to go to a bachelor or bachelorette party if there were going to be strippers there? My boyfriend had a friend who got married several years ago, they were a white couple. Nine months later they had a baby and family and friends were all there. Well needless to say, the baby came out African American. Turns out she screwed the stripper at her bachelorette party. Do you think it's respectful to your partner to go even though they are up to no good?
2007-07-25 14:54:51 · 10 answers · asked by Cali Mom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm against either person in the relationship to go to a bachlor/ette party where there will be strippers.
It is disrespectful to your partner.
2007-07-25 15:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sumie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the couple but I truly think that having a stripper at your bachelorette/bachelor party is not a real big deal unless you're starting a marriage of mistrust. Sure people can get stupid and do stupid things. Sounds to me like the people in your story weren't ready for marriage. I had a stripper at my bachelorette party and my husband and friends went to a strip club. If he screwed someone
2007-07-25 22:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by ♥§weetiepie♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough question:
I really think the answer lies within you and how much you trust your boyfriend.
The temptions are there, especially with all the drinking going on.
I know every time a bachelor party comes up, us (women) just cringe.
And the men say "well it's the same as you going to a bachlorette party", well no it's not. I think men get tempted way easier than us women do.
But again, it all comes back to how much you trust him.
And if it's going to cause a fight, is this something that is worth fighting about?
2007-07-25 22:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The story about the couple that you shared is ridiculous... I can't imagine anyone being so stupid.
Yes, I would go to a bachelor party and let my s/o go. If people started screwing ... I'd leave and I wouldn't be with a man that didn't have a lick of sense.
2007-07-25 22:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by Bentley 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not the party that is the issue, it is trust in your partner that is the issue. If they are up to that kind of 'no good' then break up because situations like this will come up more than just once.
I hope your friend's husband got a clue.............
2007-07-25 22:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by msims52 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not respectful. I think that what you said in your question is terrible. I can not think of something worse then that at the moment. I am speachless!
2007-07-25 22:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what the question is, but I'd dump her and try again with someone better.
2007-07-25 22:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if he wanted to go I would let him go! It has to be about trust!
2007-07-26 03:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF U TRUST 1 ANOTHER. YALLS WORD IS YALLS BOND. THE REAL Q IS DO U TRUST YOURSELF? 1LOV
2007-07-26 02:32:03 · answer #9 · answered by million 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehehehehe....what?
2007-07-25 22:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋