I been dating a man i thought was great, but recently i found out he was married and i told him i want nothing do with him unless he leaves her. He without asking me booked me and my 5 year old son a holiday to see my parents as a sorry. The flight was for today, However he canceled the flight two hours before it was due to leave. Then he rang me while having sex!!!!, mins after his wife rang me leaving a msg saying i was to pay the money back which is £500. I think they both played a sick game with me but i don't know what game?? (How Sick)
2007-08-03 04:19:14 · 29 answers · asked by happyslappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't pay nothing, and unless your a swinger and they want to get down with you and you with them, run!
2007-08-03 04:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never do to another woman what you don't want done to you. You didn't ask for the flight so what's to pay back? You were NEVER going to go were you?!!! Change your phone number and if he comes to the house call the police and have him arrested for harassment. Your son doesn't deserve the upset so next time make sure he's not married FIRST, if you don't get a landline number you can call at 1 in the morning to say goodnite RUN!
2007-08-03 18:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thus proving the old saying "when you lay down with dogs you wake up with fleas." It is very simple. She found out about you. You were wrong to sleep with a married man. When you found out, it should have ended then and there. You should have refused the trip. By deciding to go anyway you led him to believe it was not over. As far as the money goes, you owe him nothing. Chalk this one up to a learning experience and make better choices next time. This guy is a sleaze.
2007-08-03 11:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I hope you weren't planning on taking that trip. Never take gifts from scum bags like this guy. Never ever ask a man to leave his wife either. Go find a single guy and forget these two morans. You owe no one any money.
2007-08-03 11:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You fell victim to the worst kind of @sshole.
Let them eat the money he paid.
His wife sounds like the ringleader here and wanted to show you she still has him.
I would stay away from them and if she ever calls again tell her that you heard her sex on the phone and know why he wanted you.
2007-08-03 11:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We have all experienced nasty men. Some people are scum, and there isn't much you can do about that. As far as paying them back, it's a gift, and if there was never talk about you paying him back for those tickets they are SOL. Don't talk to him again, and make sure next time you have your eyes wide open for losers like him.
2007-08-03 11:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by Lenka 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't owe them anything and they can't get any money out of you. And if the wife knows that he was cheating and sticks with him, I feel sorry for her because she's an enabler. Just forget about them. Crazy bastards.
2007-08-03 12:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like fun until the rules of the game get read out loud!
Better luck next time!
2007-08-03 11:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by Chris K 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just move on with your life. For future reference, I would check the next guy's background to make sure he's not married. More and more women are doing this today, because so many men are cheats and liers.
2007-08-03 11:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, it was sick what he did. But, it was also sick what you did as well. Once you found out that he was married you should have just left him alone and not taken anymore money from him. You both are sick if you ask me!!! I can't stand homwreckers nor' cheating husband/wives....
2007-08-03 11:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by BabiGurl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋