Marriage & Divorce - 3 August 2007

2007-08-03 13:03:22 · 20 answers · asked by Donna Le Oiseau de Feu 3

my parents divorced. it doesnt make me feel stronger, and it does feel like it shouldve killed me. theres a lot more to the story, but i dont believe in love anymore and its been a year and i still dont see any way this could better me as a person. it hasnt gotten any better and it doesnt feel like it will.

2007-08-03 12:50:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

let me rephrase this, we divorced and are now back living together. we split the finances 50/50...........


about 1000 dollars because she was that far in the hole with the bank due to overdraft charges. We agree with a way of her paying me back.

she does not stick to the agreement soi ask when she will pay it back and she gets increadably angry with me. Says she hate borrowing money, expecially from me "Because I ask for it back"


she has a long history of overspending and going in the hole dispite how much i give her and how much i push a large buffer. This is why we no longer have shared bank accounts.

is she justified in her attitude, or should she be somewhat greatfull i still help her?

2007-08-03 12:36:26 · 14 answers · asked by That Guy 4

about 1000 dollars because she was that far in the hole with the bank due to overdraft charges. We agree with a way of her paying me back.

she does not stick to the agreement soi ask when she will pay it back and she gets increadably angry with me. Says she hate borrowing money, expecially from me "Because I ask for it back"


she has a long history of overspending and going in the hole dispite how much i give her and how much i push a large buffer. This is why we no longer have shared bank accounts.

is she justified in her attitude, or should she be somewhat greatfull i still help her?

2007-08-03 12:28:52 · 24 answers · asked by That Guy 4

2007-08-03 12:27:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife usaually always beats me, in an arguement. She gets away with anything on me, by refraining sex with me. She always says " U either, do it or U will not get any tonight in bed"... Guys! How can I beat my wife, in a no win situation, when a woman controls a man sexually???

2007-08-03 12:23:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If 2 people come to an agreement but one is unwilling to put it in writting or record it what does it mean?

The reason they give is because they promised their mother then would never put agreements in writting.

what do you think?
A. they are being protected from their own stupidity
B. they are dishonest and plan on breaking the agreement
C. other



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2007-08-03 12:22:14 · 6 answers · asked by That Guy 4

We have all heard of the "Other Woman". The woman who maintains a relationship with a married man. What about the other man? Is this heard of? Are there any single men that maintain relationships with married women? Or if they are attracted to a married woman who is willing, do they just have sex and go on their way?

2007-08-03 12:15:10 · 4 answers · asked by dewdrop034 3

We've been married 48 years and he had plenty of money to pay for whay he stole

2007-08-03 12:12:27 · 14 answers · asked by Karen R 2

My boyfriend called twice to apologize for the way he behaved the other night. I didn't answer the phone when he called and didn't try calling him for half a day. He was worried about me and wanted me to leave a message to say I was okay.

I tried calling him last night and have left 3 messages. I said I was sorry too, but he hasn't called me back. How can we fix this communication problem we have? He's out of town right now, so we can't talk without the phone.

And, if he was the one who was wrong, why get mad at me for being mad at him? Was I wrong to not call him right away?

2007-08-03 12:08:21 · 5 answers · asked by torn 3

anyone heard of a bride 2 be cheating at a bachelorette party? (sexual stuff) what were the situation? who she cheat with?

2007-08-03 12:06:59 · 10 answers · asked by jules p 1

I've tried everything, and I am at my witts end. After the last blow up I have just settled for the silent treatment. My heart is heavy and I don't want to fight or get a divorce.

2007-08-03 12:06:10 · 10 answers · asked by mendnjoe 2

My husband and I have been married 11 years. We love each other, that's not in doubt, but we just can't seem to get along anymore. We have devoted so much or time to our children and their sports that we don't have any kind of relationship, not even an intimate one. I've always been the one to initiate sex but after consistantely being turned down ... I don't ask anymore and he will NOT make the first move.....it's been 6 months now. I've bought stock in batteries but it's not doing it for me anymore. He refuses to see a marriage counselor and I can't seem to make him understand we, our marriage, needs help.

2007-08-03 11:56:20 · 12 answers · asked by partygirl 2

i think it would make me very happy to live in a studio and paint all day, men are great but i dont think i need to marry anyone. especially after seeing every adult in my life get divorced.

2007-08-03 11:56:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am engage to gt married, but one of our concerns is that my income would be combine with his, and the ex will request more $$ based on my income.

2007-08-03 11:54:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents just got divoced, but then
one of my parent wouldnt leave the house
isnt there a law that, after divorce, they have to stay apart??
and how should i tell him to get out of th house?

2007-08-03 11:53:12 · 4 answers · asked by saila 1

The media is just waiting for successful black people to do something wrong. They loved it when Kobe Bryant raped that dirty white girl who had semen for 5 different guys inside her. They can wait for LeBron James to screw up. Who gives a crap about those wild dogs. They cannot be pets anyway. They are killers. All those rotweilers should be put to sleep. Anyone agree?

2007-08-03 11:50:42 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've fed him, cleaned him, and gave him some water, so why is the man I have chained in my basement angry at me?

2007-08-03 11:45:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you keep the excitement and thrill in your sex life reoccuring throught your years together?

2007-08-03 11:42:51 · 7 answers · asked by Sha'Kneece 1

i am having problems with my husband wanting sex. i dont know if it is because of his weight or not but i want him very much. he says he is still attracted to me and very much in love with me. But why is he never in the mood anymore? He works very hard to provide for me and him and is a good man, but i was wondering if there were any home remedies or anything that i could use to maybe get him in the mood or perhaps something to give him that little push to want to be intimate?

2007-08-03 11:41:37 · 7 answers · asked by brownskin 2

I have started sleeping on the couch nearly every night because I have sleep problems and once I am awaken, it can take hours to get back to sleep. I miss sleeping with him but when I have to get up for work in the morning, I have to have my rest. I have tried rolling him over but he snores no matter how he lays. We have tried the nose strips and he has consulted with a doctor who said there is no obvious defect that is treatable. The doctor did give me a strong sleeping medication (ambien) and he STILL wakes me up! Any ideas? Anything that works for you? Is is weird that I sleep on the couch--my kids think so. I hate to model that for them, but I am TIRED!

2007-08-03 11:27:57 · 19 answers · asked by norsktjej1964 4

could you love when you are hurting?

2007-08-03 11:25:20 · 11 answers · asked by curlyannf 1

i have been with this guy Alex for 3 years...he has broken up with me so many times just to party and have fun, drink, different girls every night..etc. He always comes back in my life when im finally ready to move on and im not hurting so bad. Well We have a nine month year old baby girl now, and he acts like he loves us, then he goes and hangs out with his friends and totally rejects/abandons us and tells me to f*** off and calls me names when i want to be with him and spend time together. We were engaged..lived together and all that. Now My baby and I live back with my mom but i just feel so heartbrokena and sad it is taking over my whole life, its hard to even smile. Do people like him ever change? he has made me so many promises and i believed in him so many times. we have been broken up now for about a week i keep calling him and crying, he hangs up on me.I feel so lonley. i feel like i need him. I know hes a good person deep down. Should i give up..or keep trying to be afamily

2007-08-03 11:23:44 · 8 answers · asked by Alyssa 1

Lately he kept picking on me for spending, he tracks my movement in our bank, like the money I took out from bank yesterday to go food shopping, he called me and ask if it's me who took the money out. I'm so sick and tired of this, we both work, he earns more, but I feel that I shouldn't be restricted on necessities. I'm prepared to have an argument with him tonight, I need some advices and tips to help me to win the fight, thanks

2007-08-03 11:00:35 · 39 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5

10 points to the winner! Once I'm satisfied, I'll tell you mine. : )

2007-08-03 10:56:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

With kids and all the work around the house I am sometimes not intrested in sex is this bad?

2007-08-03 10:54:28 · 27 answers · asked by cheetos 1

Hi, i still love my ex despite the fact that he's made me go through such a heartache...we had small fight which i think we could have worked out if he wanted...he avoids my calls, my text messages and then he wrote that he didn't choose me but chose someone else and that he was sorry..i need answers from him but he wont do it..i still love him despite all these..i still want to be with him. he's he one i want. feel like i should still pursue him. what should i do?

2007-08-03 10:53:53 · 15 answers · asked by Carl 1

I have been very sick for the past couple of weeks. Not the typical "I have a cold" sick but in the bed with weird & debilitating symptoms. I had an appointment to see the doctor on Monday for bloodwork but my husband's truck wouldn't start so he took my vehicle leaving me stranded & I missed my appointment. Ok, he's been working 12 hour days & I've been trying to take care of our 3 kids, keep the dishes washed, clothes washed & kids fed barely able to walk & in constant pain. This morning he was "knocking on the door" & when I didn't respond in a positive way he asked me if "I just never thought about sex anymore."

Ok, here is what I need to know. Men are you just:

a) really that stupid
b) really that selfish
c) really so controlled by your dick that you have no ability to feel compassion
or
d) all of the above

Please....any insight you can give would be greatly appreciated.

2007-08-03 10:48:55 · 41 answers · asked by I Give Up 1

I am a 27 year old guy who has never been in a serious relationship. I used to have hope when I was in my early 20s that I would meet a nice girl and that we would get married and have a few children. Now that I am 27 I feel like my life is passing me by and I won't get married before I am 30. Everyone my age seems to have someone and I am all alone. I really don't know what to do? I feel really ashamed to be single! Why is it so hard to find someone to love in the world these days?

2007-08-03 10:46:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-03 10:44:36 · 8 answers · asked by David L 1