Marriage & Divorce - 25 July 2007

2007-07-25 18:32:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it normal? I hate her with such intensity that it scares me some times. I am not a person who holds a grudge and in the past I have forgiven her for being nasty. But this time she and SIL ganged up against me. Their complaint? That I was friendlier to my husband’s first cuisine more then his own sister. SIL went as far as to say I was never good. I got angry and said if I am not good, don’t come to my house. MIL literally abused me. Now she is staying wit my SIL. (In India its normal to stay with in laws, MIL stayed with us). I have told my husband that I will not live with her. She visited us last weekend; I did not speak to her. I just hate her. AM I being nasty?

2007-07-25 18:28:14 · 16 answers · asked by danny's mom 3

I live in California been married for 27 years I don't need to get divorce I will like to keep the house, but right now I can not buy down the house. I just want him to leave the house. what should I do?

2007-07-25 18:05:12 · 4 answers · asked by carmen r 1

like you have been married for awhile and realize that he or she is out doing there own thing and you are two so you really dont ever really see each other...is this normal??? to not even be with each other except at night when you lay down to go to sleep??

2007-07-25 17:59:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was married in 2002 and separted in 2003 with filing a notary in lawyer office which stated that i and my husband from today willing stay saperatley, now in 2007 i came to no that it was notary and does not have any value according ot act of marriage also i came to know that i mean time husband has filed petition against me for divorce in 2005 feb but due to some reasons i was not availble hence could be present in court, now i have to go aboard for my career and wants to settled down this matter before august 2007, FACT:
1) We both are satying separatly since 2003.
2)we both are willing for divorce
3)I dont have time to wait for 6 months.
4)the petition filed against me hence will not be favourable for me hence cannot convert that into divorce.

2007-07-25 17:54:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’m not looking for a long winded answer here. Just point blank when a woman asks if you are a passionate man? What is going thru her mind or yours?

2007-07-25 17:42:29 · 6 answers · asked by triminman 5

My bf is a great guy, but he has major issues that we have been trying to deal with for 2 years. He has lying and gambling prombles, and I think that he might have depression. Just today I found his online profile looking for "discreet" relationships. I am so mad and hurt. I haven't mentioned anything to him yet. Here's the problem... everytime something like this happens I try to break it off, but he won't move out of my house. How do I get him to leave without calling the cops or getting a restraining order?

I feel like I am living a real life Jerry Springer.

2007-07-25 17:00:39 · 10 answers · asked by rubygirl44 1

I am nearly 36 and was dating a guy who is 29. Almost 7 years older than him.
But we never noticed the age difference and neither did our friends/family.
In fact he thought I was younger than him when we first dated (I guess I have youthful genes, live clean, no sun, used to Model, high cheekbones)
He also was more mellow, mature and together than me.
So we totally balanced out.
The problem was he was almost TOO good to be true.
Very handsome and very rich. I dont care about money, because I have my own. But other girls in our small town go nuts for him. Even though I have lots going for me, I let it get to me.
When we started having sex it was the BEST, he always looke din my eyes. Finally when he got serious & admitted he loved me and could see us getting married/having kids soon I freaked out. I pulled away which hurt him & everything fell apart.
We broke up but I notice that he checks my online new personal ad every time I add new pics. He must miss me. Should I go back

2007-07-25 16:24:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are more like companions / flat mates than husband / wife. The reason I say this is because we only have sex about once every 3 months (I really have no sex drive, I enjoy it when it's happening but just can't be bothered most of the time). We get on really well, have a lot of laughs, love our kids to bits etc .We just are not affectionate to each other. We only sometimes hold hands or kiss etc. I know he would love more affection but he's not one of those men who demand anything from me either as some men do. All of our close friends are divorced and with new partners so it's all very lovey dovey for them at the moment. Anyone else in this type of situation.

2007-07-25 16:20:08 · 30 answers · asked by deedee 2

OK. My husband wants me to come and see him. Hes training for iraq.. hes 2 hours away. Well, I HATE to travel cause i have high anxiety and he knows that. I dont mind going with anotherperson but not by myslef. I will get lost and its soooo hard to get there. I see him a lot cause i dont go by myself but this time the girl who goes with me (she sees her husbad too) Well my husband has been a real prick *** to me bossing me around and treating me like dirt (NO excuse hes fighting for our country. i dont deserve it. he signed up) im seeing him for a week in 2 weeks. shoudl i go with the anxiety i have and panic the who;e time?

2007-07-25 16:08:08 · 27 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4

I Have been a stay at home mom for most of my marriage,I started my own business a few months ago, it is a paint and decorative paint business. I am getting work but not on a regular basis yet, I'll have a great week and then a few weeks not so great. I know it takes a while to build a business and get my name and reputation known in the community.My husband changed jobs and took a cut in pay and lost our insurance benefits without much thought. He wants me to go to work full time, 8 to 5, 40 hours a week making ten dollars an hour to pick up his slack, because now we are struggling to pay the bills.And I can pick up the insurance he gave up.Some weeks I make more than I could in a month and some weeks I barely make anything.He is not ambisious at all and thinks being safe and making a little check every week is better than owning a business. I will never have anything if I do it his way. He took the cut in pay and lost the insurance,I think he should fix what he broke not me.

2007-07-25 15:55:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

that is what about 80 percent of the women say on here. So, a question for you. If, for some reason, you decided to pay for a male escort, does a 6-7 inch do the trick or, do you want MORE for your money? Is this a case where size does matter?

2007-07-25 15:48:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would you do

2007-07-25 15:45:27 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1

just read this question about bachelor parties and the answers left me with a very negative surprise.
anyway, i dont see the use of these parties. its not like people go in a marriage as a virgin and just before they get married you have to expose to them to the other sex? as an adult we all had sex before, saw and touched. how desperate can one be to need such things? i really think its extremly immature.

2007-07-25 15:16:06 · 10 answers · asked by not this way 5

Eye drops can make you vomit and have diahrea. I want to know if there is anyone out there who has had this done to them. This has been going on for about 3 months before I realized what was happening. I just thought she was a really bad cook.

2007-07-25 15:15:46 · 20 answers · asked by angelsrwe3 1

We were married for 11 years. We have three kids together. I LEFT HIM. I left him because he was extremely verbally and metally abusive. I left SIX years ago. He's getting remarried in October and it really bothers me. I don't know if it's because of my kids being around this woman who I can't stand or if it's because it breaks my heart that it didn't work. My parents have been married for 42 years. Dammit, that's what I wanted. We will not sit together when our children marry. We will not wait for the births of our grandchildren together. I'm just so sad even after all this time that we didn't make it. I still care for him, but I know I made the right choice in leaving. What the hell is wrong with me???

2007-07-25 15:14:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband wants sex at least once a day. He has cheated in the past. I feel like if I don't give it to him everyday, he will cheat again. What should I do? Don't tell me to leave him. I seriously need to know what to do......

2007-07-25 15:06:35 · 27 answers · asked by Damon ♥ Elena 6

to go to a bachelor or bachelorette party if there were going to be strippers there? My boyfriend had a friend who got married several years ago, they were a white couple. Nine months later they had a baby and family and friends were all there. Well needless to say, the baby came out African American. Turns out she screwed the stripper at her bachelorette party. Do you think it's respectful to your partner to go even though they are up to no good?

2007-07-25 14:54:51 · 10 answers · asked by Cali Mom 2

My husband went to a bachelor party a year ago. At the time I didnt have a problem with it. I was aware that there were going to be strippers there, but I thought 'Oh well its just a bit of harmless fun'. However I now have discovered the true extent of what happened that night with the strippers. It wasnt just a simple act of taking their clothes off, they used toys and acted out various sex acts etc. I am horrified by what took place, and feel disgusted. My husband seems to think Im over reacting to this, but I truely feel sickened by their acts, and betrayed by my husband for watching this and never telling me what went on. Is this kind of thing the norm at these events, and am I being unreasonable?

2007-07-25 14:33:03 · 68 answers · asked by Krissie 3

I was with to a heroin addict for 5 years before I left her. Now she's been clean for 7 months and wants me back. She also had a relationship with another guy while we were apart. Is 7 months long enough to know she's changed? Is she still worth it?

2007-07-25 14:15:47 · 10 answers · asked by sticks 2

2007-07-25 14:00:40 · 16 answers · asked by Geah 3

2007-07-25 14:00:15 · 6 answers · asked by ceet 1

2007-07-25 13:30:50 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

hello i met a girl in January 2007 we fall in love and we talk continuously 14 hour/daily with each other but due to some family dispute i told her (in july) that our marriage is not possible she look upset that time but right after 2 days her marriage is fixed .. and after 2 days i realize i cant live without her so i call her and talk to her but she refuse. I talk to her mother she said come and take her but again girl is not agree she is saying its not good. her mother told me that they want me to marry her her father dont like that guy but due to some circumstances they fix that marriage and he is saying now he will refuse that guy but now my love is saying this is not possible cause everyone knows her engagement is fixed. please help me guy i want my love back what should i do now.

2007-07-25 13:24:03 · 10 answers · asked by aryan181 2

lara c has been on this board for weeks now misrepresenting herself as a cheated on wife when she is actually an ex girlfriend who has been repeatedly trying to fool people into giving her information on how to break up her exboyfriends marriage. do you think this pregnant , desperate single woman is especially pathetic?

2007-07-25 13:03:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-25 12:59:09 · 5 answers · asked by mangolove 1

now im 20yrs old and i want to leave the relationship but i feel i need him in my life. i've been with him for 3yrs he has helped me so much in my life. he protects me from anything that comes my way. yet he hurts me so much. he tells me he loves me and i want to believe him but the fact of knowing that his married kills me inside. when i bring the subject up of his wife he tells me he dont kiss her or have any kind of sexual intercourse with her. i want to believe him because he spends so much time with me. ive never have asked him to leave his wife because i knew from the beginning of the relationship he was married. now that we have been together for 3years he has been telling me he wants to leave his home to be with me. im so confussed because i want him to be with me but i dont want him to leave his kids. i tell him to wait two more years until im done with school. but im afraid of what the future might hold for us.

2007-07-25 12:58:15 · 17 answers · asked by why me?? 1

2007-07-25 12:45:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'll try to sum this up quickly. Ever since college my husband has been unsure about his career. He got a history major b/c he didn't know what to do and thought "I can always teach." Soon after college he married and joined the Army - again avoiding choosing a life career for the next 4 years. After the Army he got a job at a factory b/c the pay and benefits were good. Once again, avoiding the career issue.

Now he's frustrated with the factory job (he can't really advance like a professional would). He wants to find his career. He hates math and science so med school and engineering and electrical and other such jobs are out. He has no interest in law school. So we're back to teaching. But we can't support a family of 5 on it and pay off debts.

Any other career ideas? And guys....can you tell me if is this a common problem with men??

2007-07-25 12:43:01 · 13 answers · asked by Veritas 7

I have been married to my wife for near on to 5 years now, last year we went through a very bad patch with money and during this time my wife cheated on me a few times on nights outs with her friends though she swears none of these times lead to sex just kisses, though I did find emails and txt messages from a couple of the guys that she was still in contact with. when I found out and confronted her we spilt up for a short while but got back together and she swore things would change I later found out she was still in contact with one guy (diffrent guy from the ones before) and after a weekend away with me she slept with him on the night we returned, I chose to forgive her and move on as I wasn't as model husband I never cheated on her but didn't give her the attention needed. we are currently together but not living together and its been a while but I can't forget what she never starts sex anymore and says she just isn't sexual person but she jumped into bed with another man.

2007-07-25 12:41:43 · 27 answers · asked by TJ 3