Marriage & Divorce - 14 July 2007

I soon to marry a man that feels as though he shouldn't reveal how much he makes in a year. Is this right?

2007-07-14 12:37:53 · 31 answers · asked by pug 1

2007-07-14 12:30:19 · 16 answers · asked by aruna w 1

So I have full physical and sole custody of my 16 month old son. His father (who failed to appear for mediation and the court date) is now threatening to overturn the judgement!! Giving himself full and sole custody and allowing me supervised visits!!! Along with moveing out of state (CA). I may not be super mom, but he is never hungry, dirty, unattented, in an unsafe enviornment, and more than anything LOVED!! I guess my question is what if any reprocautions he can seek on reversal of custody in to his favor?

2007-07-14 12:26:48 · 7 answers · asked by C_U_L8R 1

I don't understand why people don't have to pay some fine, do community service, or something if their partner has prove that their cheating. Where is the logical in this. Its illegal to be married to more than one person at a time but if a married person cheats then its okay. I just don't get it. Its like people have to put some type of punishment in their prenup or something.

2007-07-14 12:15:18 · 11 answers · asked by jason j 3

My husband and I have had our share of bad things going on and we've hurt each other enough. We plan of divorcing but we want to live close to each other, do shared parenting, take the kids places together and remain friends. Both of us are willing to try and remain friends and not make it a hugh mess. Neither one of us really wants it that way. We want to work everything out between us from possibly doing the divorce ourselves just have an attorney oversee it to splitting up our household. My family doesn't think it's possible. But in my heart I'm hoping it's possible. Am I being blind? Or could it happen?

2007-07-14 12:12:59 · 14 answers · asked by Tara C 2

So we went to the mall this weekend and HE suggested ring shopping. We've discussed marriage and know it's what we want but more importantly we both understand that it's not something that we want to do until we're BOTH financially stable or at least done with school (i'm not done, he is). We're going to struggle through a bit of a long distance relationship for about 6 months starting this fall so that I can continue my schooling in SC while he is in OH finishing out the lease on his apartment (which he can't get out of).

My understanding was that we were going to wait for a while to move forward with anything but the ring shopping caught me by surprise since that wasn't something we really thought was appropriate at this time.

Thoughts on why he may have done this.

PS. don't get me wrong i would LOVE to have a diamond on my finger but that's all, i'm not ready to plan a this upcoming week let alone a wedding.

2007-07-14 12:11:57 · 11 answers · asked by laughalot 2

My fiance had plans with me to help paint a new rental property I bought. I came home and he was next door. I called him. He said he would be over soon. There is a girl there that I suspect likes him bc she flirted heavliy with him once right in front of me. I was curious so I walked over there. He didn't look like he was leaving. It looked like he was about to sit down and there was a bunch of people.When he saw me he said that now that I was there I should stay and blurted out that I need to sit between he and Mary (the girl) and that I came over bc I am jealous. I said I didn't give a **** if she sits next to him out of humiliation. He insisted I stay. I found out her man broke up w/her. After a while I gave him a look to leave and paint. He said he doesn't want to and said a few times if I am not having fun to leave out loud.He said if I didn't show up asking him to leave we would be painting. The girl left. He is still there.Could he like her or am i paranoid?

2007-07-14 11:54:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I am 14 years old... (15 in january) and my parents have been divorced for a few years now. I see my dad every other weekend, and I really dont like going to his house anymore. Quite frankly its getting old, and I need to stand up and say that I don't want to go anymore.

How do I tell him?

2007-07-14 11:44:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has never complimented my green eyes. come to think she has only given me about 6 compliments in 16 years of marriage. is this normal? i tell her how beautiful she is more times than I can think. is green eyes a turn off??

2007-07-14 11:34:30 · 21 answers · asked by Roger R 1

DO NOT TELL ME HOW TERRIBLE OF A FATHER HE IS!!! You don't know what his ex is putting him through. I just need to know how he would do it. He's leaving for Iraq for 2 yrs soon, and if he has to worry about his ex doing what she is...he will die!

2007-07-14 11:19:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been in a long term relationship for 2 years. He's a great guy, he's kind, affectionate and always puts me first. He's talked about us getting married, I feel as though I have my family and his families expectation that we will. The idea of marrying him however does not fill me with excitement, all I feel is indifferent to the idea. I can't even figure out what depth of feeling I have for him, I love him but I can't figure out how if I love him as a lover or as a brother. We rarely have sex because I just can't face it at times and when we do, it's over in less than a minute. I thought long term love involved feeling mentally connected and passionate - I've had that in previous relationships. However like I said nobody has treated me as well as what he has and I feel like a fool for even having these doubts, I have no one to talk to as everyone is so quick to tell me how great he is they don't want to hear about my own fears.
I feel alone.

2007-07-14 11:17:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's a saying "its not where he's at but where he wants to be" meaning it doesnt matter that the man is with you , if he still calls the ex or messes around or what not that he really wants to be with her but if thats true why would he stay with his new wife? what do you guys think if a man cheated with his ex before is that what he really wants or does it only matter about who he is with?

2007-07-14 11:08:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even if you've known this person for years and still don't know what they are, any advice?

2007-07-14 11:03:15 · 11 answers · asked by perrygreenwich 3

I am divorced, and thought it would be a good thing to fight for 50% parent time with my kids.
I never realized how painfully boring sitting home with my kids all the time would be. Am i just not going to be able to have a social life unless i just pay child support and ditch the kids?

2007-07-14 11:02:14 · 10 answers · asked by ohmyhead69 1

My husband had 2 children with his ex girlfriend they 2 and a half and almost 5 years old. We have a child together also who is 17 months. When we lived near the ex, there was never a problem with us keeping the kids. Then about 6months ago we moved about a hour and a half away. Recently the children came to visit for a month and we decided we wanted them to live with us. When my husband talked to the kids mom during their visit with her, she said no to them living with us and then went home refusing to let us see the children. they have joint custody so we can get visitation but there are many reasons they should live with us. her house is disgusting with flies and food etc.. the childrens teeth are rotting out , they dont get bathed properly and cant even say abc's or 123's and she wants to send the 5 yr. old to kindergarden ! my mother in law says "well she's still hurt that you (husband) went and started another family" but they were no longer together and she has a new ba

2007-07-14 10:56:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met a great guy; and we hit it off on all levels... i want to keep seeing this guy; but i'm willing to still stay with my husband. He says he's not happy with this situation; but he does not want to let me go... I still love him; but I want to keep seeing the other guy... is this selfish of me... even though I was honest enough to tell my husband about the affair?

2007-07-14 10:39:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-14 10:35:05 · 8 answers · asked by mia 1

does not have any children. I went to the Dr. last week and she prescribed me some pills to help me become pregnant. The reason I lost trust is because I found out he was cheating in Jan. 2007, when I heard the females #, I called her & met with her, she is 46 and she claims that she did not know he was married.She claims she did not know but now she knows. I dont have proof but I feel she is still around. I have not said anything, but a week ago I found out about another female. She sent him a text through his cell phone and I saw it. My husband dont know that I know a lot of things that I do know, but I love him and I am trying very hard to fix it. Iam going to college right now, I have 2 years left. I am hurting very bad, please give me some positive advice. By the way I am 34 and he is 41. Please help me. I do know that some things cannot be fixed, but I tried. We are all human and sometimes we all make stupid mistakes. Thank You

2007-07-14 10:24:55 · 24 answers · asked by mustluv50 1

2007-07-14 10:21:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my early 20's - hubbys a bit older than me, we have been happily married 6yrs now, have a lovely four year old child and im nearly 7months pregnant.

He told me today that he's had enough of me, i only asked him if the lamb that i was about to eat looked right (it looked pink) & he started screaming at me saying "are you out to p*** me off, r u saying i cant cook properly you f* in this - you f* in that. i know he's not having an affair etc but weve been arguing all day and tonight he broke some cupboard doors in the kitchen and smashed plates and cups everywhere.
Hes gone out to the pub now and his parting words were (looking at the destruction) look at what you made me do.He said hes leaving in the morning..
i feel as though i keep saying the wrong thing to him, hes never been like this before but one thing he did say was whatever you do with your pregnancy etc you f* get on with it and dont expect owt from me.will some1 just tell me that il be ok soon sorry 4 rantingx

2007-07-14 10:19:58 · 15 answers · asked by prg 2

2007-07-14 10:09:31 · 9 answers · asked by shayne_h_1999 2

My parents went through a divorce in Ohio in 2000. My father got full custody of me and my old brother, I was only 6 at the time. After we moved to North Carolina and then to Arkansas. The mom moved to California and then Georgia. What I want to know is the legal age to decide my parent, my father told me 18, but my mom 14. I am 14 right now, and I want to live with my mom, since I've gone 8 years without her. My mother can't afford a lawsuit, so I want to make sure I have legal rights. And if the age is 18 then how do I get emancipation?

2007-07-14 10:04:18 · 11 answers · asked by artsy_indian_chic 2

im getting married in about 5 months. my fiance and i have known eachother for about 1 year and we have been on and off him and i go really serious really fast and he asked me to marry him. i said yes and i do love him but im not sure if its its that kind of love that makes a marriage work. again im not sure if this is the person that i want to spend the rest of my life ( and eternity) with and i dunno if i want to make children with him. i just graduated high school last year and im a freshmen in college and im getting ready to get married! im really nervous about the whole situation. i want to talk to him about it but im really not sure how he will react. he seems like her really does love me, but im not sure if i can make out marriage last a lifetime. what should i do

2007-07-14 09:56:24 · 22 answers · asked by UW2010 3

No quest. really - just what I believe I am ready 4 in my life. Shame cause need the man 2 have that baby ... ;)

2007-07-14 09:55:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married for 9 years and just got divorced last year. we have been separted for 21/2 years now and i really missed him. So I took him back and now i remember why i got divorced.. now i am scared to tell him that idon't want this realationship we have been back together for two weeks. What can I do?

2007-07-14 09:48:13 · 23 answers · asked by Mz.G 2

They live in Mississippi and he said he wanted to see their daughter and took her to Alabama and says he is not bringing her back. Does anyone know if there is anything she can do to get her daughter back?

2007-07-14 09:47:16 · 20 answers · asked by BeThAnY 4

i feel like im going crazy.me and my husband have been together for 6yrs now.we have been living with his mum and dad for 1yr now he has not got a job im living in his country so i have lauage problem to work.he his stuck to his mum like glue.his mum does not make it any better she does everything for him we dont do anything together.should his mum be telling him to be more of a husband??we are living at his parents coz of him waiting on his visa.his alot older than me.we have been married 6yrs today and its like it does not matter his mum is a very snicky women if we are in the bedroom she always just comes in.his says to me i should be thankfull for what his family looking after us but i im not being ungratfull but i dont ask to live like this please give me some genune advise no wise cracks please!!!

2007-07-14 09:35:59 · 22 answers · asked by pinkktten 1

2007-07-14 09:35:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-14 09:31:36 · 11 answers · asked by m's 1

2007-07-14 09:30:20 · 20 answers · asked by joe z 1