...but you really didn't want to make love to him? as in you 2 haven't slept together. and he's wealthy.
2007-08-03 13:18:30 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ur problem is that hes to YOUNG... u shud find some new guy much richer and much older... if hes old enuff he wont want ANY sex anymore... he wont even remember wat sex is... thats my plan!!!
to 'thebaked': thanx for the namedrop.... :-)
2007-08-03 19:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by Gold Digger 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweet Pea what you are really asking is, I want to sleep with this 40 year old wealthy man and I am 26 would you do it ? The answer is no, because you are worth more than just a fling with a wealthy man. you should think of your self as priceless instead of looking at the right price. Good luck on your decision!
2007-08-03 13:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by b n real 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be pressured into it. At 40 he's expecting that dating means sex...and I'm sure you're a lot hotter than he is. I don't have a problem with the age gap - age doesn't really matter, except if an older person is trying to take advantage of a younger one.
If he genuinely likes you, but you don't like him, then you need to break up with him. If he's putting pressure on you, just say no. You'll feel like crap if you give in and you really didn't want to.
As for the money, it is nice to date someone with cash. It's lovely not to have to think about the cost of what you're ordering for dinner, and the gifts are nice. But in the end if you aren't compatible it won't help.
2007-08-03 13:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by Janey 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all if I was dating and 40 year old man I would be dating him because I like him not because of his money and yes I would have sex with him as long as he still got his good looks.
2007-08-04 13:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Miss L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer this question and you have already done so, "but you really didn't want to". If your having reservations don't do it. Wealthy or not. Age doesn't really matter if you are with the right person, have talked about the differences, and are honest with yourselves.
2007-08-03 13:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by WACVET75 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to make love to him then don't do it. It shouldn't matter if he's wealth or not. But if you want to make love to him then do it. Is the relationship just about him being wealthy? Well if that is the case then I think she's using him. That is just my opinion, take it or leave it. Good luck!
2007-08-03 14:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Drea Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are just dating him for his money? Shame on you. If you think 40 is old, you are sadly mistaken, though. Go find a guy you dig and leave this "catch" to someone who really loves him and wants to make love with him.
2007-08-03 13:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anyone say Gold Digger yet...No offense but why are putting sex and his wealth in the same question.
Seems he has more feelings for you than you have for him.
Seems you like the things he does for you and the places he takes you too ,but you just can't commit to an adult relationship with him. I would say you need to let him know that it would be best if you were just friends. If not your a very shallow person..At least a gold digger would put out.........
2007-08-03 13:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by thebaked 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Only do it when you are ready and cos you really want to.. when it does happen it really has to be about the two of you and not just about one persons needs.. I would say take your time.. it is more fun when both want it..
2007-08-03 13:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by tamrastic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him you are not ready. He should accept it and respect it. If he doesn't... go find yourself a sugar daddy who gets it.
Or... do you want to sleep with him because of his money? A-hem... not a nice thing. That would be called prostituting yourself. Not a good idea at all.
2007-08-03 13:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by teritaur 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him and forget that you are dating. Better yet, leave him. you are not yet married and you do not know what he will do to you. What if he will do more than making love? And besides, you already know that you do not want to make love with him so why would you think twice?
2007-08-03 13:24:04 · answer #11 · answered by Jet 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋