I am ready 4 a family.?

Question

No quest. really - just what I believe I am ready 4 in my life. Shame cause need the man 2 have that baby ... ;)

Edit: I want 2 have 1 happy healthy baby whichever God will give me.

Hey ... b kind - Ima sharn ;))

I have 2 cats lol my babies

Duckie -- I never said I would have a baby w/o a husband ...

Answer 1

good for you !! you do not necessarily need a man to have a baby but it would make things easier lol a sperm bank is always an option !! just make sure you are ready and have a nice secure environment for a baby to live in good luck i hope everything works out for you !!

Answer 2

Are you able to take care of yourself and another person. Do you have the money and time for having a baby. Like other said you do not need a man, if you want to start a family you need money and time. Time is the most important thing, unless you want someone else to raise and take care of the child for the first few years. A child should be first and foremost in your life if you bring the child into the world. If you are just looking for a man and have a child to make him stay with you, that is a very bad plan. I hope this information helps you decide.

Answer 3

If you aren't married, then you are definitely not ready to have a baby. Why would you even consider it? A child deserves a mother and father, both comitted to raising and loving it. If you are deliberately trying to cheat a child out of having a loving father, you are being extremely selfish and self centered. Also, one parent homes are mostly living in poverty. How will you provide for a child? What chance will it have of going to college? What chance will it have in life when it has to compete with other kids who DO come from a real home? Again, you need a husband in the home to give your child the best chance in life. The jails are full of boys that grew up without a father. Don't be so selfish.


Kent in SD

Answer 4

I do have a husband and before he left to Iraq I told him that I wanted to have a baby but he told me that he wasn't ready for that. He told me that we were going to start a family until he turned 25 and that's in 3 more years cause he is going to turn 22 in August. What you can do is buy yourself a small dog. I treat mine like a baby cause in reality they are like humanbeans. Good Luck and God Bless

Answer 5

So ya think you're ready for a family. Doya also have all that it takes to provide and raise a family over the next minimum of 18 years??? And how many have ya decided to have in your 'family'???

Answer 6

Brooklyn 226 if your bored rent a movie at least you can bring that back when your done with it. Having a child is more than an impulsive thing.If you are looking for guys who want to have sex im sure you will get lots of responses to this.

Answer 7

Get a dog a bird and some fish.
Busy hands are happy hands. You will also be responsible for anothers stomach and well being.
Get some practice please!! being a single mom can be very stressful so yoou must leran to mulit task ASAP.
Good luck

Answer 8

Do what I did.

Get a dog.

Bam, your house becomes anarchy, just like a family does :p

Answer 9

not necessarily. There is always adoption or you can go to a sperm bank and have one on your own. Just know single parents have to work twice as hard, they have to be mom and dad.

Answer 10

I'm sure you could form a line of willing sperm donors providing that you signed a document that---after the deed was done...NONE OF THEM WOULD HAVE TO FINANCIALLY SUPPORT OR CARE FOR YOUR CHILD!