why i cant love my wife
2007-08-03 04:52:58 · 32 answers · asked by jack_love_rose_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and i forget 2 say that my wife stay with me and she can read every thing please without jokes
2007-08-03 04:58:10 · update #1
I agree with others that there isn't enough information to give you a good answer. Try looking up Narcissistic personality and see if any of the characteristics apply to you. I disagree with one of the other responders who said you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. That's sometimes true, but if extreme....where someone loves only themselves, it's impossible to truly love anyone else.
2007-08-03 06:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by cwhathappens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are under the illusion that there are a million other, better women waiting for you. Look at your wife for what she is, accept her for what she is, find good things in what she is. Look at her body in only a good way. Choose to find it sexy. Now go have some good sex with your wife. And put some effort into it. She needs to put some effort into it too.
2007-08-03 05:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by brinntache 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something has changed about her , but you should remember why you fell in love in the first place and try to make things like you did back then.
2007-08-03 04:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by chacolatepuddin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you love her when you married her? if so try to find out what has changed b/t then and now. has the way you treat each other changed? if it has, and changed for the worse, try to go the extra mile to me nice to her. show her you still care about her and that she is your world, in turn she should start doing the same.
Also, try rekindling your love... what about going and spending the day where you first met, or the place you first purposed to her.
2007-08-03 04:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by gorgeous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could be interested in someone else, and not to state the obvious but sometimes people grow apart over time it just happens sometimes... it's not something you can control... but there is something else you need to think about is she happy are you both just going through the day to day notions?
2007-08-03 04:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by DIXIEMS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refusal, denial, disrespect, unattraction, lack of motivation, lack of knowledge, lack of communication, have given up trying, unable to love her unconditionally!
2007-08-03 04:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe youve just grown apart over the years
2007-08-03 04:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the question longer and with details.
2007-08-03 05:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Big question,,,,,,,, Can you love yourself? then and only then can you love someone,,,, you had to love her at time you married,,,,, what is it that is making you feel down...............
You had love once,,,,,,, I'm sure if you look it's there,,,, and you will be able to find it again...........
2007-08-03 04:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by joyfulone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask yourself that question - or your wife
2007-08-03 04:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋