2007-07-14 09:31:36 · 11 answers · asked by m's 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It isn't!!!!!!!!!
Decide what it is you want, devise a plan on how to get it, and go for it. It is only the fearful, meek, and irresolute who do nothing.... and nothing is a decision!!!..... If there are things in your life that are unsatisfactory, ditch them... In fact one way to order your life is a little phrase that I picked up long ago at a time management seminar:
Do it now,
Delegate it now, or
Ditch it now..
It un-clutters your life and helps define your goals.
2007-07-14 09:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Routines are hard to break and start new ones. The heart can't always keep up with the head either. Even though you are doing the right thing it's still difficult to start over.
It's a process but everyday it goes more and more into the past and new memories and new routine begin to emerge.
Take it easy but take it.
2007-07-14 09:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by theladygeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's in large part due to the fact that people in general like feeling sorry for themselves. Everyone does it and sometimes it takes a lot of effort to get ourselves out of that mode. You can't move on without getting past self-pity though.
2007-07-14 09:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Faerlyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
living in the past is common if you are uncertain of your future. a book that has helped me move forward was/is the Secret, i highly recommend it
2007-07-14 09:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U got to shake off the insecurity and fear and grab your life by the balls!!
2007-07-14 09:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this ones simple BECAUSE YOU HAVE NOT DECIDED TO YET. When you actually decide then you will make changes to your routine which will actually help you to move on.
2007-07-14 09:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by brian m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please always remember that you can do anything you choose to do! That is the secret. Of course that doesnt mean you can be mean and cruel to others. But you can better yourself and your life w/o affecting others.
BELIEVE IT!
2007-07-14 10:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving "on" isn't what is difficult -- it is understanding why you feel stuck in a quagmire......take off your "shoes", your feet won't feel so heavy.........Madison from: i-need-help-please@yahoogroups.com
2007-07-14 09:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by madisonfoxe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be strong.and you will get there you need to find your self again spend some time on your own for you to love spending time with your self then other people will love spending time with you..
2007-07-14 09:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by pinkktten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk but it sucks...a guy broke up wuth me a year and a half ago and i still thing about him and i can't move on..i have it in my mind that i will never love anyone other than him..it sucks..
2007-07-14 09:34:33 · answer #10 · answered by needanswers99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋