There is an E-book called CATCH HIM AND KEEP HIM that someone recommended as an answer to one of my Q/A. One chapter that got my attention...if your "boyfriend" won't marry you ,HE'S NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU!
Wow, is all I could say....
Ladies, how do you feel??
It seems men ONLY care about looks.They just won't admit to it.
Since it's from a man's point of view...I've got to believe it...YOUR LOOKS MATTER!
Maybe that's what the guy that wrote: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU really meant...
2007-07-01 12:43:09 · 6 answers · asked by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have not read the book, nor am i gonna.. i dont read dumb stuff....but, the comment from the book: if your "boyfriend" won't marry you ,HE'S NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU! well, thats just plain b.s.... in this mans honest opinion.
re: It seems men ONLY care about looks.They just won't admit to it.
thats pretty much true.. no man, or woman, i wouldnt think, wants to wake up next to a horrible ugle ogre every morning... so ya, your face, looks matters..
re:Your boyfriend says he's not ready to marry you? hmmm, maybe you should do what mrs nah nah did to me... cant blame her for it and it was quite effective. we were together for quite a while and i was happy with getting the milk without having to buy the cow, and i still dont think it was manipulative on her part either. what she said was true... she said to me at her cousins wedding.. you know, if you arent interested in marrying me, then maybe someone else would be... i changed my mind right quick because it hit me like a ton of bricks... I had never, ever thought of her getting married to anyone else, but, you know what??? she was absolutely right.....25 yrs later..
oh, one more thing... quit buying self help books, and self help books by stupid authors....
2007-07-01 15:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily that at all. It may be he's just not that into you, but it might be something else. He could be afraid of the commitment, he could have had a bad experience with marriage (not necessarily his own), worried that he can't live up to expectations, that he's just not ready (mature enough), unwilling to change, he might feel its too early, or any one of a thousand reasons.
For some one to have said "He's just not attracted" is ridiculous, after all you how did you get together in the first place? There would have to be an attraction there.
Best thing is to ask him.
2007-07-01 19:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The statement 'he's not attracted to you', may not mean only about looks. Someone can have a really unattractive personality and bad character! Or the two of you may just not be a match...
2007-07-02 05:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm
most guys aren't ready for a long time commitment that dosen't mean he
don't love you
he dose he cares for you so what
most guys do't want to get married till there like 25
2007-07-01 19:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got the ebook....he doesnt mean attraction in that sense!! He means attraction in a deeper sense.... he means emotionally not physically. READ IT AGAIN!!! You must have been skimming the book!!!
2007-07-01 19:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel that in most cases it is not about your looks it is about how sexy you are trying to be.
2007-07-01 19:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by ebon@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋