Marriage & Divorce - 3 August 2007

My wife and I are moving out tomorrow. She to her parents, me to mine. I am 27 she is 25. We are not getting a divorce right now but it sure seems like it. We have been married for only 10 months and neither of us were ready for this. We still love eachother but our relationship over last year our relationship has been like bestfriends instead of husband and wife. I thought it was just and adjustment. She has an apartment lined up that she says is month to month. I don't know what to do should I leave her be for a while or try like hell to win her back. I have not been the most reliable with money and not made the biggest effort to make things work in the bedroom and our relationship but I was always afraid of getting shot down even though we are married. She has never really been single and by herself and she thinks she needs that right now. Marriage killed our relationship. What should I do?

2007-08-03 18:39:06 · 7 answers · asked by Cory 1

if you move they may not be happy and my miss family. but life could be better for them if you move. what do you do,

2007-08-03 18:38:13 · 22 answers · asked by PrincessFuFu 1

i have been married almost 11yrs but have been seperated almost 3yrs and living with someone else but i'm still desperately in love with my husband and want him back but now all though we are still married he now has a seriuos girlfriend who is very sweet and kind and we would probably be bestfriends in a different situation... my husband does not want a divorce at this time but i'm afraid it's just a matter of time all though he still tells me he loves me... any suggestions on what i can do?

2007-08-03 18:26:29 · 20 answers · asked by kimmycatsmom 1

it was so beautiful to see long flowing hair and dresses on a woman. very lady like and elegant. wouln't it be nice for all teh skin to show i nthe bedroom only! wouldn't marriages be better off

2007-08-03 18:25:30 · 8 answers · asked by girl 3

what exactly would be physical abuse in a marriage? Threats like raising your hand to hit? pushing a pregnant woman hard on a bed and pulling hair and smothering food on a face....would this be abuse, also if it has not been done in a year....would that be ok to give the marriage a second chance even if no therapy has been done?

2007-08-03 18:20:15 · 15 answers · asked by mt4444 1

we live together and live like were married why not?we have a daugther together and he has another daugther from previos marrige the EX!

2007-08-03 18:03:12 · 18 answers · asked by Someone 1

i have the money but i have no credit, every where i go they just shove me out the door because i have no credit history but i need a car!! this is so unfair!

2007-08-03 17:41:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-03 17:38:54 · 16 answers · asked by Matt S 1

I'm no prude (nor am I a Conservative)--I just hate the fact that most people seem to think of marriage as 'disposable'. Prenups, cheating that leads to divorce, working so many hours that hubby & wife hardly see each other, etc. Comments?

2007-08-03 17:37:18 · 17 answers · asked by Holiday Magic 7

2007-08-03 17:36:16 · 25 answers · asked by tigerlily 2

I had a bf and we were together since middle school to our 1st year of college. He was my first...EVERYTHING! When we got to college, I broke up with him, because we were only 18 when he proposed to me, I was totally unprepared. I told him, maybe we should wait awhile cus I was obsessing over my education since I went to a University and he just went to a community college. We both started to change and go our seperate ways, so I thought it was best to see other people. I didn't mean right away! So he started dating a lot of girls and he even admitted trying to make me jealous. Then my stepsister pops into the picture just this year. She asked for my blessing, and I said it was okay, but inside it hurt. Now their getting married in 2 months, even though they were only dating for 4. Now he wants to call off the wedding to be with me. We both feel complete with each other, and belong together, but I don't want to hurt my stepsister, even though she hurt me. What should I do?

2007-08-03 17:28:35 · 21 answers · asked by Serenity 1

Well I got back in touch with a girl I went to college with.. I dated her one time... well recently I started talking to her on Facebook. She gave me her number, so I tried to call... no answer. But she does text me a lot, but never calls for some reason... well we were texting a lot, and feeling a connection again... she wanted to meet up tonight but I had to work.. well she was disappointed and all. So we were having a normal conversation and suddenly she says, "I am older than you... normally I date guys a few years older than me. Girls mature faster than guys."

I said, "is that a problem?" And she said.. "No, its cool.."

She still texts me and can't wait to meet back up.. but dang..

What kind of signal am I getting???

2007-08-03 17:16:08 · 13 answers · asked by aa 1

A really good friend of mine is divorcing her husband because he was abusing her and cheating on her. Her soon to be ex hubby told my husband and me that he knows what she is doing every moment, I fear for her life but my husband said stay out of it. I'm worried because she is now talking to someone new and her ex is having all of her calls recorded. This man is psyco and he has tried to kill her several times. I feel she needs to know this information but I hate to go against my husband. What would you do? I think that when she goes to meet her new love they both will be at jepordy.

2007-08-03 17:13:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-03 16:52:31 · 10 answers · asked by taurust_girl27 3

2007-08-03 16:52:10 · 12 answers · asked by Red 1

I work in an office and am very attracted to a coworker. The problem is that we are both married! We hit it off from the day I started. Nothing has happened. We are good friends, but there is definite office flirting and private conversations often turn to sexual likes and dislikes. Another female in the office told me she is DEFINITELY flirting (almost obviously). I don't know what to do. I would never intentionally cheat, but if she initiated something, I'm not sure how I would react. How do I get out of this situation without it getting ugly... or sexual????

2007-08-03 16:37:10 · 8 answers · asked by RatherbeGolfing 1

So I don't have any interest in the things he wants to tell me (his interests and topics of discussion are so different ffrom my own).

2007-08-03 16:36:39 · 6 answers · asked by Serena G 1

2007-08-03 16:11:52 · 33 answers · asked by cuqtpie 1

2007-08-03 16:10:41 · 23 answers · asked by OC 7

pedro's muscles were flexing with the sweat shining in the sun, and you could smell his testosterone from across the pool, and his sex, I mean six pack was rippling with exertion, and he kept smoothing his beautiful shiny black hair out from his eyes, and he offered to oil you up...
lol...this one is for don mambo who asked that stupid question about a housekeeper while a wife is away!

2007-08-03 15:26:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

A beautiful temptation available

Really,what are you thinking to do?

2007-08-03 15:06:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-03 14:45:20 · 3 answers · asked by getusedtoit 4

I laugh when some women say they married their husbands for love ... LMAO, gimme a break ... men are pigs, how can someone possibly "love" a pig? LMAO, hilarious.

I plan on marrying for money and money only.

2007-08-03 14:43:00 · 15 answers · asked by Jessie 1

In life people get together and marry. some marry for love and some marry for the money..how many of us do this. do we really love the person we marry for themselves or do we marry for greed.

2007-08-03 14:38:22 · 9 answers · asked by harlz 1

Last night my husband went out after work with coworkers and came home intoxicated (to the point he got sick). This was a problem a few years ago but hasn't been in the last year or so. He knows it was wrong (he drove himself home) and feels bad but thinks I should just get over it. He has promised that it wouldn't happen again (but I've heard that before). He thinks I'm staying mad at him as a way to punish him, I'm just upset that he wouldn't make better choices (we have 3 kids he needs to think about also). He says it happened because he was stressed out over work, but he's always stressed out about something. Am I wrong to stay mad/upset? What would you do in a similar situation?

2007-08-03 14:21:37 · 16 answers · asked by Michel 2

Has anyone ever had an idea, all their own, and made good money from it? If so, how did you get your idea known? Where is a good place to start (besides the internet?)

2007-08-03 14:13:30 · 2 answers · asked by Cheatsy Koopa 1

sometimes I feel tired after making love I did not used to feel that way?!
is it a normal for some people??!

2007-08-03 13:22:03 · 28 answers · asked by hoelmoel 2

You always hear stats on marriage but usually it's like 50% divorce rate. We've just celebrated 28 years on the 1st of Aug.
The funny thing is when we first met many people said we wouldn't make it together for 6 mths. I'm just curious to know how many make it that long.

2007-08-03 13:20:42 · 4 answers · asked by WACVET75 7

...but you really didn't want to make love to him? as in you 2 haven't slept together. and he's wealthy.

2007-08-03 13:18:30 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Was previously arrested when we were married about 10 years or so - now we're at 48 years. Once again I bailed him out and took him home but he is not remorseful or anything. Does'nt seem to think it was any big deal. How would you deal with this

2007-08-03 13:07:17 · 10 answers · asked by Karen R 2