2007-08-03 16:52:10 · 12 answers · asked by Red 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She says they're just friends and denies it. She says she doesn't know what she wants to do.
2007-08-03 17:04:57 · update #1
In this case I would ask her to go to canceling with me .and I would let her know how i feel about her and her kids. But if she likes someone else, Why would you want to stay around.
You go on what your heart needs and not what your heart wants.
Don't set your self up for a heart break .
2007-08-03 17:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her? Or her kids? Become a big brother or adopt. You cant force her to stay. You can ask her if she loves you and wants to make it work if so you could get counseling. If not there is nothing you can do it takes 2 to make it work. If you can break up on good terms maybe you could watch the kids sometimes especially if their bio-dad is not in the picture.Sorry wish there was more i could say
2007-08-03 17:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by jewleit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she realizes she has a great guy already in her corner. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. I'll tell you one thing, don't sit around waiting on her to make up her mind letting your life pass you by. I'm sure there is someone else out there who would love to take her place. BEST WISHES TO YOU!
2007-08-03 17:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by ndd77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is absolutely NOTHING you can do....if her heart i set on someone ele then you probably better forget about her now...... love is not something that you can set ON and OFF. would you rather that she stays with you but loves someone else just for show?! move on with your life and be greatfull for the wonderful time that you had together. try to stay friend and in contact in order to keep the relationship if you want but seing her with the other person might be hard for you.
2007-08-03 17:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by mr b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't lose her, she lost interest in you. I think you should think about yourself and if it is really worth chasing her. If you get her back, she could stray again. What is it that you want in life? You sound like a good guy - start thinking more of yourself and the right woman will want to be with you - exclusively. Women love confidence.
2007-08-03 16:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by LaraLara 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She can LIKE dozens of men. LIKE and LOVE are two different things. Sounds like you're too immature for this type of relationship if you don't know the differences between liking people and being in a loving committed relationship.
2007-08-03 20:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not really anything you can do except for showing her that you love her and are committed to her.
Have you talked with her about this? If not, I would seriously suggest doing that ASAP.
2007-08-03 16:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes someone else...sorry to say but you're going to lose her anyhow...why stay with someone that has no interest in you?! She's probably using you!
2007-08-03 16:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by mrsprincess07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only be yourself honey....good luck....and its better that this happens now rather than when you are married.Such a shame that she has someone who cares for her as well as her kids and she is not content.
2007-08-03 17:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by gloria b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has not grown up at all. She doesn't honor her commitments, and certainly does not care about her kids.
You need to move on.
2007-08-03 17:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋