2007-07-14 12:30:19 · 16 answers · asked by aruna w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
honesty is key
without that, you have nothing
2007-07-14 12:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Kaja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better tell him the truth. The truth has a way of always finding a way to come to light. You should not have lied but come clean now and tell him. That is an important thing to have left out when you told him about yourself. Good luck
2007-07-14 19:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont trust him with your honesty so your hiding facts, if he does not accept you for who you are then i am sure you dont want him to love you for who you are not!
Love is honesty and without this love does not thrive. Just set the cat out of the bag. Knowing he will dislike you for the truth who are you playing games with? with yourself??? How can you be happy in such a relationship, you are surely not happy hence you posted this on yahoo. Go be bold and be who you are, being divorced is not a crime.
Just tell him and you will find his true colors, if he diches you, you are lucky, that you knew his true colors earlier than too late.
2007-07-15 12:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by thachu5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was immensely wrong of you to have withheld such a vital information from your husband. You must find a way to tell him about it as early as you can. Delaying could make things worse. And it would be more damaging if he somehow discovered the fact himself before you told him about it. All his trust in you would vanish overnight. So, pronto.
2007-07-15 11:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,Aruna How are you?Always stick to the truth because truth always wins. If you are afraid to lose him and there is no truth to tell him then what do you think will be the result and what about if he finds out?
Thank you
2007-07-17 04:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess, he should know being he is your husband and you took vows to honor or did the excitment of the moment make you forget?
Can't imagin someone forgettig to tell me something that important. Would make me wonder why.
2007-07-14 19:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by theladygeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after one year you will be divorced again, if you dont tell the truth at the beginning.
2007-07-15 08:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by vighnesvaran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later it will come up. If he hears it from you even after a year, it is better than hearing about it at a cocktail party or at a family event.
It will be ugly either way!
Good Luck!
2007-07-14 19:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Marsha J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should tell him about your past life briefly & i am sure if he loves u very much than he acsept u b'cause love base is believe & all the relations are based on this believe. so dont late & tell him now. BEST OF LUCK FOR YOUR NEW LIFE.
2007-07-15 08:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by deep3_mp3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Aruna,
I think I have answered this question before. Is it a mistake you asked twice the same question?
2007-07-16 07:02:36 · answer #10 · answered by bvk41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What made you to conceal this fact. Better tell him at once, if he is also a divorce.
2007-07-17 05:33:02 · answer #11 · answered by ky d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋