My wife usaually always beats me, in an arguement. She gets away with anything on me, by refraining sex with me. She always says " U either, do it or U will not get any tonight in bed"... Guys! How can I beat my wife, in a no win situation, when a woman controls a man sexually???
2007-08-03 12:23:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Abe dude you need to stop and really think about this how can she control your sex life really she has needs to and she will either do with or with out just like you. There is no one way street on this it takes two just like everything else in a marrage. I dont see why any one would want to use sex to get back at someone. Good Lord you can get it anywhere and i enjoy it to much to ever do that to my hubby. Next time she tells you she is gonna cut you off tell her this tell her she cant cause she doesnt know where you are getting it at!!!! Ha Ha!!!!
2007-08-03 14:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is No Law which says you have a Legal Right to
Physically Abuse anyone, much less a woman....
Your wife can Only Win the Argument Because You Allow
her to Win....And you Allow her to Verbally Abuse You...
sounds like to me, anyway...
If sex is the only thing...she's holding against you to win,
brother, go get it somewhere else....and win an argument
with that.
Why do you allow her to treat you this way...Obviously SHE
HAS A PROBLEM, and you have one, or you wouldn't
just stand there and take it...
It's either time for a ''Counseling Session OR A DIVORCE"...
but you're the one who has to live in it...and Accept the
Verbal Abuse, AND DO WHAT SHE SAYS...or she won't
give you...''her body''....man this is such ''petty'' stuff, for 2
grown people, to be in such a huff about...
But if I were you, she would go to a counselor, or she would
go to the Courtroom, in front of a judge, for Abuse, and
a Divorce, for I wouldn't put up with this in no way...
Life doesn't give alll the time we want to find happiness and
enjoy it, so you better make ''use'' of the time you have,
for there's no time, LIKE THE PRESENT, to change the
circumstances....Situations like this are not.....Too Funny....
and need to be taken very seriously, before someone gets
physically hurt...bad...
2007-08-03 12:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by Too Funny 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is sexual intimidation and believe it or not it's against the law. It's a type of abuse and if I were you I would divorce her ***. My ex husband did that **** to me all the time. If the house was cleaner I would have sex with you. If you spent less money I would have sex with you. Give me a break! Get out while you still can. You shouldn't have to beg for sex. It should be freely given. Good luck!
2007-08-03 12:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by Dani&Morgan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman who uses sex as a weapon isn't much of a wife.
I would tell her to be careful what she wishes for, or she just may get it.
I would imagine you will eventually reach a breaking point when you become tired of the threats. Then what? Go out and find someone who will have sex with you? I am not condoning that behavior but she would deserve whatever heartache came with it if you did.
2007-08-03 12:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by cadez613 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I hate women like that. If she is a Christian, let her know that she is committing sin against you. If you two are in a committed relationship, she should not do this. Ignore her. I don't care how hard it gets (no pun intended), ignore her for a few days. Let her wonder why you're not interested, believe me, before it's all over, she will be begging you for it.
2007-08-03 12:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by JUJUBABE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Realize that sex is not going to happen any way. If you accept that fact then her argument is mute.
Keep yourself busy for a week and avoid sex for a little while. This will switch control, but she can only say no if you ask for it, but if you don't ask she can't say no.
2007-08-03 13:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is a low down rotten thing to do to a husband. She sounds very controlling. Marriage is suppose to be 50/50.
Act like it doesn't bother you even if it does; it'll make her mad if she thinks it doesn't bother you. And if she's ever in the mood, then you can use the same thing over her.
2007-08-03 12:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By watching porn and using the old hand. That will tick her off because you are dealing with the no sex better than she would expect and she gets to go sulk in a corner.
2007-08-03 12:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sex isnt that important you know.....but yea shes wrong for doing that, its not like youre alittle 6 year old kid and your toys are being taken away, thats how shes treating you, just tell her sex isnt a toy. but of course if the two of you go to bed and you feel like having sex but shes still mad, the sex wont be that good anyway
2007-08-03 13:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
divorce her
you ultimately will win
why you would want to be with a women who uses sex as a MANipulative control over you does not speak very well of your choices in women
a good women gives of her self freely
just as a good man will
2007-08-03 12:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋