Marriage & Divorce - 25 July 2007

I got married about 20 years ago because I was desperate.

Is this possible to have wanted marriage for security and have felt sadness and depression because of the choice?
I have been on medication on and off for the past 6 years. Married for 15 years.

Sometimes I want to run away or die.


I am that person people think is always happy.

I smile often.

2007-07-25 09:43:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think reading this Bible verse did it for me, and says it all
"However, each of of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must repect her husband, " Ephesian 5:23

2007-07-25 09:37:02 · 13 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4

2007-07-25 09:34:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK 8 MONTHS AGO MY EX LEFT ME BECAUSE WE HAD PROBLEMS AND WE HAD BEEN TOGETHER FOR 2 YEARS.THEN A FRIEND WAS THERE FOR ME IN MY HARDEST MOMENTS WHEN I MOST NEEDED SOMEONE TO RELIEFE MYSELF.WE ENDED UP TOGETHER AND WE NOW HAVE 6 MONTHS TOGETHER.BUT YESTERDAY ME AND MY EX TALKED FOR SO LONG ON THE PHONE.THE THING IS THAT I STILL LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART AND WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH MY GIRL WHO I HAVE RIGHT KNOW AND WHAT IF MY EX DONT LIKE ME ANYMORE.IT SEEMS SHE REALLY MISSES ME AND I DO TO.ANY HELP PLZ I WILL REALLY APPRECIATE IT.

2007-07-25 09:31:36 · 17 answers · asked by Jokes 1

The marriage is now null and void because he did not get a divorce from the previous marriage. I am not in love with him any more but he treathen me alot saying if i don't come back to him he will kill me. He even threatens to kill my friends and family. He is now a full pledge member of the cult as well. Advice please.
I am a female by the way with a male image.

2007-07-25 09:30:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been separated for 8 months and we are getting ready to go to court over our divorce. He refused to sign the papers and now its going before a judge. We have no minor children, no property, no mutual anything. I just want this to be done, but he doesn't want the divorce. He cheated on me several times and there is no hope for reconciliation. We are representing ourselves. What happens in court?

2007-07-25 09:25:59 · 10 answers · asked by jn_rosser 1

Hi! I am a straight married woman (happily married with a great sex life) but....I am fascinated with other beautiful women. I would love to be with another woman at least once. Should I tell my husband? BTW....I think he could possibly be bi.

2007-07-25 09:09:24 · 19 answers · asked by Jessica H 1

explain to me why you woman can't find a single man to be with.What is it that drives u to be with married men Dont u have a concious any one please explain this to me. Don't u understand the hurt u are causing innocent people. Do you think it is fun to hurt his family?U know married people can't cheat unless someone lets them And it is wrong

2007-07-25 09:07:14 · 5 answers · asked by jusayg 2

I checked my husband's email today and found a message stating he had a new message on this website. I went to the website and needed to log in, well i told them I had lost my log in info and they immediatly emailed it to me. I went on the site and it is for people (married or single) looking for friends or someone to have an affair with. I called him at work and confronted him about it and he admitantly denies signing up for anything like that. I don't know what to think because he just is not the type of person to cheat (or so I thought), and in my eyes doing something like that is as much cheating as meeting someone in a motel room and having sex! If anyone out there has some advise for me I would greatly appreciat it!

2007-07-25 09:05:04 · 17 answers · asked by Scorpio_sting 2

he doesnt think i should be angry about this- hes not prescribed these medications and takes way more than he should. he says i think too much and its no big deal, but its ruining our relationship and costing alot of money. we have a 14 month old daughter and i'm ready to leave because of this...am i overeacting?

2007-07-25 09:03:35 · 29 answers · asked by kristen b 1

My husband left me and our young son 5 weeks ago, he said he couldn't carry on with our marriage as the feelings he had weren't strong enough to sustain our marriage. We never argued and still we remain friends, but I am finding it increasingly difficult to cope with the situation as I love him dearly, how can I overcome this? It would of been our 5th Wedding anniversary tomorrow and I just think what I was doing 5 years tonight making the preperations, very excited. I just feel so low. Even though we have talked about it the thought of divorce just makes me sick.

2007-07-25 09:02:07 · 29 answers · asked by medra 1

One of my problems is that i am afraid to be alone.

2007-07-25 08:49:59 · 7 answers · asked by bere 1

2007-07-25 08:38:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-25 08:37:10 · 14 answers · asked by angie a 1

Dont these women care how they look to thier husbands? They have to know that they're not attractive.

2007-07-25 08:29:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-25 08:28:20 · 9 answers · asked by Kimmy 4

Having so far a friendly seperation/divorce. If both parties agree on child custody, division of debt, etc... is it needed to involve the court system for divorce?

2007-07-25 08:25:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

There has been on going regular maritial problem wife waants husband to move out and has been trying provoke husband to respond violently once or twice she has been violent called police then blamed husband once he broke the car window how ever she is the one that has done the damages to the family 2 young children are in the house hold they have been married close to 10 years

2007-07-25 08:23:08 · 2 answers · asked by MmM.a.yahoo.com 1

I am moving out of California to Iowa. I was married in California and have been for 13 years. I have a child and the father agrees I can take her with me. Can I file for legal seperation in Iowa?

2007-07-25 08:20:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not large and don't intend to ever get that way, but I hear all of the time that women get married and then blow up - how many men have experienced this? Did it effect your love? Cause trouble in your marriage?

2007-07-25 08:16:22 · 15 answers · asked by Random_Girl 3

newly married and my husband misses his children sooooo (girl-18, boy-16) much that he will do anything to see them. the son doesnt come around at all. the daughter is sweet and calls when she needs money or something. the daughter never sent me a thank you card for her graduation gift. I told her father to quit talking badly about their mom (she had an affair with his best friend). I had his daughter go to counseling with us so she could get some help. I've tried to be supportive and after we got married, she went from bad to worse. I told her dad that he needs to lay down the law and tell her that she must show respect. that's all. i have a child, and i make sure she/he knows that she/he has to show respect. i make sure he always says "thank you" and speaks to my husband in the morning, when he comes home, and tells him goodnight. my child likes his new "dad". they do butt heads occasssionally, but i respect my husbands feelings and requests.

He says he can't "make" his daughter

2007-07-25 08:13:15 · 12 answers · asked by (!)listen 5

I left my husband of 4 years 3 weeks ago. We have an 8 week old and a 3 year old. We get along sometimes, but come from 2 different backgrounds ( I am very affectionate, he is not at all)
We have had our problems, but always been faithful. He has always had an attitude problem, not very friendly, etc. It always drives me crazy. He always hounds me to get a job and calls me lazy, fat and worthless( i am none). The has mainly occured since we had a suprise pregnancy last August. He didnt want another baby then. He was ugly to me the whole time I was pregnant, no repsect, etc. When our daughter came, he acted totally withdrawn and very ugly. ( Just ignored her). He has held her twice in 8 weeks- and only because we "forced" him to. He has said hurtful things regarding our child ( like " I dont have to hold her if I dont want to). He is in complete denial . I want to work things out.( for our kids and I do still love him) We just both seem so stressed. Any comments?

2007-07-25 08:07:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met Melissa 3 years ago. We had an instant connection. We used to sit and talk for hours, we did everything together. We had issues like everyone else, we were divorced, 2 kids each, ex-spouses, money,etc. As time went by, I got frustrated with the problems and started talking to another Woman online, and I met her for dinner. After me & Melissa got back together, the other woman and I started talking again (months later). Melissa and I broke up a year later for about 2 weeks and I went out with the other lady again for spite. (Nothing ever happened between us) Melissa is a wonderful person and I kept pushing her away until she left. I have tried to get her back. I do love her so much. I realize now how much I have hurt her because, now its my turn to hurt. This isn't so much a question as it is a thought, "Why are we so stupid and hurt the ones we love?" If you find someone you love, do whatever you can to show them, don't be stupid and hurtful to them. Just love them!

2007-07-25 08:02:35 · 14 answers · asked by The Wižard 5

His ex and him were together for 3 years and 2 weeks before our wedding back in feb she showed up at his grandmas with their little boy which my husband isnt sure is his because she refuses to get a DNA test done how can we find out the boy is his when she refuses plus she is a unfit mother and a psycho that day she showed up and she tried every desperate attempt to get him back she cried and she used that poor baby hoping that the little boy could win him back and then when we were leaving she came to his side of the truck and begin to tell him she loved him and then handed him a wad of papers.well we left and when we got home i looked at the papers and all it was is her writing down all her precious little memories and saying i wasnt what he needed and all kind of stuff.Then a month ago she showed up at his work claiming to be his wife.I want to know two things
1How do we find out if the boys his when she refuses to do a DNA test and 2How do i i get her to quit stalking my husband?

2007-07-25 07:43:12 · 13 answers · asked by txangel211986 1

I am 24, married and a mom, but 2 of my 16 yr. old neighbors only talk to me and act rude towards my husband. I try to avoid the 2 neighbors, but they see me if I go to get into the car to go somewhere or if I come back from the store.

I don't like it and it's making my husband angry. What are some suggestions??? Please help!!

2007-07-25 07:40:46 · 31 answers · asked by Bien Chula 5

She quits for a while then falls off the wagon. I worry about our finances because of her habit, so I told her to quit or get the f@#$ Out. She told me she needed me to be supportive not put conditions on our relationship. What should I do?

2007-07-25 07:21:36 · 20 answers · asked by mygirlfriendsafreak 1

2007-07-25 07:19:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-25 07:02:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just ask a ? about child support and leaving kids.Well I paid for a trip and was waiting to caught my last plane .My husband called and said he was going to call the police on me for child abandoment.So I was not able to go on my vacation we are seperated.He knew I was going, where i would be ,when I was coming back.So seperated people can't go on vacation?Can he do this to me ?

2007-07-25 07:01:52 · 19 answers · asked by cash07 1

I am very interested in a man that recently filed for divorce & has a 9 month old baby. I too a single mother of a one year old, w/ no ties to the father. We have a great deal in common. He has informed me that he is going through a lot right now & is very interested in me but is not ready to date yet. He requests that we take it really slow. I respect & understand this because it has taken me 2 years, up until now, before I am even considered dating again. This could be a long, painful process for him. I want to give him the space he needs to heal but dont want to miss out on the possibility of having something in the future. We are in different places in terms of being ready & capable of dating. I also know that if we jumped into something right away it could complicate his divorce, which I don't want to do, and I could end up being a rebound, which my heart can not take. How should I pursue this while respecting his wishes & without rushing it?

2007-07-25 06:56:02 · 8 answers · asked by Abby 1