OK. My husband wants me to come and see him. Hes training for iraq.. hes 2 hours away. Well, I HATE to travel cause i have high anxiety and he knows that. I dont mind going with anotherperson but not by myslef. I will get lost and its soooo hard to get there. I see him a lot cause i dont go by myself but this time the girl who goes with me (she sees her husbad too) Well my husband has been a real prick *** to me bossing me around and treating me like dirt (NO excuse hes fighting for our country. i dont deserve it. he signed up) im seeing him for a week in 2 weeks. shoudl i go with the anxiety i have and panic the who;e time?
2007-07-25 16:08:08 · 27 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then YOU put up with his treating you like a bag of sh1t and then let me ask you if you want to go and see him.
2007-07-25 16:12:48 · update #1
I AM SOOO FU*KING TIRED OF HEARING HIM HIM HIM HIM...HE LEFT ME..HE SIGNED UP CHRIST, IF HE CHEATED ON ME, WOULD THAT BE OKAY TOO?
2007-07-25 16:16:48 · update #2
well, im going to see him tomorrow.
2007-07-25 16:46:39 · update #3
some people are way too immature to have ever gotten married... so sad.
2007-07-25 16:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by burnttoast97 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I guess you have your side ,maybe he's a little tense on where he is going we guys take it out on the one we love so maybe you should try an be a bit more humble, An go an see him, even for a few hours.It will help him with what he is facing.as he's not going on vacation.He's going to war.But if you so chose to not go than so be it. I imagine you will get some negative feed back from this site. Your call your only his wife.Find some places along the way to stop have lunch or something. Take a friend.Best of luck we sure are proud of what he's doing . give him our thanks & God Bless Him & you for your support.Be safe.
2007-07-25 23:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go see him, but first talk to a doctor you may need some type of anti-anxiety medicine. Don't take the people you care about for granted that they will always be here. Go with a friend or relative and make it fun.
2007-07-25 23:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by Vegas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!! Because he is your husband and say something happens and he has to leave for Iraq early...then what will you do????? Go she him he needs you... chances are the reason he is being a prick is because he has to go to Iraq...which is the last place he probably wants to be!!! I understand you have anxiety or whatever try asking another friend or take a bus!
2007-07-25 23:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by girly27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that will feed the fire. Just make sure you address why he's been treating you badly. Also, he must love you if he wants to see you. Maybe you should get stress counselling.
EXTRA- Honey you are saying that he 'left you' and is an ******** to you. Firstly, it sounds like he's just following his dream and you won't support him- thats NOT a marriage. Secondly, you sound very self involved and a total drama queen. If you are so 'anxious' and stressed and unhappy- leave him then. Also- you need to grow up.
2007-07-25 23:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by Renesme 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is this English?
If he's a jerk, don't put up with that. But you should go see him. It's 2 hours... puhlease... that's nothing. My bf trained in Fort Knox which was 6 hours from me and I visited him as often as I could. You'll be fine. Bring your cell phone.
2007-07-25 23:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, you should go. he's your husband. take a xanax and go. life is too short.
If you are unhappy in your marriage...get a divorce. If not, work it out.....be a grown up and accept your decisions. If he is being mean to you, then re-evaluate your life together. In the meantime...go see him. how would you feel if something happened to him and you never had the chance to see him again?
wow...you are just a bit unsettled, aren't you?
2007-07-25 23:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter how he acted you should go that's you husband. And you don't want nothing happening to him right? Forgive him. Ask someone else to do. I'm sure there is somebody. Anyway good luck with everything!
2007-07-25 23:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by I can only be me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what your consious tells you otherwise if anything happens to him in Iraq you are going to spend saying I wish I did this I wish I did that, and finally when he comes back leave him.
2007-07-26 00:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by maram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I would not go.
He does not have the right to treat you like this. You both need to see a marriage counselor. Go by yourself if he won't go. Check out this link:
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi7100_counselor.html
2007-07-25 23:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, If it causes you anxiety then don't go. You won't have fun, and then your time with him will be ruined. Unless you have meds that will help you. He has no right to treat you wrong. If he loves you he would understand.
2007-07-25 23:12:49 · answer #11 · answered by salvation 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋