2007-08-15 02:02:48 · 24 answers · asked by grasshopper9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its your choice what you do. I, personally would never have an affair, but i have cheated on my husband in the past. They were just one night stands.
If your sex life is dead then go for it, if not, stick with your husband untill you have a good enough reason to leave him.
2007-08-15 03:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that is wrong and I think you do too. You don't have to make it more wrong though. I think that most people who are married for a long period of time think about having an affair. The romance, the newness, the first kisses etc. However, it is not as great as being with someone for a long period of time......it is kind of like becoming an addict I think....at first it feels really good, then it turns sour and ruins your life. I hope that you choose to find ways to entertain yourself and become very happy in another manner....there are many things you can do to refresh a marriage....I hope that you do this, because in my opinion there are not enough people in this world who have been married for 50 or 60 years that walk around hand in hand, twinkle in their eye when they look at each other, who have become one. I love it when I see these people, I think that there is nothing better in this world. I hope to become one of them, I wish this for you.
2007-08-15 02:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very wrong. If she is cheating and wanting to have an affair then she should divorce her husband and go out with anyone she wants. If she is married, she should be totally faithful to her husband...she has already cheated on him...so why not let him go so he can find someone who truly loves him as this woman does not or she would not cheat!
be cool...
2007-08-15 02:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
⥠I'm sure you know cheating is wrong in all aspects, whether your a married man, a married woman, or in a relationship period. If you throw your marriage away to have an affair you truly must not care about your marriage. And in that case you should talk to your hubby and file for divorce. Good Luck!
2007-08-15 02:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by NCIS ♥ Addict 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell you this how on gods earth are you gonna be married and cheat with someone you hardly know. This is ridiculous as far as having affair with this person think before you leap. This may destroy your marriage if you love your husband why would you want to cheat on him. you haven't mention that you love your husband. If you lust in your heart you have already guilty.
2007-08-15 03:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how we look at it cheating is what it is...CHEATING and yes it is wrong...i'm in the same boat that u are in..but i have not cheated..have thought about it but wont because i love him so much...even though we both cheated to be with one another and it's not the same anymore...i still love him and don't want to hurt him like that...so if u are not happy get a divorce and then find someone..don't make the same mistake twice.........it's only going to hurt u in the long run..i know because i've been there .......
2007-08-15 02:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by lisa s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's wrong to cheat if your married period. but you have to think to yourself what's causing you to cheat? Is your husband not interesting anymore. How long have you been married? If that's the case, then file for a divorce, if your caught cheating things are going to be bad for you. it's against the law actually.
2007-08-15 02:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that! Trust me it's soooo not worth it!!! You'll lose his trust and it'll take YEARS to get it back if it's possible at all. Then he'll start to babysit you 24/7 wanting to know who your with, what your doing, where you're at, when will you be home, everything, all the time; that's IF he can forgive you for it. If he can't you'll piss away any dreams you ever had him long term.
If you love him and he loves you, you guys can work it out, but you have to spell it out for him EXACTLY what you want or even draw him a picture. Guys just don't get it unless you do, like tell him if I'm angry you need to say "..........(whatever)..." so he'll know. Believe me it'll work, it worked for us. Our relationship is stronger now than ever but he's giving me what I need now tho. If you want to know all the details email me and I'll tell you. Hope I helped.
2007-08-15 03:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not, its actually natural for married women to cheat or get involved with other men, most times younger than them, becaus they want to feel that fire and passion of making love like they used to before they were married,when the were single and most tines their spuose dont satisfy them as much as or at all as before.
2007-08-15 02:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by daynerampersad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's wrong... Like that needed asking. If you want to sleep around, don't be married.
It's not "normal" to cheat, especially if you take the time and put in the effort to make your marriage successful.
If you want to sleep around, get divorced & then have at it.
2007-08-15 02:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by American Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋