Marriage & Divorce - 3 August 2007

2007-08-03 05:46:33 · 2 answers · asked by sairamehnaz 2

2007-08-03 05:36:47 · 12 answers · asked by joeelliot 3

Me and my wife have been married for 7 years. We both have full-time jobs and both attend college. We also have two children. It's hard sometimes to have a free moment alone. Now to my question, does anyone have any ideas for something special I can do for her. I want something that will get a wow effect. Thanks for your answers.

2007-08-03 05:34:48 · 15 answers · asked by ROD 2

he told me he was at the bar for an interview the other night. he started work today. he was 2.5 hours late the other night and i stupidly believed he was at the bar. I was putting his clothes away today and found many hershey kisses hidden in a pair of pants (not in the pockets, pants just wrapped around them) -- the hershey kisses are given out at whore houses around here and they weren't in his drawer before that. So he's a lying whore and as soon as he gets home from work i am kicking his lying *** out. Question is, can i call the cops if he refuses to leave?

2007-08-03 05:31:34 · 43 answers · asked by Bakes 2

I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and we have lived together for 9 months. I thought I found the person I wanted to be with for the rest of my life, but now I don't know. He treats me very well, as well as my 8 year old daughter, who looks to him as a father. However, I've seen some behavior of his that I don't want to be stuck with for the rest of my life! He can be extremely jealous, to the point of looking through my phone and getting upset about messages from my (female) friends. Also, when we go out together and drink, he can get really crazy. One night, he kept thinking I was sneaking off and was following me around acting real ugly. The bouncer threw him out. Then at home he got pissed and threw a beer bottle at my glass table, shattering the bottle. 3 months later, he came home after going out with his friends and threw me around, pushed me on the ground, pulled my hair, and threatened to hit me "in my ******* face". I know he has hit his son's mom befo

2007-08-03 05:27:24 · 26 answers · asked by princess b 1

My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs..When we were dating/newlyweds and thru the yrs we have never made love everyday,several times a day or for hrs like i have heard and read about most couples doing plus we have never used sex toys cause we are not interested in those..We have a decent satisfying sex life making love 2-3 times a week and we are both happy and content with it but i was just wondering do we sound like rare couple or are there other couples like us?

2007-08-03 05:25:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, how?

2007-08-03 05:21:21 · 10 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

2007-08-03 05:19:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so my parents show on and off that they like him. That could put stress on someone, am i right? well my parents put so much stress on my boyfriend that now, he just doesn't care. he's not gonna try and impress them anymore. he doesn't even come down from his car to greet them when he comes to pick me up. when ever my parents have a birthday coming up, he doesn't even think to buy a gift, but is forced to by his wonderfully nice mother. his mom shows so much respect to my mom but my side of the family thinks they're so high above them!
What I'm worried about is that when it comes to him asking for my parents' blessing for us to be married, I'm afraid that my parents will say no because of how he's been acting lately. my parents are not gonna admit that they've been acting this way, but its up to them if I can get married or not.
Should I be worried?

2007-08-03 05:12:36 · 9 answers · asked by SiMpLy.HaPpiE 5

Yesterday afternoon, a helicopter carrying 4 crashed into the mountain near Kachees Lake, in Washington. My mother is camping by herself, only 15 miles away, at Salmon Le Sac. There is no cell service there. The crash started a forest fire, and consumed 40 acres, as of last night (350 acres now). I was worried about my mom, and called my husband while he was at work. His response was "wow, that's not good." and that was it. No offers of support, no calming statements, and the tone of his voice was monotone. I was on pins and needles until after midnight. I contacted the fire department out there, and gave them her site information, and they went looking for her. All is fine, but I was still in a state of panick for half a dozen hours.
I got the impression from my husband, that he didn't see it as a big deal. How would you have reacted to the news, and what would you have done to calm me and reassure me that she was ok?

2007-08-03 05:11:56 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2

I look around at the celebrity divorce cases and it appals me that some of these women are so greedy. I fully agree with child support payments, but if the mother has a job, why should she get a chunk of money as well? Why can't she learn to budget? Is she really entitled to continue living a lavish lifestyle off of her ex's earnings?

Before anyone asks, I'm female. And I know this often happens in real-life divorce cases too- they just don't make the headlines as much.

2007-08-03 05:08:41 · 6 answers · asked by Lily Iris 7

Feel free to write what you call your spouse but I need a reall answer too.

2007-08-03 05:05:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife just turned 20 and im 21......we have been fighting a long time but its not a constant thing. I know every relationship isn't perfect and I know people fight, but when is it time to say I QUIT shes dealt with a lot of stuff from me and I have dealt with a lot of stuff from her but we seem to always end up fighting about something so stupid....we have good times but it seems like she hates me. Its gotten to the point where she cusses at me every time we fight by calling me some nasty names and I to her. Is it time to call it quits or should I let this dog keep bleeding and see if he can patch up his wounds???

2007-08-03 05:01:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

why i cant love my wife

2007-08-03 04:52:58 · 32 answers · asked by jack_love_rose_2000 1

2007-08-03 04:47:40 · 15 answers · asked by CharlieWarlie 3

This has happened a couple of times where you feel so attracted to someone, and you can feel the same back. Have never had the affair...just done a lot of complete fatasizing. Even dreamed about this person and felt guilty the next morning...Thats how real it felt.

2007-08-03 04:34:38 · 20 answers · asked by Chris K 2

It seems everything I want to do and get excited about, he has to shoot me down. I told him I wanted to go back to school and be a nurse or radiographer, and he said it would be a problem because I am bad at math. I'm really not that bad at it, but he always brings it up. I also like to write, and I brought up wanting to write a novel, maybe not to get it published, but for fun at least. He said I wouldn't be good at it because I don't have a degree in writing. Plus, he said, "You really think you can write as well as authors?" and then kind of chuckled. It really hurts and makes me think he doesn't think I'm very smart of something. Why does he do this? If he ever has an idea, I am 100% supportive of him, even if I don't think it's a good idea. I wouldn't ever say so, because you never know about these things. So why is he like this to me? Anyone else have the same problems?

2007-08-03 04:31:56 · 24 answers · asked by azrielle 3

been dating a guy for a month and starting to fall for him..only thing is he doesnt believe in marriage and is not fussed about kids (to be honest i dont think he wants them). I want to get married in next few years with kids following later. my dilema is hes the first decent guy ive dated that i can see myself being with long term but do i take the chance on him and hope he will change his views (as he may just not ahve been with the right girl to feel he wants to commit in those ways) or not even go there and call it off now before i fall too deep. has anyone else been in similar situation. i know u cant change a person but wot about mould them abit to your way of thinking?

2007-08-03 04:28:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband left 8 weeks ago now leaving me and my 2 kids for a girl he had been having a 3 mth affair with. He has since asked to come back as he misses me and our 2 children, i have agreed to this but he still hasn't come home and its been nearly a week since he said he wanted to come back. I've asked why he hasn't returned and he says he doesn't know what to say to her.

2007-08-03 04:24:44 · 14 answers · asked by winner2007 2

I am having a family dellima. My ex-husband and I have recently remarried. My daughter (9yo) and I lived in a house next to my mother and my grandparents. They have been very helpful through the years. I frequently expressed thanks. I did things for them to help out. I mowed everyones yard and did some weedeatting. Watched my moms dogs, checked on my grandmother when I was off ect......I sat at home and did nothing but be the best mom I could be and go to work. I have always loved my ex husband. We were young and got mixed up with drugs. That is the main reason we divorced. We have both matured, cleaned up, and work. When we got married my family told me to move out. This is my home and my daughters home for 4yrs. My mother told me the house was mine but not the land in case I went back to my ex. Now she is taking that back. My whole family tells me "You never appreciate anything we do for you". How do you show appreciation and how long are you suppose to be indebpted

2007-08-03 04:23:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been dating a man i thought was great, but recently i found out he was married and i told him i want nothing do with him unless he leaves her. He without asking me booked me and my 5 year old son a holiday to see my parents as a sorry. The flight was for today, However he canceled the flight two hours before it was due to leave. Then he rang me while having sex!!!!, mins after his wife rang me leaving a msg saying i was to pay the money back which is £500. I think they both played a sick game with me but i don't know what game?? (How Sick)

2007-08-03 04:19:14 · 29 answers · asked by happyslappy 3

They was married for 21/2 years but together for 5 yrs but without any warning he left, things had been a bit rocky for a while and they were having conselling which i thought was going well, she is devastated that this has happened.
but i was more shocked at the reasons why this had happened, when i asked have her why she told me that her husband prefered internet sex rather than having any contact with her although from the outside you would have thought they were a perfect couple they did eveything together i knew she had been depressed but i assumed it was because of postnatal depression they have 3yr boy together has anyone gone though this so i can help her recover from this.

2007-08-03 04:14:44 · 10 answers · asked by scats 1

I hear a lot of talk about divorce ... I have always believed the only good reasons are physical abuse or infidelity ... what does everyone else think? What justifies divorce? Is it ok if you just "fall out of love" with someone, or don't get the attention you need/want?

2007-08-03 04:04:36 · 20 answers · asked by Random_Girl 3

Of corse, common Law still prevails in America (Constitution and State Constitutions are common law documents), but for those who have bought into this "liscense" to marry (the state), does it make sense that you work hard all of your life, obtain wealth, only to meet someone, marry to the state, divorce, and they get half your money, when they've done NOTHING. Woman, or Man. I can see if you "marry", then the both of you go into business etc., and gain wealth, then of corse, some sort on contract should be in place, protecting the both of you. But , this is rarely the case. What do you think? I know, this has gone on for yrs.....bu it makes me wonder about having to obtain permission from government to be with the one you love.

2007-08-03 03:56:52 · 10 answers · asked by lleigh03 3

Ok lately I have been finding wierd text on my bfs phone that he is sending to people...every time I ask him about them he gets really upset that Im accusing of cheating and says he would never do that! It seems like he really means it but it still is just making me sick that he is talking like this to someone else! How should I go about telling him that I dont appreciate it with him thinking I am accusing him...I love him with all my heart and would be completely heart broken if we broke up! I just cant mentally take this anymore I want the truth....Im to the point where if I see another one Im going to give the number a call!

2007-08-03 03:53:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-03 03:47:15 · 20 answers · asked by nanna 5

I'm 30lbs overweight and he is 50lbs overweight. how do you get over that comment?

2007-08-03 03:38:56 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want a divorce anymore. When we split, my wife was angry at me and i was angry at her. I don't want it anymore. However attornies are involved and because of accusations flying around, the attornies don't want us to talk to each other. I don't want this divorce anymore. I don't know how my wife feels because i can't talk to her. The attornies have made it now where we can't trust each other and us throwing accusations each other's way. Plus our families think we're both better off without the other. How can I stop this craziness? I don't want to divorce her but she seems to still want it....I think. I can't talk to her though because too many legal things have been drawn up and if i do there might be some sort of restraining order issued because it's gotten to the point where our attornies told us to leave each other alone. What can I do? I don't want to divorce her. I know she has bad mouthed me to everyone. Can this be fixed? if so ladies, how?

2007-08-03 03:35:16 · 10 answers · asked by survivor 1

A bride getting married gets advice,prepares to get married.
How to get same advice,prepare groom for marriage other then brides family,relatives,friends doing it?Groom cant get advice or prepare through his friends,family,relatives since they are rich famous snobs who have not learnt life lessons.Groom wants bride and him to have loving normal emotionally physically mentally long lasting life.Any books or anything else at all.

2007-08-03 03:33:22 · 4 answers · asked by abridezdiary 1

2007-08-03 03:24:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous