i am having problems with my husband wanting sex. i dont know if it is because of his weight or not but i want him very much. he says he is still attracted to me and very much in love with me. But why is he never in the mood anymore? He works very hard to provide for me and him and is a good man, but i was wondering if there were any home remedies or anything that i could use to maybe get him in the mood or perhaps something to give him that little push to want to be intimate?
2007-08-03 11:41:37 · 7 answers · asked by brownskin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It could just be stress that has him not in the mood. If he is working a very demanding job, which sounds like it to me. He probably just doesn't feel up to the challenge of trying to please you at home and please his boss. Stress can really kill anyone's sex drive. Try getting him to take a nice relaxing bath when he gets home from work and give him massages and such. Make him dinner. Do about anything you can think of to make him relax. But don't bring up sex so often, because he will always feel like he is being pressured to do it. And you know guys have performance issues at times. So you need to be the person he can come home to and relax talk about his day when he is ready to. And I'm sure after a while once he gets more relaxed and not under much pressure from work he will find is way back to you. But for now you have to be there for him as a relaxing support system.
2007-08-03 11:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No pressure is a good idea.If his weight is a problem for him he needs to start walking and exercising.He will be surprised at how much better he will feel and that probably will solve your problem.How old is he?As men age they lose Testosterone and thus lose their drive.This is a problem he may need to address with his Doctor.Try dating again and wear something sexy on the date,the site of you looking hot all night should get his motor running.Good luck and I hope this helps.
2007-08-03 11:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Tom S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise him with a very romantic evening. He might just need a jump start. That is the only home remedy I know of.
2007-08-03 11:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can be my friend anytime. I also have [intimacy issues] with my wife. I have the same problem as U, but from a male's point of view.
2007-08-03 12:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying, but I don't know any man that would not want their wives when they want sex! He is making a mistake....some guys have all the luck..I want it can't get enough...he can get it but don't want it go figure!!
Meet him at the door naked or keep doing those sexy things you do! if he doesn't wake up......then send him to talk to a guy who never get it!
2007-08-03 11:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be a little crude, but how about a BJ in the morning when he has his morning wood.
2007-08-03 12:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-03 11:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋