Hi! I am a straight married woman (happily married with a great sex life) but....I am fascinated with other beautiful women. I would love to be with another woman at least once. Should I tell my husband? BTW....I think he could possibly be bi.
2007-07-25 09:09:24 · 19 answers · asked by Jessica H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah...maybe you and your husband could sit down and have a talk about this...explain to him how you feel...but that's only if you think he would be comfortable about it...don't ruin a good thing...if you think he would flip out!!!
2007-07-25 09:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by MiZz SaAk 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your husband about it! I never thought that I could be interested in being with a woman sexually but in my late thirties it just sort of happened. I felt so guilty about it that I had to tell my husband. He was actually excited about it and we had the best sex ever that night. All he said was that he wished he could have been there when it happened. I'm not sure if I would be considered bi or not (I don't see most woman as attractive) and the other woman has since moved over 1000 miles away so it's not an every day or week kind of involvement. We still visit each other twice a year with my hubby included........ and when we do the sex is fantastic.
2007-07-25 16:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not tell my husband as he might actually expect you to do a threesome, and you might not actually beable to do it once it's in front of you. also there is the chance that he might like it more than you and maybe cheat on you. just ask him if he's bi but that doesn't mean you have ot act on that impulse. just remember there alot of std's and people with aids out there. do yo really want to take the chance of getting that?
2007-07-25 16:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by dietzc2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. He will probably be very turned on by the idea. I think more women than not have the same desire as you. We like pretty things & that includes people too. Plus, you always here that a woman is better at certain things.
2007-07-25 16:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest with your husband. Some fantasies are better left as fantasies. But it is definitely something you need to discuss with your husband.
2007-07-25 16:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Cali Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you should tell him. he's your husband and there shouldn't be anything that you don't tell him. and plus if hes like most guys he won't mind the fact that you want to be with another woman :)
2007-07-25 16:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him and ask if he is bi. Sounds like a fun conversation. Tells about how it goes.
2007-07-25 16:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You and you husband should share your fantasies. Maybe it is something you both may want to try out. Honesty is the key to making it work out.
2007-07-25 16:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Been in those shoes but I told him and then all he wanted for about a month was a threesome but I didn't want to go there. I found it's better to keep my fantasies to myself.
2007-07-25 16:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by ChiChi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would explain to my husband about my urge to be with another woman. try going out to a swingers club with him and finding a woman you both like...then he could watch or join...whatever you guys decide. my aunt and uncle are swingers so i asked them how they became that way and my aunt told me she had the urge to be with a woman so she just told her husband and they decided to become swingers. good luck hun ; )
2007-07-25 16:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋