Marriage & Divorce - 1 July 2007

2007-07-01 14:12:22 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6

How can I keep from doing great violence to him? The dirty rat came to my house and tried to save me while this was going on.I feel so hurt and betrayed.I feel like packing up and runing away is that normal?

2007-07-01 13:45:53 · 28 answers · asked by sawdust552001 2

She is no longer a wife, she is first and foremost a mother. No sex, no fun really. Ever since our first one was born. - We have two.

I help with my little ones, give them baths, their milk, change them, etc. Tired to try to get her to go on dates, fun ones not just the movies. She cannot go away for the week-end, even when they are at my parents or hers. Don't know what else to do. please HELP!

2007-07-01 13:38:08 · 27 answers · asked by Ainvar 3

I am only 15 right now, and ofcourse I am still a virgin, but what do you think the right age to get maaried at is? and do you think people should only have sex if they are married?

2007-07-01 13:13:26 · 13 answers · asked by wyles s 1

There is an E-book called CATCH HIM AND KEEP HIM that someone recommended as an answer to one of my Q/A. One chapter that got my attention...if your "boyfriend" won't marry you ,HE'S NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU!
Wow, is all I could say....
Ladies, how do you feel??
It seems men ONLY care about looks.They just won't admit to it.
Since it's from a man's point of view...I've got to believe it...YOUR LOOKS MATTER!

Maybe that's what the guy that wrote: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU really meant...

2007-07-01 12:43:09 · 6 answers · asked by Mee-OW =^..^= 7

I have a very important decision to make and I'm looking for some suggestions or whatever here. I am looking to marry my girlfriend at the beginning of next year. I am from the US and she is from Canada. We have talked about living in Canada. The problem though, is if we move there I will have to start school all over again because the college system is different. Plus, I only have $25,000 saved, which is enough to buy a car and a payment on a house, but I will have to pretty much start my life all over again. I have suggested that we wait until the fall when I'll have twice as much money saved up, but she wants to get married at the beginning of next year. What should I do??? Please help!!!!!

2007-07-01 11:32:17 · 12 answers · asked by gododjgjodjod 1

I'm in total despair. I don't see any reason to keep going. We didn't have any kids...

2007-07-01 11:24:55 · 29 answers · asked by Talkingless 1

I have a 3 year old daughter and a 2year old son. Motherhood to me has been terrible not only did I lose respect. For some reason this society thinks that because you are a mother/wife you are now a slave! People are quick to judge,"Why didn't you keep your legs closed", and give you dirty looks if one of your kid cries. Hello? They are kids..You should stay home if you don't want to see any! It seems like a crime.. I'm 23 married for 5 years to a momma's boy and frankly I don't want anymore kids..The one Dr. I've seen refused to do the procedure on me and talked me out of it. But really, I don't want anymore I have a boy and a girl and a husband who seems like my third child!! Why is motherhood so difficult!! Sometimes I want another one but I think that's mothernature just trying to trick me..Motherhood has been a traumatic experience for me..Advice please, don't leave me judgemental comments...

2007-07-01 11:24:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my "other" are going through a custody battle for our son because he has to go to school in the fall (he will be 5). We have shared him 50/50 up untill now.

I want to know if I should go ahead and enroll him in school for the fall, or if the courts would look down on that as I am expecting to have custody?

2007-07-01 11:23:56 · 5 answers · asked by ntlgnce 4

hurt. They might be the same one.

2007-07-01 11:21:45 · 6 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7

i want 2 get married at 26 or 27 and have kids when im 28

2007-07-01 10:44:43 · 9 answers · asked by Goblin: D.M.A. 5

It was my decision to separate. We will divorce. We have twins 1.5 yrs old. Since the separation, i never know what to expect - whether he'll be cordial or angry. Lately, his anger seems worse - he says hes depressed, he says he'd like to "end it all" and/or "run away". His friends have stepped aside while he's going through this, leaving only me a regular face to lash out at. Hes told another friend he thinks he needs help. This friend says i should find him help. Yet, dare i? Already he blames me for all the disappointment in his life now. I can just imagine if that doesnt work for him - another thing for him to lash out at me for. I really dont know what to do, or even who to talk to. . . any suggestions are greatly appreciated.

2007-07-01 10:39:54 · 19 answers · asked by Pooka 1

2007-07-01 10:35:58 · 23 answers · asked by rosangel3@sbcglobal.net 1

It's by choice
So why is that such a hot topic of conversation at family get togethers, Why do they feel the need to try and make me feel inadequate , I have a child and I lead a very productive and happy life, Not one of them is happily married
Are they just jealous because I have my freedom .

I'm not in any way putting down the joining of two lovers I know they're are lots of marriages that are thriving, But most just stay together for all the wrong reasons , To not be alone, Or for the kids, Financial reasons But if your miserable why waste your life away .

I just never wanted to get to the point where you take each other for granted Maybe I sound synical but it's a choice I've made and I shoulndt have to defend it right?

2007-07-01 10:26:45 · 21 answers · asked by ♥ღ♥ RaVeN ♥ღ♥ 1

How do you tell your spouse that your relationship needs professional help?? I'm so scared to mention it to my husband. I've told him before and every time he just agrees then "forgets" about it cuz he assumes that everything is all fine because we hadn't had any fights in a while..but we really really need counseling. We never talk, never have s*x, never do anything really. It's crazy, it's almost like I married a room mate , not a husband to love and have fun with til death do us part. I don't even know if I have feelings for him anymore because I've put up so many walls to keep myself from getting hurt. I want to be in love again, but don't know if it's possible...I'm just rambling now, sorry..back to the question...so how DO i tell him that?

2007-07-01 10:21:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

so I have to support him while he's with me and while he's with her? doesn't sound like 50/50?

2007-07-01 10:21:42 · 6 answers · asked by chillypowder 3

2007-07-01 10:19:13 · 4 answers · asked by mike r 1

our home life has a greater focus on responsibility, morality, values, and aspirations.

There would be rules at their Dad's house but he/they are more slack in the way that they deal with people. i.e. Saying they'll do something for/with someone and then never following through. Saying they'll pay someone back for a loan or private purchase and never doing it. (Those traits really bother me and I fear they will pass on to my kids if they live there full time.)

Their Dad's school system is not in as good of shape as ours. He/They don't have high aspirations. i.e. Being a laborer is good enough. (It's okay and lots of us live that way, but wouldn't you rather your child reached a little higher--AT LEAST TO START WITH???)

My son and daughter are 12 and almost 14. Are my fears legitimate? Emotionally, as hard as it is, I'm ready to let them go BUT I'm afraid of making a choice that will hamper their future success and immediate best interest.

(I frankly would enjoy being the one they

2007-07-01 10:08:20 · 16 answers · asked by WonderWhy 2

My dad and I have always had a strong relationship untill lately, I'm 13 and I asked my parents if I could highlight my hair and my mom said yes and my dad said no, and i can't help but think that me asking that question helped cause this to happen. My mom has a disease, not deadly, and is sick a lot, when she gets better she usually blames my dad for her being sick in the first place, and it's not his fault. So today they were fighting, again, and my dad just left, he took the pop-up trailer and said that he would be back in a few days. Things like this have happend before but he's always told me that things were going to be okay, he would at least say bye, this time I didn't even know that he was gone untill my mom told me so, he didn't say anything to me before he left and it really makes me think what did I do. I'm sick and tired of my parents always fighting and my mom always being a ***** to my dad and all of it, I want to run away and hang out at my grandmas, help plz.

2007-07-01 10:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting married next month. My grandparents had a passionate loving happy marriage until one of them died. My parent have been married for over 40 years - unhappily. I was wondering what do married couple feel that is the most important advice they could give a soon-to-be newlywed for a long lasting marriage? Keep in mind, he and I are both in our 30's, and is this the first time either of us have been married. What makes your marriage successful?

2007-07-01 09:45:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’m 7 month pregnant and I shouldn’t try sex because of threatened abortion (as my doctor said) but my husband doesn’t accept it. He told me that he will make relationship with his previous girlfriend if…what should I do?

2007-07-01 09:38:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't really believe it's always happy - but did you meet that person you always dreamed of? where?

2007-07-01 09:38:14 · 10 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

Everything I ever try to suggest to him, he has to disagree & say the opposite. Is it just his ego that makes him think i'm wrong all the time? Because a woman can't be smarter than a man? What is it? I just don't know. If I say the sky is blue, he says it's orange. I just don't get this stubborn a$$!!!!!!!! Please explain to me if you know....

2007-07-01 09:20:10 · 21 answers · asked by Ballagirl 2

I met this guy and I think he was flirting with me. He said that he has found an "exceptional person" and recently texted me saying I could text him kinky anytime! No - I didn't text him anything kinky at all?? I am already with someone else and do not want to be cheating. I told him that I was already taken.

2007-07-01 08:37:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-01 08:19:58 · 86 answers · asked by Anonymous

how much do i give my wife out of my wages

2007-07-01 08:15:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married a year and a half age and I recently have gotten back i contact with my ex. Feelings between us are so strong that its hard to not think about her. We have so much of a connection that everyone can see it even people that don't know us. What should I do?

2007-07-01 08:10:32 · 19 answers · asked by Devrin B 2

What would you do if, you were browsing your husband's parent's computer and you saw a picture of him and a girl he cheated on with a couple of months before you got married? How would you treat the friends that knew about it and did not say anything to you? It appears that he sent the picture to his parents. The other girl is a prostitute, by the way. He keeps saying that nothing happend between them but why send a picture to your parents?

would you live him? would you continue on trying to trust him? If he brought you to the states and you have nowhere to run, what would you do?????

2007-07-01 07:57:09 · 14 answers · asked by phlegm1134 1

We are married and have 2 kids. He's thinking about being a barback/bartender and I do not feel comfortable with this. I mean I'm at home with the kids while he goes out and sees women all dressed up for the club, serving them drinks. I guess I just get scared b/c my parents are divorced, mom cheated on dad, then while still married dad dated another woman, divorced my mom and they got married. Should I be concerned or should I be comfortable....if comfortable how can I be?!

2007-07-01 07:49:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I are common law married at his insistance during a past court case. We are pending a dissolution of marriage with children now, and he is getting married today. So, when this woman becomes step mom to my son, if the court uses their combined household income to determine child support will she have parental rights to partake in decisions such as religion, medical, or education for my son? I was told I could ask the judge to use only his income to determine child support and have it wrote into a court order that my child will not be allowed to call her mom but only by her first name, but I am wondering if she could end up with rights and if they get divorced one day, will my son and i be stuck with her in our lives forever? Yikes!

2007-07-01 07:47:27 · 10 answers · asked by CJ 2