2007-08-03 05:36:47 · 12 answers · asked by joeelliot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Who is married, you, the old flame, both of you?
You have to make a decision. Do you want to stay married? If so, you have to figure out if you can have a non-sexual relationship with your old flame. If you can't, then stay away.
If you can, set boundaries and enjoy the friendship.
2007-08-03 05:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by LaraSue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. both of us are married with kids. He contacted me after 17 years. He had a big problem with it just after we hooked up because his wife became pregnant. I should have ended it then. I would have saved myself a lot of angst. That was a year and a half ago. We have not had sex in a year but We are still friends and talk on the phone almost everyday. We don't see eachother, although I would like to see him more often but he wont because he is afraid of something sexual happening.
I suggest you look at your situation (if you are married) and see why you did this in the first place. I regret not looking at my own situation and getting involved with him in this way. i should have kept it at friends, separated from my husband and looked for happiness the right way. Affiars are only a temporary fix.
2007-08-03 12:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are married you shouldn't be hooking up with an old flame...Damn I hate it when that just happens! Are you looking for a divorce?
2007-08-03 12:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre married, you have no business "hooking up" with an old flame. Would you like it or care if your wife did the same.....right, I thought so.
2007-08-03 12:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take all that hotness that you feel for the old flame, and you go home and ravage your wife.
2007-08-03 12:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a cup, cuz if I was with you, I'd cut off your man parts, put them in a blender and feed them to you for breakfast. I'm glad KARMA is real. Selfish people ALWAYS get what's coming to them.
2007-08-03 12:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, then stay away from the old flame before you get burned......Nadya......
2007-08-03 12:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go home to your spouse with a "sigh" of what might've been, but isn't... you're married.
2007-08-03 12:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember why you broke up would be a good starting point.
2007-08-03 14:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce, your spouse deserves better.
2007-08-03 12:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋