One of my problems is that i am afraid to be alone.
2007-07-25 08:49:59 · 7 answers · asked by bere 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are going through a divorce, obviously it's time for you to move on. Moving on, does NOT mean getting with another man though, it means moving past the marriage that failed.
Being afraid to be alone is precisely one of the reasons to make sure you aren't dating. You will make a bad decision for the wrong reason. Until you can be okay with yourself as yourself and by yourself, your head isn't clear enough to be getting into another relationship. That's my opinion, given what you've said.
2007-07-25 08:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Weren't you alone before you were married?It's not bad you have no 1 to pickup after.Come an go at will.Find someone to talk to.Not argue.Do something with yourself at work. Famly.Find a girl friend,Guys as friends know will only complicate your life more than it is.Been there it will be ok in time.
2007-07-25 16:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If by moving on you are speaking of getting into another relationship than I say don't rush it...if you are afraid to be alone than deal with that first...if you can't get alone with yourself and be confident single you will always look for your identity in your partner and that is unhealthy. We are all human and all fallable and looking for someone else to tell you who you are is only setting yourself up for disappointment and hurt....learn to love you all by yourself and then find someone who can appreciate and love who you are.
2007-07-25 15:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by Notagain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've answered your own question. It's time for you to move on if you're in the process of a divorce.
I suggest talking with a therapist regarding your abandonment issues and your fear of being alone.
I think you need to spend time with yourself to evaluate what happened in your last relationship and prevent getting in to a repetitive cycle of failed relationships.
2007-07-25 15:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by broncoFan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be afraid to be alone, sometimes it is better.
When u really feel ready to move on, then u should, until then... dont do it, it could lead to bad relationship or things that u are not ready for.
2007-07-25 15:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by americangurl_28 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh no, because IF you move on you are guarateed to make the same mistakes.
Seek therapy and find SELF love, which means you are never alone!
2007-07-25 15:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your divorce is final, so there is nothing to use against you in court. Get a cat. Good luck to you.
2007-07-25 15:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by bluebird 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋