This is what happened yesterday evening, the two men in my life, my son and my husband asked me to trime their hair on the deck. I accidentally shaved a chunk of hair off the corner on my husband. I know he'll yell at me for sure, so I didn't tell him anything. Afterwards my little son start to make this gr..gr.. noise in the back of his throat whenever he walk by my husband, I think he's actually chuckling.
This morning, he sat across from us drinking his milk. All of the sudden, he choke on the milk, and spilled it all over the table, I think he wanted to laugh at his father's hair, I think my cover is going to get blown soon. ( He has a meeting today at work, and he's the director of the company)
So should I just:
a. Confess it my self and get yell at
b. Tell my son to tell him
c. Let he find out from his co- workers
2007-08-15 03:37:52 · 16 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you getting the proper respect? Remember if you cannot speak to him with open heart, there exist a problem. Remember psychological or verbal abuses are also a type of abuse.
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I'll pray for you and your friend who is making difficult decision (abortion).
Remember that he is the director of the company. He could get hair cut else where. You are doing hair cutting with your heart and soul. No need to be ashamed. We all make mistake sometimes.
2007-08-15 12:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by naekuo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you where mu wife I would like for you to tell me. If you told me about it I would not be mad at you. I mean you tried and you made a little mistake. I would just go to a barber shop and get them to try and fix the problem. The thing is if he is told about it at work he will be pissed off I know I would be. I mean it seems like you did that then just let him walk around with a big gash in his hair to make him look stupid in front of all the employees I mean if he is a mean boss they will laugh at him behind his back. If he is a nice boss they will point it out to him and then he will be upset when he comes home. So either way I guess you might want to get ready to be yelled at. I think it is sweet that you were nice enough to cut his hair but you should have told him when it happened. Now when he finds out about it just tell him you were scared to tell him because you did not want to get yelled at. That would make me feel bad if my wife told me she could not tell me something because she was scared of me.
2007-08-15 07:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably not even aware that you have brought some damage into your relationship already.
While it is not right to for him to yell at, you have already provoked anger by being so secretive. You have already damaged his trust in you by hiding ANYTHING.
Not only should you apologize for messing the haircut up, but even more important, you need to acknowlege and apologize greatly for breaking his trust in you and lying (covering up). Do you realize what you have done? Perhaps not. It does not sound like this is the first time.
Perhaps a little soul searching will bring up a lot of times that you have provoked wrath/anger, and while he needs to change his method of response, only you can change you.
There are ways to express that his yelling hurts you without being deceitful and damaging your marriage. As well, without hurting him back.
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2007-08-15 03:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told him at the time and not hid it from him. That was wrong. If you would have told him at the time he would have had time to go and get it fixed. I suggest you let it go. Maybe no one will say anything in the meeting and then when he gets home if he doesn't already know you can tell him and get it fixed. Don't let this happen again. So wrong.
2007-08-15 03:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by hsmommy06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confess! He is going to find out eventually. He will probably be mad, but he will get over it. It was an accident. I think that if you wait until his co-workers tell him, he will be more mad because he will feel like you let him go out looking stupid. Kind of like letting him go out with his pants unzipped. Does that make sense?
Fess up girl...
2007-08-15 03:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by Slipped Halo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So um.....this is what your life consists of? This is a problem that you're faced with amongst all of what life can toss at you?
Stop being so cheap. Let him see someone who can weild a pair of clippers properly. You stick to worrying about something else silly and inconsequential. I doubt you'd have trouble finding something as this seemed to crop up.
2007-08-15 03:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him before his coworkers tell him and embarrass him. If it was an accident he should understand. If he has a problem with the way you cut hair, I would suggest that he go to a barber. I wish you the best of luck!!!
2007-08-15 04:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha Ha! you should have told him when you did it.. Its just going to get worse now since you were hiding it from him. Just tell him the truth, tell him you didnt want to get yelled at..
2007-08-15 05:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by 00z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a funny story but i think you should say honey let me fix your hair if he yells at you too much then tell him to go to a barber and pay for his hair cuts
2007-08-15 03:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by ken j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a hat as he walks out the door -- quick! -- and kiss him on the cheek and tell him how nice he looks. lol You will be in for it when he gets home!
2007-08-15 04:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋