he looking for, I dont know if I am going to be able to be whatever it is he is after.

2007-08-15 05:05:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i come to think about it,it does but there are time god make me think it is not................which is which ?why god make us confused?or is just me the confuse one?

2007-08-15 05:02:17 · 17 answers · asked by truth set free 1

This is rebellion !

2007-08-15 04:55:46 · 25 answers · asked by Sharon 1

I was living with my baby's father but i moved out with my child. I have been seeing someone ever since. I feel like i love him at times. But when i am with my baby's father i feel butterflys in my tummy. But my "Buddy" is married had a baby. He still lives with his wife. i am not shure if he truly love me or not he says it but does he mean it. I can't make up my mind. I want both but I cant. I must decide on wich one to choose. But so far no luck. My baby also get extreamly angry when he's around me.

2007-08-15 04:48:49 · 17 answers · asked by cindyrelachick 1

We now have been married for 6 years I have noticed also that he looks at almost every girl and plus he works with a bunch of them. I used to work at the same place he did and that's how we met. I know his work routine, etc. I have confronted him about the "wondering eyes." and he denies and denies. There's also times that he is really unhappy and uses financial woes as the reason. He's been on a diet and looks great but I have to wonder why he's doing it now. Right before we met he had been trying to lose a few lbs. (he's not heavy to begin with) but that's a time when he was trying to pursue me. Most of the time I can read him like a book but here in just the last 4-5 mo. or so plus being so overly nice and somewhat flirtatious I have begun not to trust him anymore. What are the signs of being unfaithful be? He says he's not interested in other girls and he also says that he just hasn't been think about having sex. Come on. A guy who doesn't think of sex? Opinions?

2007-08-15 04:45:19 · 14 answers · asked by Sunflower 2

I'm 39 years old, been married three times, have one child.

Husband #1: I was 18, young and dumb. Divorced at 22, one child. We split on good terms.

Husband #2: Complete lust, married at 24, lasted 1 year. We split on good terms.

Husband #3: Together 10 years, just my child from the first marriage. Loved him deeply. He left me FOR MY BROTHERS WIFE. I'm still bitter.

Almost 3 years later I'm living with a new boyfriend, together 9 months now. We're both mature, no drama, good communication, many of the same goals. He has no children and mine is now 18.

Should I take the plunge one more time and hope this is the one?

2007-08-15 04:28:44 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

everyone on here is going to hate me probably but
i left my wife 7 months pregnant, its been a week now
when i left i just said i needed a little time to think things over, she didn't want me to go and ran after me but i left her there crying...
i went back to spend some time with my friends (when i was about 18 i lived with 4 or 5 other friends sharing a house) it was cool for like one day and then i basically realized that i was way past that stage in my life. i had already gone to college and gotten a job and they were still eating day old mcdonalds and playing video games all night. i want to go back to my wife but i know she wont take any crap so what can i do? after spending a week with the friends i used to live with it made me miss my wife and i realize that all i wanna do is live with my wife again.. i know ill have to spend tomorrow searching for my wedding ring (one of my friends threw it out into the backyard), how can i get back with her?

2007-08-15 04:26:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

after 25 yearsof marriage and alot of up and downs we were at his mothers house having dinner and he tells everyone i dont come down because im embarresed.Looking straight at me as he does so.I made a excusee my tooth was hurting and left very nicely so no one new i was upset but my husband he comes back to the room adn tells me he dont care how I feel and to get over it. how do you handle that

2007-08-15 04:20:10 · 9 answers · asked by furby_lost 5

I think marriage is the highest of relationships. Its has more commitment then a bf/gf relationship and its the final.
Im very hurt to find out that my bf thinks marriage is nothing more then a piece of paper. This makes me feel like he never wants to get married, as he doesnt care about it.

But, what do you think of marriage, what does it mean to you?

2007-08-15 04:18:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a successful man in my 40's. She's in her late 20's and married a year ago. I'm not sure she's even aware she does this.

We are pretty good friends, but I have absolutely no interest in her in any other way. We've known each other for 2 years.

She looks me over when we talk, but seems unaware she's doing it. In my experience at the office, It seems a little unusual. What is going on with her?

2007-08-15 04:15:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

party with his sister-in-law by themselves until 3 AM after everyone else has gone to bed two hours earlier? This would be his brother's wife. Then at 3 AM they decide to leave the house they are at together to go and buy cigarettes?

2007-08-15 04:08:41 · 22 answers · asked by firedancer 2

if your ex was phenomenal in bed and your fiance is so-so and u just wanted one last time before marriage? would u do it? (especially if your fiance was being a total @-hole at the time)

2007-08-15 04:08:08 · 7 answers · asked by jean grey 6

2007-08-15 04:03:11 · 7 answers · asked by vey 1

2007-08-15 03:54:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok where do i start my husband was caught watching porn. i am really uncomfortable with it.he was extremely sorry. i feel betrayed because he once told me i swear i have never or will ever watch porn behind ur back.he is not turned on by it since he got me.ok that he broke.now since i am trying to open him up to me. i have to tell u guys i cannot change how i feel or what it makes me feel like trying to solve this issue. these things shuld not be coming in my life. but they are.so yesterday i put on porn on tv and start watching with him. first he starts acting weird like telling me to turn it off. he doesn't like it. then i am like why u watn to watch it by urself? then he starts playing with me. like to make me think he is excited by me. i ask him what kind of porn u like he doesn't answer any question i ask him. he says i love u blah blah. but he likes them playing around. and when we were actually doing it his face was toward the tv. and mine too. he was trying to change ...

2007-08-15 03:48:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

been with my bf for 2 yrs and we'd love to get a flat, get married and have kids at some point. we can't afford to do anything right now but we know we want to spend the rest of our lifes together and we can't wait to start. only thing is we're both still in our teens and i want people to take us seriously and not think of us as kids rushing into things. any advice?

2007-08-15 03:44:20 · 11 answers · asked by SpongeMate 2

5 yrs bk i discovered my husband had an affair while i was pregnant, thru a video cassette of him and his mistress extracurricular activities . On confronting him he didnt even apologize. For following two very long and hard yrs our marriage was cold like the south pole till things returned to normalcy but are still not the same like before ,they never will be. Meanwhile i find a net pal with whom i just click. Every idea , every thought , every word is spoken in sync with eachother , its like we can read eachothers minds. On occassions i have delibarately stayed away from the net but i feel something amiss. And then i go right back to chatting. He makes me laugh ,which never happens anymore with my husband thou he takes good care of me and our kid. Its like my husband changed in a very odd way after his mistress left him , he is there but not quite there. Meanwhile i miss his old self and in lack of that , i find it hard to resist the easy companionship i find with my net pal.

2007-08-15 03:42:24 · 15 answers · asked by smashingdelite 3

cousin means he is my mother's sister son we had body contacts but not real sex..but my parents dont know this they are looking for a husband for me.... and im from a orthodox family im scared to tell them about our love wat to do...but he is stubborn that hell marry me pls find me a solution But he cares for me alot .he loves me alot....but the only problem is he doubts me often and we fight often and im scared whether ill be guilty after my marriage if i marry some one else

2007-08-15 03:38:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is what happened yesterday evening, the two men in my life, my son and my husband asked me to trime their hair on the deck. I accidentally shaved a chunk of hair off the corner on my husband. I know he'll yell at me for sure, so I didn't tell him anything. Afterwards my little son start to make this gr..gr.. noise in the back of his throat whenever he walk by my husband, I think he's actually chuckling.
This morning, he sat across from us drinking his milk. All of the sudden, he choke on the milk, and spilled it all over the table, I think he wanted to laugh at his father's hair, I think my cover is going to get blown soon. ( He has a meeting today at work, and he's the director of the company)
So should I just:
a. Confess it my self and get yell at
b. Tell my son to tell him
c. Let he find out from his co- workers

2007-08-15 03:37:52 · 16 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5

so my husband is in jail for DV> i want to bail him out but first i want to see what happens at court today. if its there first offense does anybody have an idea about wehter or not they will just let him walk? or more than likely are they gonna lock him up longer?

2007-08-15 03:31:28 · 16 answers · asked by Danielle 1

I fell so hard for her. She is the only one that ever made me feel that way. Then I dumped her and broke her heart. Every day since then I have known that my bad Karma was attributed to that. I was too mature in my younger years and thought I was making the right decision. As soon as it happened I knew I decided with my brain and not my heart. It's killing me and I don't know what to do. Every waking moment is thinking of her.

2007-08-15 03:25:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Smart is a very busy man. His Driver ,James takes him to the office daily. He comes back early enough to drop the children at school and Madam, Grace at her suppermarket, except sundays when they are all at home
after church service.
Smart comes back home very late when the children are already asleep.
Madam Grace must wait to serve him dinner, no matter what.

On day, he left home without his cell phone. He quickly turned back to pick same.
He entered his apartment and met the wife still bathing. As usual, he wanted to admire the beauty of his wife by touching her breasts. Madam Grace responded by saying, James, James, so fast, have you dropped your boss at the office?
As the boss, the Driver or Madam, what will you do in such a situation?

2007-08-15 03:24:05 · 7 answers · asked by rasey 2

2007-08-15 03:23:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife comes home after 5 years of being gone who knows where?
she says she wants to be together again well 5 years ago she left me and our small child for i dont know what, another guy a new life i have no idea... of course i would NEVER take her back but can she sue for custody and stuff? would she win, she left me our kid for 5 years without a call or anything for all that time, she can't just come back and take her away can she? i should probably consult my lawyer right? for all i know though she'll be off on another 5 year detour doing who knows what or doing who knows who..

2007-08-15 03:18:44 · 17 answers · asked by andrew d 1