Even if you've known this person for years and still don't know what they are, any advice?
2007-07-14 11:03:15 · 11 answers · asked by perrygreenwich 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to build trust and have good honest communication. I never told my first wife any of mine because I didn't really trust her with them. I was always afraid she would humiliate me or use them against me somehow. I am, however, completely comfortable tell my second wife about all my fantasies.
2007-07-14 11:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by me2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh that's not a good sign. It seems like lack of trust. Begin by talking to your mate about these thing and then just ask. If you have a good relationship there should not be any secrets, not even like these.
2007-07-14 18:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by Flaca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her questions or take her to the plase where she thinks is romantic and just start talking to her about those kind of stuff - maybe that you like to fantasize about. some how bring that topic out in the open. if i were you though, make it so not too many people are there just in case, she might be shy about that kind of stuff. you start out and she should follow, trust me if yo want but ive had people do that to me and they brought it out of me like that.
2007-07-14 18:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by Oranges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask them, or wait until they fall asleep. My ex would fall asleep on me occassionally, he worked and went to school and i would talk to him at night. I not only found out what his fantasies were, but i also found out what kind of lingerie he likes and that he can do math while he's asleep. Lol
2007-07-14 18:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Lil love lady ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are personal. If your partner doesn't want to share them, don't push it. You may not want to hear about them anyway, especially if they involve another person. If you want to know what they want you to do, just ask.
2007-07-14 18:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by harleychic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I found that he likes to talk when we are in bed at night and its all dark.....
That's when I ask him questions sometimes I get answers and other times he gets his
2007-07-14 18:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by midnite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just ask? or, start offering up your fantasies without the stipulation of getting his/hers. eventually, he/she may warm up to the subject and interject here and there. just have fun sharing your fantasies with no expectation.
2007-07-14 18:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him what that might be in the evenings when you guys are cozy sitting together or in the bed ................. some men love to talk about their fanasies....
2007-07-14 18:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You start by telling yours, but only if they promise to tell theres to you.
2007-07-14 18:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you reveal yours? Madison: i-need-help-please@yahoogroups.com
2007-07-14 18:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by madisonfoxe 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋