Dont these women care how they look to thier husbands? They have to know that they're not attractive.
2007-07-25 08:29:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow, people are sooo sensitive!! It's just curiosity people!!! And no, I'm not ugly as some of you have suggested!! I am glad to see so many different opinions, though!!
2007-07-25 08:54:55 · update #1
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Maybe these men think their wives are beautiful. Quite possibly because they are beautiful on the inside as well. Just because you don't find someone attractive does not mean that someone else will not as well! To each his own!
2007-07-25 08:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are so offended easily.
So here it goes:
The U.S. is heading towards a pretty alarming thing. In a few years it's been predicted that 75% of the population will be overweight. Men have the advantage of fast metabolisms and generally a stronger work ethic when it comes to "working out". Women conversely, hit their peak and slow down. Most women also think that having children is the right thing to do, so they also pile on the weight there and the responsibility. It's not exactly easy to leave the house for an hour when you have a screaming kid to take care of. In addition, fast food industries and unhealthy food just in general is mainly what is eaten in the U.S. Women also tend to look at the presence (or absence a.k.a. anorexia) of food in different ways. It can be comforting or revolting.
I'm going to pretend that you didn't say fat, because I think it's possible to be your ideal healthy weight and still be bigger than a size six or eight. But I do think I know what you mean when you say REALLY, and I agree, overall, women tend to be excessive consumers. And like I said, tie in what they eat to certain emotions in addition to just natural hunger.
After a while, the relationship just becomes a habit. I don't think anyone purposely gets into a relationship with a person because they are "fat", because there is a person beside the fat and the fat is physical. If the men can deal with the fat, so should everyone else. Ultimately it's their body and their health and their decision to compromise it.
I wouldn't be jealous.
But if I'm judged by what I look like next to my husband by someone, I'd be a little worried that their probably not the best judge of character and ultimately not worth my time. My husband would agree.
2007-07-25 10:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by stop_that_noise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first read your question, I thought you were shallow for asking such a question. Then I took a moment to think about it. I am a woman who is larger than I would like to be. I am by no means fat. I have a great looking boyfriend who is 7 years younger than I am.
Some men like larger women and some women hate their appearance but they carry themselves in a way no one would ever know. Physical appearance is not always what attracts one person to another. Being large doen't mean unattractive. Having a low self esteem at any size, however, is.
To answer your question though. Not all large women are unattractrive and not all large women are gross. I am large but work out 4-5 times a week so I am not gross.
ANYWAY: HMMM???? Don't really know the answer to your question.
2007-07-25 09:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by baadwoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Perhaps, it's other qualities that they possess which Men might find attractive and vice versa. Staying fit and having a pretty face doesn't necessarily guarantee getting the "Man" or "Women". Instead of pondering such hallow insights, ask yourself how you can make yourself attractive and appealing to men. And if this is not the case for you, (which, I'm certain it is, hence the question at hand) then why should you really care? Perhaps, a personality makeover is needed????
2007-07-25 08:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a woman is married and a mom, her body goes through changes that are difficult to control. The physical changes are too quick to reverse, so many women retain weight gained during the pregnancy. This is not lazy fat or beer drinking fat, as you might see on some men in their junior year at college.
The emotional changes that a woman goes through occupy her mind to a point of low self-esteem and little self awareness. If the husband keeps at her side, she can return to her previous height of self awareness and get back in shape...WE DID! My wife lost every pound gained during both pregnancies.
Some of my neighbors are so wrapped up in "being a mom" that they leave themselves off of the priority list. They put the children and maybe the career in front of themselves and then...run out of time! NO time to exercise, no time to cook healthy, take vitamins, etc and my neighbors often tell us that they are too tired to do anything after the children are asleep.
It is a difficult choice to make, but if you want more than 2 children, it will demand most of your time, energy and attention. We have 2 great looking boys and my wife is in great shape since we stopped at 2 and keep an active life instead.
2007-07-25 08:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by joe_on_drums 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The blowup syndrome. It's a fear to all us women. They get fat after they get married. I've been married for 1 year now, and i'm actually thinner now then before marrage. I think it's from drinking less or something. I exercize the same number of hours per week so must be a few days that i'm staying in instead of drinking heaps of beers with my best mates.
Either that... or they've had 20 babies and let themselves go.
2007-07-25 08:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by jennifer_santolla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...and perhaps ur just jealous bc ur not dating someone as good looking as them?! And with that attitude and it's not a wonder why. Some of the most beautiful women in the world are curvy, chuncky, or larger....And perhaps they are attractive to their husbands...don't dis what u don't understand or know anything about!
2007-07-25 08:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by mrsprincess07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Veronica since all the answers are against you , They probably weren't that size when married an if they were than I'm proud of there choice.It's not mine, As my life stile couldn't
have it. Climbing to the fly bridge on my boat.I'm glad that there are 1s for everyone.I like looking at small girls big boats?
2007-07-25 09:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dare you to post your real picture, because people can always lose weight, but being ugly on the inside is irreversible.
I hope you are this naive due to your age, and may still have a chance to mature.
Stop staring at the men that are already taken and get one that is single, and thinks just like you.
2007-07-25 08:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by Emerald 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you implying that "big(fat)" people are not attractive? I hope you have your flame retardent suit on because you are going to get some not so friendly comments, I'm sure.
There could be a million reasons why people might not be super slim and beautiful like yourself....don't judge a book by its cover.
2007-07-25 08:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by i_b_winkn_at_u 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋